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*ikehimself
writes: Another popular topic around here seems to be threesomes. How to ask, how to say no, it's always a bad idea, etc.I'm curious about how many of you fantasize, or are interested in threesomes, either mmf or ffm, or group sex. Is it really only a guy thing?I'm also wondering, for those of you that have actually had the experience, how did it come about (spontaneously, your/his/her request, owed for previous threesome), what were the circumstances (with a stranger/acquaintance/friend, ages, mmf/ffm, location), was there same-sex moments or action, and perhaps most importantly, how did it turn out (enjoyment) and how did it affect your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): Fantacize? You bet. Although my fantasy is MFM. I'm a guy, and I know I couldn't take care of two girls properly, but it's fun to imagine my gal having all that attention. And no, I'd never do it in a million years, even if she'd go for it, which she wouldn't.
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (24 March 2010):
I would be really uncomfortable. Three's a crowd.
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reader, mikehimself +, writes (24 March 2010):
mikehimself is verified as being by the original poster of the question@eyeswideopen: thanks for the link, though it unfortunately sounds like a pretty terrible experience for this woman.
but surely not ALL experiences are bad. I have read comments from other people that would suggest otherwise. but maybe I misread.
I am not planning on asking my girlfriend for a threesome, if you were wondering. while I share this fantasy with I'm sure countless other people, I recognize it as such. but I am very curious as to the situations in which people have turned this fantasy into a reality. How did it come about? What happened afterwards?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2010):
Hey Mike, read this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/threesome-with-husband---best-friend-gone.html
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