She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?
Q. my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...
A. 17 December 2010: Somethings just cannot be fixed, there's no going back, no way to turn back the clock, no magic wand, done bun can't be undone. Stop dwelling in your denial you can't ever get back what you destroyed.... (read in full...)
She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?
Q. my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...
A. 17 December 2010: I counted 10 "I"'s and "my"'s in your last response. That's preoccupation with yourself, my man.... (read in full...)
She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?
Q. my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...
A. 17 December 2010: You are unbelievably selfish. Leave her alone, sounds to me like she's better off without you. If you truly love her you'll let her get on with her life but somehow I think you're too self-absorbed to do the right thing by her.... (read in full...)
She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?
Q. my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...
A. 14 December 2010: Look Buddy you cheated on your ex to be with your most current ex, then you cyber-cheated on HER two times. Why can't you admit that you failed both women and betrayed both women (albeit it sounds like your second ex is a cheater as well)? You will ... (read in full...)
Can I send a card after a breakup, hoping it might make a difference?
Q. Should I send a xmas card to a woman that broke up with me in an email, "I think we should just leave things well enough alone..." It is killing me and embarrassing at my age (47) but I am still in love with her three months after our (email) ...
A. 14 December 2010: I wouldn't waste anymore precious time on this gal. She's made her feelings very very clear. Keep busy, keep dating, get on with your life.... (read in full...)
She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?
Q. my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...
A. 14 December 2010: I read your other posts on DC and now ater this one I see this cybersex happened more than one time. You've had your second chance already and blown it. I'm afraid that makes you SOL my friend. Seek visitation rights to your kids, you won't get any ... (read in full...)
Can I send a card after a breakup, hoping it might make a difference?
Q. Should I send a xmas card to a woman that broke up with me in an email, "I think we should just leave things well enough alone..." It is killing me and embarrassing at my age (47) but I am still in love with her three months after our (email) ...
A. 14 December 2010: Apparently you were never in the military, at least never disciplined in the military. Your post reminds me of the old "Thank you sir, may I have another".... (read in full...)
How do I let him down gently? I don't want to be his mistress!
Q. Since I have been single from and on and off again replationship, I met a guy an older man that happens to be married. I should have known from the start that I shouldnt get involved with him from when I met him and my girlfrends gave me a little ...
A. 14 December 2010: Aww the poor guy! I'll bet he never really loved his wife and that they have been sleeping in separate bedrooms for years...so sad. He's probably just staying with her because of the kids' sake, very noble. I don't blame you for wanting to let this ... (read in full...)
Will a woman always love her special man?
Q. slight follow up to my current main serious question posted on the 13th dec. will a woman always love that 1 special person no matter what? they might have afew bfs or loads, but is there always that special 1 that she will always have feelings fo...
A. 14 December 2010: You hurt her and destroyed her trust, maybe her love dried up maybe it didn't but if the trust is gone you've a long road ahead of you to build that trust back up. Trying to dismiss or minimize your actions is totally the wrong way to go with this ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that if I keep texting him he'll think I'm a stalker!
Q. 3 nights ago I slept with a guy I met in a bar. Its the first time ive ever had a 'one night stand' sort of thing. Anyway, he asked for my number in the morning and we were texting for the next couple of days, but now he's stopped replying to my ...
A. 13 December 2010: Leave him alone and keep the t-shirt as a souvenir.... (read in full...)
I have developed a phobia of driving!
Q. Hi aunts and uncles! Please can someone help. Since I passed my driving test 4 months ago I've developed a driving phobia. I'm a nervous person anyway and get panic attacks but I was fine driving with my instructor. When I passed me ...
A. 13 December 2010: Practice will build your confidence. The more driving you do the easier and the more second nature it will become. Everyone is scared at first, at least if they'll admit to it. Soon your only problem will be remembering where you left the keys.... (read in full...)
Are there a lot of people who are open-minded where sex is concerned?
Q. I was just wondering.. are there lots of people who are quite open-minded when it comes to sex? I've only had one boyfriend before, we were together for a few months but never had sex (I wanted to wait before I lost my virginity to him but we en...
