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writes:I have been seeing this guy for a week now n we have been very affectionate, we laugh n get along great. We told each other we like one another and it seems were on the same page. I haven't seen him for a couple days n when he told me he would come see me he didn't n ended up being with his boys. Should I cut him off or tell him how I feel. I told him that he is always busy n reminds me of my ex! Was that wrong to say?what should I do?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 March 2010):
 It's only been one week for crying out loud. Kind of soon to be making demands dontcha think?
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 It's been a week - and only a couple of days that you have not seen him! You can't seriously expect him to start altering his schedule based on such a short time spent with someone.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 It may be a taste of things to come or he may have a project or crisis he needs to sort right now, have you asked him?
You will only know for sure after time, but a week is really not long enough. Providing he doesnt have an urgent project or crisis then I would give it at least 4 weeks, if he hasnt paid you attention by then then get out because its obviously bothering you.
He could even be dating other women, playing the field so to speak (and yes this can happen especially if he has been putting himself about).
Have you swapped phone numbers? call him unexpected, catch him off guard and listen very carefully to his voice, you can find out a lot in a voice.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 You have the right to say that to him but whether he gets the meaning or hint or not is another matter.
If you tell your feelings to him , he could feel that you are a tad too demanding of his time. He may not like it if his feelings for you is not strong enough.
You can keep yourself busy with other dates when he is busy.
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