I'm falling in love with my gay best friend!
Q. i think i'm falling in love with my best friend. only prblem is hes gay and i'm a straight girl. hes so sweet and we get along really well we're so alike and he says nice things to me and compliments me all the time and hes usually really ...
A. 18 November 2010: If you want to allow yourself to be tortured, then far be from me to argue the point. There is no magic wand, either you distance yourself and stay busy getting on with your life or you hang out with him and be miserable. I repeat, this is a no win ... (read in full...)
Why does he always tell me there's someone else when we fight?
Q. Am i insecure when me and my boyfriend get into a argument he saids he got somebody else thats better than me he dont want me he dont want to sleep with me im a turn off he just living with me cause i let him. am i wrong for being insecure? Then ...
A. 17 November 2010: I'd be more than insecure, I'd be royally pissed off at this little ploy. Next time he says he has someone else, tell him to prove it. If he can then show him the door.... (read in full...)
I know I should leave him after his affairs and lies, but I don't want my son to come from a broken home
Q. ok so as you can see rom my other posts I have had a really hard relationship with my boyfriend from the beginning, I will just give you a brief run down. We met in march 2009, he cheated on me within 2 weeks with his ex, then in july I feel pre...
A. 17 November 2010: You have to ask yourself if you are better off with him or if you are better off without him. Think hard and remember you are thinking for both yourself and your son. Your BF will most likely cheat on you over and over again, can you live with that? ... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love with my gay best friend!
Q. i think i'm falling in love with my best friend. only prblem is hes gay and i'm a straight girl. hes so sweet and we get along really well we're so alike and he says nice things to me and compliments me all the time and hes usually really ...
A. 17 November 2010: You, unfortunately, are in a no win situation. This isn't going to get easier for you if you are in constant contact with him. If you can't distance yourself then you'll just have to grin and bear it. With luck maybe your romantic feelings for him ... (read in full...)
How can I help him get through our breakup?
Q. me and my ex were together for a year and 8 months. I really cared for him but was slowly starting to realize that I didn't care for him as a solemate type. Then, I was with a guy who i was very infactuated with before me and my ex started dating ...
A. 16 November 2010: Like a band-aid Babycakes.... (read in full...)
Do red-headed men dig dark skinned women?
Q. i like this red-headed guy but i don't know if he would like me because i am dark complected.so my question is do red headed guys like dark complected girls?...
A. 16 November 2010: Jeeze Louise, Please tell me you aren't really a 26-29 year old asking this ridiculously vague and ambiguous question.... (read in full...)
Regretting marrying my wife as she isnt the woman I thought she was
Q. This is my situation... I am married and have a newborn child (4 months) but I can't stand the fact that my wife was what some might consider a "slut". She slept with 16 guys, slept with a married man regardless of her knowing that was his ...
A. 16 November 2010: I guess she didn't think some of the stuff you are asking her to do WAS fun. You may think it sounds like fun but apparently she doesn't. Why would you want her to do something that she doesn't like?... (read in full...)
Proper etiquette!
Q. Hi, need advice badly. Basically am in a 3 year relationship love my boyfriend very much but cant stand his family. They have no manners. Went to family meal recently his brother made really crude jokes and had a chat about it with his mam. My ...
A. 16 November 2010: You can pick your friends but you can't pick your family. I think if their behavior bothered or embarrassed your boyfriend, he would have said something already (and it certainly should be his call not yours). Since he hasn't then just endure it in ... (read in full...)
Ex wife is hanging onto my family!
Q. The facts: we were divorced a year ago after 3 years of separation and lots of good reasons to split. We have 2 boys, 23 and 19 years old, now out of the house (university and "exploring the world.) I met the love of my life 2 years ago, and am ...
A. 16 November 2010: I'm guessing that you were married to your ex around 20 years. So in my opinion it's rather unrealistic to expect your family and your ex to stop socializing with each other. That's a long history between them. I think you will just have to suck ... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself from falling out of love with my ex? I still want her to be my wife!
Q. My ex gf whipped me. She treated me like shit cheated lied you name it then threw me to the canibals. I went way down had to go on antidepressants. I used to breathe her 24 7 for months and months thinking maybe she would return. I want her to be my ...
A. 16 November 2010: She sure doesn't sound like a doll to me. Life is short unless you marry yourself to a shrew.... (read in full...)
