Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 2 February 2011: You asked: "Anyone have experience and can share some tips, pitfalls, advice, whatever?" You got all of the above with both postings. Here's my positive answer: I'm positive you are going to regret this threesome, that is if this is a real post and ... (read in full...)
She's gone from loving and caring to controlling and possessive!
Q. my girlfriend of almost a year know has completely changed on me. she was once a loving, caring person to me and my four kids. and know she is a total @*$%# with my kids and she is controlling and possesive with me. i dnt want to call it quits just ...
A. 1 February 2011: Have you asked her why she has changed attitudes?... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 1 February 2011: Whatever floats your etc... but please, let us know how it all comes out in the wash.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend will not kiss me!
Q. hey, i need help! my boyfriend and i are still in our hugging phase but i want to kiss him. im scared if he doesnt want to, and i dont want to make the first move! help! :|...
A. 1 February 2011: If he is about your age, maybe he still has some nagging doubts about getting cooties.... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 1 February 2011: After you fulfill this fantasy of hers, and I assume you're thinking it's a one time only deal, I'm curious to know what YOUR fantasy is all about.... (read in full...)
I'm getting tired of him always being busy.
Q. I'm getting tired of him always being busy. So I am 17 and me and my bf have been going out for a year tomorrow actually.... The thing is his number 1 passion is snowmobiles. So of course every chance he gets he is off snowmobiling. From fixing his ...
A. 1 February 2011: "ride you"?? Boy Howdy you need to find a new boyfriend!... (read in full...)
He wants a blowjob but I don't like doing it, what can I do?
Q. i have been in a sort of relationship with a boy, we are both same age(17). at the start we were just good friends he would come up for a drink, then things started to change we would kiss at weekends and then i saw him during the week and we would ...
A. 1 February 2011: I think you, Ms. "A female reader, anonymous", must have posted this on the wrong question, at least I hope so. To the OP, I totally agree with the aunts/uncles who said you should just wait until you are actually in a romantic relationship with ... (read in full...)
Why swallow? whats the pleasure?
Q. dear readers, i would like to ask the men out there and possibly the women why men like a girl to swallow their semen? why is it attractive to men to see there girlfriend swalllowing the product of their energy? some women say it tastes awfu...
A. 1 February 2011: Jmtmj, you bad boy, you need to give coffee on the keyboard alerts...ha ha... (read in full...)
People don't take me seriously because of the way I look! How can I find a nice guy?
Q. Ok. I really like the way I look, but people just seem to not take me seriously. I am 16. I am a bleach blonde. a little taller than the regular. I have as some people say the 'perfect nose' (people ask if I had a rynoplasty haha) I have brown eyes, ...
A. 1 February 2011: Know first who you are; and then adorn yourself accordingly.
Euripides
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I'm giving my girlfriend her fantasy to be with a former lover/friend. Will I regret it?
Q. I would appreciate any help and comments on my situation. I met a wonderful woman last year and we had an immediate connection. Stronger than any I've known before and she said the same thing. On our third date we were talking openly about fan...
A. 1 February 2011: Look in the archives, we've received hundreds and hundreds of posting from participants of threesomes asking how they can recover from the devastation their poor judgment has caused. Let us know how yours turns out.... (read in full...)
I'm giving my girlfriend her fantasy to be with a former lover/friend. Will I regret it?
Q. I would appreciate any help and comments on my situation. I met a wonderful woman last year and we had an immediate connection. Stronger than any I've known before and she said the same thing. On our third date we were talking openly about fan...
A. 31 January 2011: Oh brother, I hope the fantasies you want fulfilled are truly worth this and more importantly are really going to result from this threesome. What happens if you can't handle this and you guys break up over it...what a waste.... (read in full...)
I have an annoying friend that I want out of my life!
Q. My friend..lets call her A..is the most annoying person i have ever dealt with. She is judgemental, ego-centric, rude, inconsiderate, annoying, won't shut up, and...how do i say this...she does stuff "just because its popular". For ex. She tried out ...
