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writes:I'm a 23 year old female and I have 2 kids. A girl aged 4 and a boy aged 15 months.My daughter's father passed away when she was just a year old and I broke up with my son's father when he was still a baby because of his infidelity.I stayed single for a little over a year, I met someone 5 months ago and we lost contact just after a couple of dates. But we resently just hooked up again 2 months ago.I really like him and it seems he likes me a lot too, he is a very nice guy but he only knows that I have 1 child .I want to tell him that I have 2 but i'm scared he'll loose interest in dating a girl with 2 kids and just run the opposite direction.He seems really interested in getting to know my son and seems keep to be part of his life.He aslo has a 18 month old boy
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): your kids are your first priorty. If you have been dating this guy awhile you should have told him about your kids already. If he's as great as you say he is then he won't mind, if he runs then he's an ass who doesn't deserve your time nor energy. That was always one of the first things i would tell guys about myself. How could you not mention your kids? I don't get it. I would wonder if I was dating someone for awhile and they didn't mention their kids right away. It kind of seems like your ashamed or something. Tell him, now.
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reader, Joeyxxox  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 You need to tell him, if you don't and then he finds out it will deffinately cause problems.
He is a father himself and wants to be involved in your sons life, so he obviously likes kids therefore your other child wont be a problem.
And if it is then he's not worth it!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 How does he know about your younger child and not about the older one? Other than telling him about her, what other options could you have?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 You have to take the risk and inform him . It is better this way than for him to find out later.
If he likes you, he would not mind and your honesty will shine through.
You two would make a nice pair with a ready family.
Good luck to you.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 He is a father himself, ..he obviously knows about your son (from your comments) so I really doubt an extra child is going to make him run.
It might tho if you keep this from him and he then gets offended when he eventually finds out.
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