At what age do guys hit puberty?
Q. whatage do guys usually start puberty ? use your own story if you have to . butt my boyfriend is a year younger than me . and I'm pretty sure he hasn't hit puberty . about what age will he , and will he want more sexually activity from me ? please ...
A. 16 November 2010: I thought Justin Bieber was a girl...... (read in full...)
How should a single guy's bedroom look?
Q. Women, if you were at the house of a guy you liked and peeked in his bedroom, what would make a better impression on you: if it looked as though he entertained females there occasionally (candles, incense sticks, queen-size bed, tiny bottle of ...
A. 16 November 2010: Definitely not the playpen, clean would impress me.... (read in full...)
What did having a threesome do to your relationship?
Q. Hi there. I am really interested to know if there is anyone on this site who has tried threesomes. I am not talking about trying for the first time or thinking about it - but am interested in hearing from people who can look back on the experience ...
A. 15 November 2010: It take a particular mind set to handle a threesome and all parties have to have it. Personally I think two's company and three's a crowd.... (read in full...)
Am I being too much of a tease? And how should I let him know that I want to take things slowly?
Q. ok so been on 6 dates with this guy- im 21, hes 22-- have no intention of getting more intimate until much later on in the relationship (im a virgin and believe in waiting until love)... but last night we were making out on his bed (all clothes on) ...
A. 15 November 2010: Yeah, let him take care of his own erection..you stay in control. It's entirely your call how fast you let things happen. He'll respect you for it.... (read in full...)
My parents found out he is married from a private detective, then I heard kids in the background on the phone! Do you think he is lying?
Q. ok i got involved with this guy, and my parents being bossy and overbearing hired a private detective to find out about him, i didnt know this, anyways they came to me and said all these things about him and then they said that they found out he was ...
A. 15 November 2010: He's married with 2 kids! Tell him you'll talk to him after the divorce. I hardly think you are being too sensitive, in fact I think you are being rather obtuse.... (read in full...)
After 5 years and 2 kids, I kissed another man and I think there is something there
Q. iam 24 yrs old and my partner of 5 yrs is 45, we have two children together, however a week ago, i went to a party and kissed another guy, not a random a friend, ive never cheated before and although at the time it was amazing, i felt sooo guilty ...
A. 15 November 2010: Just curious, how old was the guy you kissed?... (read in full...)
Do's and don'ts of a long term relationship
Q. So simple question, what do you guys think are do's and don'ts of a long term relationship(at least more than 4 months). ...
A. 15 November 2010: Firstly I don't think long term is less than at least three or four years. Secondly the do's and don'ts can vary by the personalities involved. These kinds of questions net all across the board answers. In other words, your "simple question" is ... (read in full...)
My man is upset because women don't hit on him?
Q. I am a bit upset at the moment . The man I have been dating just left my home after an arugement . He didn't understand why I would get upset when he started talking about how he wishes women would hit on him ... And I was the only person in four ...
A. 15 November 2010: I think since he talked to you about it he really isn't looking for love, he's just wondering if he's still attractive to women. Don't you enjoy it when you catch some guy checking you out?... (read in full...)
I have a boil down south!
Q. I have a boil "down there" and I am scared that my "guy friend" will think im disgusting. Its nothing bad its not like i have a STD or something its just a boil but it terrifies me that he will tell me to get out. Should i be worried? What should i ...
A. 11 November 2010: You'll be even more embarassed if it turns into a full blown infection. Tell your Mom today.... (read in full...)
Ovulation and how it works
Q. im kind of confused...can someone tell me when ovulation occurs and how it works???...
A. 11 November 2010: Google it, ask your biology teacher, do some research. It's fascinating.... (read in full...)
We have financial issues, I'm thinking about finding a sugardaddy!
Q. I am married and have a soon-to-be 6 month old baby. We are starting to have a hard time with finances (just like everyone else in the country). I work full time at home on the farm and part time outside of the home (as needed) and my husband has 2 ...
A. 10 November 2010: Totally crazy idea and I'm sure your husband will tell you the same. What rich guy is going to put out if you don't?... (read in full...)
Will swallowing sperm help me to conceive?
Q. Is it true if a girl swallows sperm can it help her conceive? I was told it helps you get pregnant. Now don't think I'm asking will it get me pregnant I'm asking will it help?...