A. 31 January 2011: If you don't want to hang out with then don't. Don't make any plans with her, try to avoid being wherever she is, in other words make yourself scarce. If she does ask why you are doing this you can just simply say you have decided you don't want her ... (read in full...)
My husband likes his bum licked, is this normal?
Q. Hi guys this is rather a funny question but it has been puzzling me for a while now. My husband likes me to lick his bottom whilst he masturbates lol!. I know it sounds funny and i have no problems doing this but is it normal? He has a bit of an ...
A. 31 January 2011: The only way my husband would be able to get me to "toss his salad" would be for him to cover his butt in Ranch dressing and bacon bits.... (read in full...)
Does it sound like they're going out?
Q. i think one of my friends is going out with my best friends ex in secret. she walks home with him and on more than one instances ive seen them hugging and holding hands also this weekend i went to the cinema and he was kissing a girl and she had the ...
A. 31 January 2011: I'm with the tiger, this is definitely a case of minding your own beeswax. Never get in the middle of crap like this, it only comes back to bite you in the butt.... (read in full...)
Both virgins, on birth control pills.... do I REALLY need a condom?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are both virgins but we are planning on having sex in a couple of weeks. She's started taking birth control pills so there is no chance of her getting pregnant. We havent had sex so STI's are also out of the equation so do i ...
A. 31 January 2011: In other words there is no such thing as SAFE sex. Unless you have a contingency plan for a pregnancy, then you are taking a risk.... (read in full...)
How can I get my daughters boyfriend to pay his way?
Q. Hi, I would really appreciate some advice regarding my daughter's boyfriend. His mum threw him out and he was living with me full time for a while but i couldn't sustain it because I was made redundant and didn't have much money plus I was unwell ...
A. 31 January 2011: If you have ANY adults living in your home, whether they are your own adult children or not, you should be charging them for room and board. It doesn't have to be a fortune but it should be something. Nips that "the world owes me a living" attitude ... (read in full...)
I hate condoms and she won't go on the pill!
Q. I am in a bit of a predicament with my new girlfriend. We're both 22 and have been going out for 2 months. Last week we talked about having sex with each other for the first time, it's not that one of us doesn't feel ready it's just an issue with ...
A. 31 January 2011: So you aren't concerned about STD's? Why is that?... (read in full...)
Have I ruined my chances with this man? What should I say to him now?!
Q. Please, please help me... I can't stop thinking and my mind is going crazy!! Last night, I had a dinner date at my place with a colleague of mine I really really really really like. The evening was smooth and flirty and fun. Then he started making p...
A. 28 January 2011: Tish gets punnier and punnier as the weekend approaches.... (read in full...)
Have I ruined my chances with this man? What should I say to him now?!
Q. Please, please help me... I can't stop thinking and my mind is going crazy!! Last night, I had a dinner date at my place with a colleague of mine I really really really really like. The evening was smooth and flirty and fun. Then he started making p...
A. 28 January 2011: Yep, you keep holding out for that prince and never settle for a horny toad.... (read in full...)
I want to give him something good!
Q. What's The Best Way To Please your Boyfriend In Bed ? I Feel Like He Always Pleases me and his birthday is coming up and I want to give him something good and I want to know the positions that will have him wanting more. ...
A. 28 January 2011: At his age you could be comatose and he'd be wanting more.... (read in full...)
I get a bit limp when sex gets energetic......
Q. I am curious about a minor ED problem I seem to be having. When I am having sex, I can stay rock hard indefinitely. But it seems like when I get my heart rate up, like when I'm on top pumping hard, I start to lose my erection. It's like the blood ...
A. 28 January 2011: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra... (read in full...)
I love him but he already has a girlfriend
Q. love him so much, i'd die for him...but he's got a girlfriend..who's older then hee...what can i do?i feel i can't live without him...hurts so baaaaaad((( ...
A. 28 January 2011: Go out with your pals, have some fun, stay busy. You'll live I promise.... (read in full...)
Does my 'friends with benefits' guy have deeper feelings for me than he is letting on?
