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writes: *OP's own title*I'm in love. It's that simple.We had a little thing 2 months ago. I've liked him 3 years. I waited so long to simply kiss him. My passion for him was wild. And his for me, was too. But in the end, he said being friends is better. We haven't really had a real conversation since.I'm positive I love him though. I've never been so sure. I've had boyfriends and had sex with them and spent months and months with them, but I've always wanted him. I feel sad and sick without him.This isn't just any guy though. He has absolutely no enemies. He's perfectly. Gets very involved in the community. Very kind, sweet, SMART, very very smart with a very good future ahead of him, stylish, etc. Though, he isn't around girls very much. I guess because he's so busy with everything else in his life.He told me so many amazing things, and it only took a few days for my already-strong feelings to heighten. I know he's perfect. I dream of him every night. I can't live right now. He used to feel the same way about me. But how did it change so fast?He seems to have accumulated some sort of feelings for my good friend. Except, she has a boyfriend. It's killing me, not talking to him. Today is his birthday, and it killed me to not call him and tell him I was thinking of him. He told me I was the most amazing girl he'd ever met. I at least wish we were friends again. He was one of my most valued friends.My question is: If you were this boy, would you rather me keep my mouth shut and pretend I don't know you? Or, would you rather me call you or ask you to dinner and tell you all my hidden feelings in hope you either feel the same way or at least I'd have gotten my feelings off my chest. Which one?Boys constantly ask me out. Cute guys, nice guys, but I can't say yes. I'm young and think I should have fun and be happy. But I can't. I want this other boy so badly. Not that many girls like him as much more than a friend, but I could see myself getting quite serious with him. Please help me. I really could use some help.If you have any questions, please ask.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 I think you have fallen off his radar and he can't see you anymore on his screen.
Accept the reality and move on .
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (24 March 2010):
 You are smitten aren't you? Unfortunately it looks all one-sided. You have to realize that there's no future with this guy, he's just not interested. So his loss. Start accepting the other dates. Try to keep yourself from dwelling on this guy, no matter what it takes. Stay busy. Time is your friend.
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