A. 10 November 2010: I'm with Cerb on this one. My husband prescribes sex for anything from an eye twitch to double pneumonia. hee hee... (read in full...)
Am I shallow for my worries due to his hair colour?
Q. i have a problem, a man reaaly likes me and would do anything for me but because he is ginger im scared what people will say! what do i do?...
A. 10 November 2010: What do you do? Your homework.... (read in full...)
What if I'm imagining all the flirting between my married teacher and me?
Q. i reallly like my male teacher, but he is married. with a 2 year old daughter. i have heard rumors that he kinda creeps on his students but has never done anything sexual with him. i really want to do something with him and i'm afraid he will reject ...
A. 9 November 2010: Teenage girls with crushes on their teachers...tough crowd.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend kissed another girl, now I want to hurt him, am I wrong?
Q. I need advice regarding my boyfriend we have been together for a year and half and i still cannot get over him wanting to kiss another girl when we was together for a few months he has changed so much and loves me but i still want to hurt him so ...
A. 9 November 2010: Yikes! A confused drama queen who cannot punctuate!... (read in full...)
What can I do to stop crying so much all the time??
Q. hi, i really cry so much and i really want to no how to stop it, i alwasy cry about stupid things and i sometimes cry on the phone to my boyfriend about things, i think this puts pressure on him and upsets him. of course it does right? Please he...
A. 9 November 2010: Franny you are in the middle of puberty. Your body is trying to adjust to the influx of hormones. Getting teary one minute and then seconds later being deliriously happy are just the symptoms of this very big step in development. I suggest you start ... (read in full...)
Is my idea to have a holiday decorating contest silly?
Q. I am in my mid twenties. I do not live in a small town but the area I live in does have some historical streets and even their own local paper so there is some community in a sense I really enjoy Christmas and I actually wrote to the paper about ...
A. 9 November 2010: As long as you don't have any ACLU zealots in your neighborhood, go for it.
http://www.aclu.org/celebrating-christmas-america... (read in full...)
Controlling b/f texts me 200 times a day?
Q. Hi, and thanks for reading my post. I've always been a happy person, smiling,laughing enjoying my life lately I'm tired, headaches, a tad down. I'm sure its because of my turbulent relationship. It started like a dream come true. He was charming,...
A. 8 November 2010: This relationship is purely toxic and that is what is making you sick. Look after yourself and dump him.... (read in full...)
We hit it off on holiday but now we're both home and I haven't heard anything
Q. Hi guys. Met a guy from holiday. We exchanged emails. Then we went off to our own countries. I'm from USA and he's from the UK. He didn't send me an email within the week so I sent him an email and kept it short, sweet and friendly. I...
A. 8 November 2010: Exactly, it was a holiday romance. The only thing you had in common was the moment. Keep it as a fond memory but don't dwell on it any longer.... (read in full...)
Is he giving me a hidden message/hint or is what he's saying legitimate?
Q. Been seeing a married man for the past 10 mths. He has broken up with me three times (he rekindles us each time after a few weeks). He’s stuck on the theory that it’s unfair and selfish of him to expect me to wait around for him when he’s home with ...
A. 8 November 2010: I think it is absolutely wonderful that you are willing to fuck him whenever he wants just so he can home to his wife with a good demeanor. It's heart warming to know there such selfless women out there looking out for we married ladies. You should ... (read in full...)
TV in the bedroom... and virtually no sex. What do I do?
Q. My wife and I have always had a TV in the bedroom. And since I was about three, I've personally had one in my bedroom. So I'm totally addicted to it, and can toss and turn for hours if I don't fall asleep to it. Our nightly routine involves...
A. 8 November 2010: My husband and I have always made sure our bedroom was for sex and sleep only. No TV's. Get a white noise mechanism, it can be just about anything, a fan, radio, or sound machine. You'll sleep just fine, and all the cuddling will certainly sprout ... (read in full...)
How can I get the girl I like to accept me? Is there even a chance of this happening?
Q. two boys and two girls. Boy B1, Boy B2, Girl G1 and Girl G2. B1 like G1 and B2 like G2. At this point, all of them are just friends, not in a relationship yet. Both boys treated both the girl they like equally. But the outcome is different. In th...