Q. i have a friend with benefits, problem is i think im in love with him,he was my first love when i was 13 years old and now im 27, we met up for the first time in all these years about 5 months ago and one thing led to another and we have become ...
A. 28 January 2011: What he said.... (read in full...)
Dating site guy turns out to be someone I already know!
Q. I am in a bit of a sticky situation. I recently signed up to an online dating site, having been single for too long. Now, I messaged a guy, as he was local, works in the same profession as me and looked nice. BUT I have just realised, I do...
A. 28 January 2011: I'd just use this information to your advantage, he's looking for love so next time you see him ask him out for coffee or a drink after work. Since you don't have a pic posted, no harm done.... (read in full...)
Why did you even ask?
Q. What brought you to Dear Cupid? Most likely it's because of some problem in your life or relationship. That's how most of us stumbled upon this place. You came here hoping that these anon people on the internet could offer you some insight into ...
A. 27 January 2011: This is exactly the kind of post that Irish would have had some great comments for...Irish if you are checking in on us...I miss you, come back soon.... (read in full...)
How can I be romantic with my on line crush, and show him that I care?
Q. Hello! My on line crush says that he likes romance, and to show him that I care about him... My question is how can I be romantic with him? And how can I show him that I care and like him? I already said that to him, but how can I prove it...
A. 27 January 2011: Is there a reason why you guys haven't met face to face yet?... (read in full...)
Married lover wants me back into his life after everything he's put me through!
Q. I was dating a married man who never told me that he is a A pastor as well, we were so much in love I got pregnant with his child but then he begged me to Terminate the pregnancy as I was not planning to have a child With him I terminated ...
A. 27 January 2011: Here's my take: you enjoy wasting your precious time on this earth, you enjoy hurting another woman, you enjoy hanging out with some low-life "pastor", and finally you love the pain of a broken heart. Does that sound about right?... (read in full...)
One month into this LDR and he wants to move in together, marriage, babies....the lot! Should I run away as fast as I can?
Q. Hi. I am in a LDR with someone I've only known for a month. Never met and ended up talking over the internet on my web page. I have been trying to avoid relationships at any cost because I was engaged back in October but I broke it off with my ...
A. 27 January 2011: Yikes, no make that double YIKES... (read in full...)
His kids are always sick!
Q. I am currently pregnant and expecting my first child with a man who has 3 children from a previous relationship. His children come over and visit every 2nd weekend. One of his kids is ALWAYS sick though... Ever since I first met her she either has a ...
A. 27 January 2011: What I want to know is why those kids didn't get the proper vaccinations when they were babies! No kid has to suffer from chicken pox anymore.... (read in full...)
Can all women squirt?
Q. So I was a spectator to a discussion at a party the other day (alcohol involved) involving squirting. One guy claimed that the squirting in porn was real. (which I know its not) When someone voiced this contrary opinion, the kid stated that that was ...
A. 27 January 2011: Ha ha Miamine! Often I say "Gee Spot" and then run get my remover.... (read in full...)
My extremely irritating roommate is getting on my nerves...what do I do?
Q. Last semester I had asked one of my friends to become my roommate for this semester. However, so far it has not been a good start between us even though she believes its all good. I think the problem I have is that our friendship is not really a ...
A. 26 January 2011: People are taken advantage of only because they allow it to happen. You need to talk to her and tell her it's hands off your stuff from now on. Just say no.... (read in full...)
I love him & he loves me, but he has a girlfriend! How do I win him over?
Q. My issue is confusing me. I'm absolutely head over heals for this guy at work, but he has a girlfriend. Truth is he has been with this girl almost 2 yrs and he complains about her every single day to me. I'm sure he cares about her, but he has just ...
A. 26 January 2011: Talk is cheap and this guy is all talk. Listen to these aunts/uncles they will all be telling you the same thing. Wise up Chickie or you'll be in for a world of hurt.... (read in full...)
Why did you even ask?
