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writes:him im 13 me and my boyf have benn together for 3 months he treats me really well but i think im starting one of his friends, he touches me in all the right places and when my boy friend aint lookin we hold hands and he rubs my bum plz help i dont know what to do Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 At 13 you should keep yourself footloose and fancy free. Don't be in any committed relationship just relax and enjoy your freedom.
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (23 March 2010):
 Well for one thing until you work out what you want to do then you need to stop holding hands with and letting his friend touch you.
At the moment in some form you are cheating on your boyfriend, you need to work out what you want and when you decide make it just that one person.
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reader, nlieu279 +, writes (23 March 2010):
 To me, personally, your bf's friend sounded like a pervert as well as an untrustful friend. I don't think you should continue liking him because he is betraying his friend, would you think he wld be loyal to you or as a matter of fact, I don't feel like your bf's friend would like a commitment like you bf does right now rather than just "in the heat of moment."
If you are looking for a guy who would love you and commit to you, your bf's friend does not seem to fit the category. But it is just me, the decision is still up to you.
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reader, happy140 +, writes (23 March 2010):
 Always remmber the grass is ALWAYS greener on the other side-your loving that extra attention, we all do. Yes hes doing thing for you now and flirting is always enjoyable, however you don't know him-Your boyfriend you know-Hopefully not intamantly yet but you know his good and bad and you feel comfortable with him-he has a place in your haert that makes you feel secure yet this other young man gets you going-Thats because you know its naughty, and you know you have someone your close to--Think about how you would feel if you didn't have your boyfriend, you would want to date him, right??? If he flirts with you like this around your boyfriend do you think he would stop after you started dating him? Is he as caring as the one you chose to date?? It is normal, I think for us all to enjoy that attention-but we need to set boundries and follow thru with them-Remember in this world we all have our word and reputation-what will yours be?? I know we are dating but I liked him more--(really, because he flirted with you?)--and---then you have your reputation as a non comitter, easiled swayed to leave, by someone who you may and may not end up loving-always give yourself fully to those you care about before moving on--then you will never look back with regrets-
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): well, you must be really stupid. people like you are the ones who end up begging for love at the end. anything you do with his friend would definately backfire, and cause more trouble between you three. if you don't like you bf, why don't you tell him that you dont, instead of keeping him hanging, and at the end, he ends up a looser.Besides you're too young for sex now. infact tell that friend of his that God atleast is watching him, and everything he does behind. he must be a fool. why don't you tell him to tell his friend that he's into you so that they both can sort the problem out, instead of you two trying to be more careful if you two really think you're in love?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): i think you should really think about it.
you don't seem certain that you like his friend but if you decide you really do then it isn't fair to your boyfriend to stay with him.
it could also be a good idea to talk to his friend about it...
from what you've said it does seem like he's interested in you but there's no point losing your boyfriend over false signs.
you also need to consider if you actually still love your boyfriend when your starting to be interested in someone else.
the fact that he is your bf's friend shouldn't be a problem if they really are good friends. if they are close i'm sure they wouldn't ruin their friendship over a girl, however great she may be lol
i'm only 15 btw, so believe me, i have been in exactly the same situation :)
good luck xxx
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