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writes: My question is not because I would ever change myself. I just want to hear what guys actually and truly think. I'm going to name three stereotypical girls. (Only sort of stereotypical, mainly just three different personalities). Tell me which you would choose. Please answer totally honestly. And please just choose one, don't make your own imaginary girl up. If you HAD to choose one, which one? I understand you might not like a few things about the girl, but think about the majority of her. (Note: All these girls are about early twenties).Girl A: Has a long dark blonde-light brown hair. Very petite and tiny. She wears clothes from Interesting places and has this quirky-cute personality. She gets upset about little things when she can't accomplish something. She's very optimistic most of the time though. She's very bold and says exactly what she means. She'll get dirty, if she likes you enough and believes you to be an alright person. But she's also sweet. She likes Indie Rock and has a cute personality. She can't cook that well, but enjoys having guests over. She pretends to be brave, but she's usually not really. She likes someone to hold her and care for her. She does have a temper, but she's good at cheering you up. She sings, 'Forever Young" When she cleans. She's wild sometimes, and quiet sometimes. She's very opinionated. Her nails are always painted various colors and she is truly in heart a little girl. She laughs a lot and cares a lot about other people. She cries when she accidently kills a bug, but she'll stand up for what she believes in and will snap at anyone who is mean. She's also very smart and still in college. She is unsure of her own religion, as she's still trying to find herself. Very free-spirited.Girl B: Very tall and thin with long black hair. She is nice, but has an attitude. If she likes you, she'll do anything to please you. She has a very high sex drive and is very decisive. She doesn't have a very good education but has a pretty good job. She calls you names like, "Daddy". she's always there to back you up though. She's willing to watch football, go to boxing matches (in fact, she'll surprise you with tickets sometimes), and dress up in sexy outfits as a surprise when you get home from working hard all day. She knows what's a mans job and where not to go. She's pretty flexible with plans. She can definitely be in the same room when you make crude comments and have 'guy-talk' with your buddies and she won't get offended. She's got two tattoos, one above her ass and one on her ankle. A few piercing's. She's faithful to you, but is willing to invite a few lesbian girls over to have some fun. She's always willing to have fun. She's usually in a pretty good mood.Girl C: She has blonde hair cut into a cute bob. Thin, average-height. A pretty heart-shaped face. A good old Christian girl. She goes to church every Sunday and helps out with various charities. She is holding her virginity close to her until she gets married. She's very nervous and unsure of herself, but won't show it. She's very sweet and even if she disagrees with something, keeps her mouth shut. It's better to keep your mouth shut and not start a fight, right? She wants kids when she gets married. She'll probably read a lot of baby books and parenting guides. She's a wonderful cook and wants to be a stay-home mother one day. She doesn't drink. But, she's got a little flare. She was raised where her dad was the boss of the family, and she actually wants this when she gets married. She'll obey anything you tell her. Unless it's against some moral belief. Very pretty voice and laugh. You can always count on her. She'll never show any frustration or anger. She'll be in a good mood most the time. She has a good job as a nurse and looks very presentable. After having kids though, she plans to be a full-time mom. She'd be a very good wife. Please, if you read this, answer!! I am so curious to know.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (28 April 2010):
 Pfft, out of these three girls I am most like A, maybe with a little of B in me. Girl C sounds quite boring, if I do say so myself. But then, I'm not religious in the slightest and keeping my virginity until marriage was never a goal of mine.
The reason why I'm commenting on this, even though I'm a female, is because you mentioned that "no guys chose you" because you're an A. That's nonsense. As I said, I am most like A out of the three (with some exceptions), and I've had boyfriends before, and I have to say - most, if not all, of the guys in my life would probably choose A over either of the other ones (some might choose B, also).
This really isn't a good site to conduct surveys like this, haha. The reason a lot of them seem to like C so much is because I've noticed a lot of Christian or religious men on here. Not really a good sample.
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reader, ManAfterChrist  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 To clarify my last post, what I mean is really you are asking this question and getting an answer from the same type of guy. We are not a good sample. A better sample would be asking Facebook friends or something, but of course that wouldn't work out because it wouldn't be anonymous. But you see what I'm saying?
