A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: At school there's this boy who just stares at me and messes with me sometimes and he barely knows me, he just knows my name and he constantly stares at me every time he see's me like when the bell rings everyone is in the hall he finds me and stares at me only outta everyone in the crowd and he even said bye to me once, he's kinda a quiet person but people know him because he plays basketball and he's a goodlooking dude i'll give him that but i don't know if he's gay or what because he constantly stares at me like he likes me or wants to say something and i don't wanna talk to him or ask him because i just don't, i can't tell my reasons but he just stares at me. i never thought of him being gay so i don't know if he likes me or sometimes he even watches me go to my car after school when i go home because when i was walking i turned around and he is staring at me so i don't know if he's undercover and likes me or something but im the only one he stares at like that because I've seen him walking down the hall without seeing me, i just wanna know what's going on without asking him what is his problem. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 March 2010):
Ignore him if you don't want to ask him what his agenda is. But the fact that he stares is pretty disconcerting. Are you gay? If yes, do the other kids at your school know you are gay? If yes, then I would hazard to guess he is interested in you sexually. Or worse case scenario is a homophobic and has a problem with your gayness. If you aren't gay, he might be, so you might want to clear that issue up with the lad. So I guess you will really have to speak to him for one reason or another.
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