A. 8 November 2010: It's Monday and on Mondays I aways leave out words. Insert "like" as in sounds too much LIKE algebra.... (read in full...)
How can I get the girl I like to accept me? Is there even a chance of this happening?
Q. two boys and two girls. Boy B1, Boy B2, Girl G1 and Girl G2. B1 like G1 and B2 like G2. At this point, all of them are just friends, not in a relationship yet. Both boys treated both the girl they like equally. But the outcome is different. In th...
A. 8 November 2010: This question sounds too much algebra. I hate algebra.... (read in full...)
He's never jealous, does he truly love me?
Q. My bf and I are a couple for over a year now and everything's just perfect so far. But I hate it when he's hanging out with girls friends or I simply get EXTREMELY jealous when he's paying attention to some hot sexy legs. That are not mine, of ...
A. 5 November 2010: Jealousy has absolutely NOTHING to do with love. It's an entirely unrelated emotion. It stems from low self-esteem and the need to control. You can feel jealousy with no love involved just as you can truly love someone and never experience the ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with both of them, why cant we just have a 3-way relationship!
Q. I am new to this site so please don't laugh at what I am about to say. Almost 8yrs ago I met and got involved with a woman who is 10yrs older than me. Everything was going well until like the fool I am I cheated on her with a woman 8yrs older than ...
A. 5 November 2010: Why on earth do you think anyone would laugh at what you posted? It's not the slightest bit funny.... (read in full...)
Why am I not supposed to know?
Q. My husband won't tell me what he did in bed with his ex wife of 20 years. What is he hiding? Is this an open relationship? I'm pissed!...
A. 3 November 2010: He's not hiding anything, he is just showing some class. Learn from his example.... (read in full...)
In love with a married man and he wants to marry me too!
Q. I am in so much pain because I don’t know what to do or who to talk to. I met this man over eight years ago and we have been best of friends ever since. When I said best of friends I mean there is nothing about me or him we do not tell each other, ...
A. 3 November 2010: Well he can't very well marry you if he's married already and since he doesn't seem in any great hurry to accomplish that, I guess you just plug along as his bit on the side.... (read in full...)
Ladies and Men. How important is love to you...and is it worth fighting for?
Q. Ladies and men...have you ever fought for the one you loved even if they were in another relationship? If so, how did it turn out? I ask because I am currently in that situation. Some may think I am crazy, but would you really let the one you ...
A. 3 November 2010: Sounds like you are playing right into his hands. A guy can't have TOO many women at his beck and call now can he?... (read in full...)
He is getting me a sexy outfit from an adult store for my birthday present, despite knowing how I feel about this! What should I do about this?
Q. My birthday is coming up soon and ill be 21 I asked my boyfriend what he was getting me for my birthday he told me it was from a (Adult store) and he wouldint tell me anything else. Even tho i asked him not to get me a sexy costume! I recen...
A. 3 November 2010: The next Christmas he bought me a snowblower...sigh... (read in full...)
I've been waiting for him for 5 years but found out he had remarried while I was waiting!
Q. I have been dating this man for a total of 5 yrs, I met him while he was in the process of divorcing and we have been together ever since. This june I called his cell phone and a woman answered and I asked for him and she told me he was sleeping and ...
A. 3 November 2010: I still have that bridge for sale..interested?... (read in full...)
He is getting me a sexy outfit from an adult store for my birthday present, despite knowing how I feel about this! What should I do about this?
Q. My birthday is coming up soon and ill be 21 I asked my boyfriend what he was getting me for my birthday he told me it was from a (Adult store) and he wouldint tell me anything else. Even tho i asked him not to get me a sexy costume! I recen...
A. 3 November 2010: Let me tell you a little story. I gave birth to my first child on a December 23rd. I was still in the hospital Christmas day. My husband brought my Christmas presents to the maternity ward. What did he get me? The Encyclopedia of Cooking cookbook, ... (read in full...)
I don't want to waste any more time if he doesn't think we'll ever marry
Q. I've known my boyfriend for about 10 months now. We dated for 2 months, broke-up, were friends/cuddle buddies for about 6 months, and finally we got back together again. It's been two months since we've started dating for the second time. Things are ...
A. 3 November 2010: What's the rush? If you love him and you are happy why would you think you are wasting your time anyway? I'd just enjoy the ride if I were you.... (read in full...)
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