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reader, ManAfterChrist +, writes (27 April 2010):
I'm not going to change my answer, but hey just because most of us didn't choose you doesn't mean another guy won't.
Think about the guys that are on this site. Stereotyping a bit, pretty much all of us are emotional men and are really into serious long-term relationships. The guys on this site all share many of the same traits (yes there are exceptions... but seriously the site is called "dearcupid" for crying out loud).
I've dated girl A before, and it didn't work out because we wanted different things. But she was a great girl and awesome to hang out with. Loads of fun. She's a good girl for another guy, just not me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI understand there's definitely more kinds of girls than there is letters in the alphabet. I was wondering if any of these sounded good. The question was: If you HAD to choose one of these.
I am girl A.
No boys chose me.
See?
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reader, ManAfterChrist +, writes (25 April 2010):
C all the way!I'm a Christian myself, so that has a huge impact on the decision, but she will also make the perfect wife. "A" seems super fun, a great girl to get to know and have as a fun friend. "B" also sounds cool, a lot like my best friend (who is a girl). But "C" is the dateable one. She's the one to marry and grow up with.Interesting question! Thanks for posting it I loved your descriptions!
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reader, Khenygal  +, writes (21 April 2010):
I dont undrstend why u only want guys 2answer you.But well i dnt think they is girl A,B or even girl C, cause if they was then we would have D,E,F,G... We just alitle bit of everything if you ask me. Ill tell you about me for example: Im a christian who wont have sex till marrige, i hang out with my bfs friends and i dont even mind what they say. im very strong and smart , yet im a baby at heart still trying 2find myself and that makes me 2be girl A B and C do you get it. I hope you write back about this...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): B without body art and piercings but C could work.
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reader, Dave70 +, writes (25 March 2010):
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): I date B girls and when I get married I will then settle down with a C. A girls are friends and not as sexy in my book.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): I would pick C not because she knows her place but because out of the three options would be more stable but I could definitely do without the obedience thing. I agree that A sounds childish, melodramatic, and the potential to be too needy or clingy. At least B and C aren't searching for an identity or trying to fill a void.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): Girl B.. Minus the tatts and piercings..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI agree with Katy Did.
Most of the guys are saying C though. I can't believe this. Do you guys really like a woman who knows her place in a man's life? Really!
Why lastly, A? That just makes no sense. She's the artsy, free-spirited one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): I wouldn't choose any of these girls but if I were forced then C followed by B then lastly, A.
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reader, _Katy_Did_ +, writes (25 March 2010):
 You know, it's funny. Because even though I wouldn't date any of these girls (I'm straight) I just thought about would I'd like best as a person. And I don't know, maybe just because I'm a girl, I disliked the two girls who "knew their places ina man's world". I'd totally pick A as a friend. C sounds super lame and too goody goody and B sounds like she'd beat me up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHaha, no, of course not!
This is to ease my own curiosity.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2010):
 We aren't doing your homework assignment are we?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo, most guys like when a woman knows a woman's job from a mans? The type woman who can care for the family and you?
This is what I'm getting, as two people said C and I didn't think anyone would choose her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut the point was, if you HAD to choose one of them.
Only one person was satisfied with these girls, and it was the one I thought no one would pick.
No one looks girl A at all?
But true, there's a zillion other girls. I was just wondering exactly what the ideal girl to YOU would be. So, please explain what your girl D would be like. Would she not be similar to any of these girls?
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reader, mikehimself  +, writes (24 March 2010):
well, given the way you asked your question, I'd say girl C.
with a huge BUT right afterwards.
but you didn't ask for more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): Have to say none of them sound very appealing.
Definitely not Christian girl or tattooed girl - both are a complete turn off if you ask me.
Girl A sounds reasonable but a bit childish, hate the whole Indie Rock thing but I'd probably go for this one if I had to pick one, probably not marriage material though.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2010):
Good call NMN!
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (24 March 2010):
 I don't understand the relevance when there is girl D, E F, .... X, Y, Z.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): Well, because I'm that kind of guy, I'd go for Girl C.
I like having someone there, someone I know I can rely on. I see my girlfriend (maybe later, wife) as someone I can trust and love and respect enough to treat her virginity as what it is: sacred both to her and me.
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