Q. What brought you to Dear Cupid? Most likely it's because of some problem in your life or relationship. That's how most of us stumbled upon this place. You came here hoping that these anon people on the internet could offer you some insight into ...
A. 26 January 2011: Then my advice must be right on the money each time since my ratings have ALWAYS indicated pissed off posters. From day one.... (read in full...)
Is he moaning about her or just having a general conversation?
Q. Female aged 40 A guy I know only because he drops my son home every day from school has made these comments about his 'wife'. That she always double checks everything before they go out for the evening including switching off the cooker (I thin...
A. 26 January 2011: Sounds like a friendly guy who likes to talk. What's the problem?... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is in rehab and I'm not able to cope with it
Q. hello guys, im going through hard SH*t at the moment and i dont know how or even if i can handle this, i have a girlfriend and shes an angel, she so charming and i just dont see me without her, i love her way tooo much but :S she turned out to be ...
A. 26 January 2011: You need to find a way to stay busy. Get into a hobby. Time will fly by if you stay busy. And don't forget to have some fun times with your friends. Whatever you do, don't mope around staring at her picture.... (read in full...)
Because of her problems at home, my girlfriend is distancing herself from me!
Q. I'm 15 and my gfs 14 were in the same year but were not very close recently. She's having problems at home i know because she used to tell me every thing but we had a big argumment about that. We dont spend any time together any more and she was ...
A. 26 January 2011: It's because she is only 14 years old. Give her space. You guys are too young and way too serious. Go have fun with your friends while you have the chance, adulthood isn't as much fun as it's cracked up to be.... (read in full...)
Have I ruined my chances with this man? What should I say to him now?!
Q. Please, please help me... I can't stop thinking and my mind is going crazy!! Last night, I had a dinner date at my place with a colleague of mine I really really really really like. The evening was smooth and flirty and fun. Then he started making p...
A. 26 January 2011: Aren't you glad you didn't become another notch on the bedpost!? His loss.... (read in full...)
The thoughtless way my bf's father speaks upsets me. What can I do about this?
Q. Hi everyone i'm a 20 yr old female and i have been with my boyfriend (19) for over 15 months. We live together, like most girls i have a problem with his ex, however they never were really an item she just messed him around. He hasn't seen her sinc...
A. 26 January 2011: I think that Dad just likes getting a rise out of his son. If your boyfriend doesn't respond to these little jabs, Dad will eventually stop because all the fun is gone. ... (read in full...)
Can all women squirt?
Q. So I was a spectator to a discussion at a party the other day (alcohol involved) involving squirting. One guy claimed that the squirting in porn was real. (which I know its not) When someone voiced this contrary opinion, the kid stated that that was ...
A. 26 January 2011: I squirt when I sneeze really hard.... (read in full...)
Is this normal for an uncircumsized male?
Q. Hey well i'm 21 and it is my first time being with someone uncircumsized. But i admit the skin freaked me out, but got over it. he got hard and when i went to touch his penis he complained it was very sore why is that ? i barely touched his penis....
A. 26 January 2011: Thanks Mods..it hurts my eye to read that stuff... (read in full...)
Have I ruined my chances with this man? What should I say to him now?!
Q. Please, please help me... I can't stop thinking and my mind is going crazy!! Last night, I had a dinner date at my place with a colleague of mine I really really really really like. The evening was smooth and flirty and fun. Then he started making p...
A. 25 January 2011: I think you would have definitely blown it with the guy if you had just jumped in the sack. If all he was looking for was a one night stand then you still came out on the right end of the stick. Good on you!... (read in full...)
Are there any couples out there who are 100% faithful to one another?
Q. I dont know if it's because Ive been reading the articles on this site too often (this being a relationship help site and all), but it seems that everywhere I look, people are unfaithful to each other. Im basically asking, are there any couples ...
A. 25 January 2011: Been married since April 1975. We have been totally faithful to each other (other than his Playboy collection which he only keeps because of the wonderful articles).... (read in full...)
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