A. 13 December 2010: 100% likelihood if you are willing to look hard and be patient.... (read in full...)
Off-Key Romance: A Sign of Incompatibility?
Q. Please help! My boyfriend has a terrible sense of what he deems as "music". He insists on singing extremely hoakey songs to me in a weird, baritone voice. When I ask him to stop he ignores me because he believes I will like it if I listen a ...
A. 13 December 2010: Me to TI! I almost lost my husband once and now his snoring is the most beautiful music to my ears. To the poster: I really think you are placing too much importance on this singing thing. Also on equating some one's music choices to their "Life ... (read in full...)
Do you get more pimples when you don't have Sex?
Q. Do you get more Pimples when you dont have Sex?? Because i notice this big change in my face pores when i dont have Sex and then right after i do my face completly changes....
A. 13 December 2010: If you ask my husband, he'd say yes. He's also tell you sex cures the sniffles, the flu, heart disease, broken bones........ (read in full...)
We're just like 2 magnets drawn to one another!
Q. I have been married for 5 years and have a son, i work with a woman who has a serious boyfriend and two children. We're both happy in our relationships but for some reason cannot seem to leave one another alone. We have both tried to cut ties and ...
A. 13 December 2010: Hey I found the answer to your problem...might hurt a bit (especially the hammer part) but it should work.
http://www.x-magnet.net/faq.html... (read in full...)
Crushes on teachers
Q. Have a crush on your teacher? Can't help but think about them all the way through class? Does s/he seem to give you more attention than the other students? Seem like s/he might like you too? Well this article is for you. Firstly there is nothi...
A. 13 December 2010: I've said it once and I'll say it again, Girls suffering from a school girl crush go temporarily insane and deaf. There is absolutely no reasoning with them, they are incapable of reason in their condition. This is a great article and thread but it ... (read in full...)
How can I make my teacher remember me?
Q. He is my teacher. We have an age difference of about 20 yrs (I'm 18 and he's around 40), and he's married with two kids. I study in this same school for my whole secondary school life (as the 6th-12th grades in your place), and he teaches senior f...
A. 9 December 2010: Get realy really good grades in his class, I know teachers always remember their good students.... (read in full...)
Am I weird for feeling confused?
Q. I guy I was dating told me things that a lot of men I have dated have never told me-----he told me that he could see living his life with me, that he was falling in love with me, that he was surprised that no one ever asked me to marry them, etc. ...
A. 8 December 2010: You are wasting your time. Stop all contact and move on. He's either just playing with you or he has issues, neither is good for you.... (read in full...)
What do you think? Something just doesn't sound right about this to me!
Q. I have a friend who recently got back from studying 6 months abroad. There he met a girl who now says she's in a relationship with him, and as I have them both on facebook I see all the cutesy things they write each other. My friend seems really in ...
A. 7 December 2010: Well what can you do? If you contact her and tell her that he's pretty much just playing her, you'll most likely lose your friend. How old is she?... (read in full...)
Why is my chemistry teacher avoiding me?
Q. im really confused. i've had a teacher for about a year now, he teaches me chemistry and i really like him! hes so funny, kind and willing to help you to understand even if it means making himself look stupid. i noticed that hes been looking at me ...
A. 7 December 2010: I'm glad you are enjoying your crush, it won't last forever.... (read in full...)
Crushes on teachers
Q. Have a crush on your teacher? Can't help but think about them all the way through class? Does s/he seem to give you more attention than the other students? Seem like s/he might like you too? Well this article is for you. Firstly there is nothi...
A. 6 December 2010: Please look up the meaning of hypocrisy before you use the word, it shows your lack of education and experience. As far as I know there hasn't been an aunt/uncle on here saying you shouldn't have anything to do with a teacher romantically, while ... (read in full...)
He called me a prostitute! I'm his mistress!
Q. I'm having an affair with a married man. Well today his wife caught us in a hotel and called me a prostitute? Then she started fighting my man and in the midst he told her I didn't mean nothhing to him but a prostitute! Wtf?! I'm a mistress! Will ...
A. 6 December 2010: Karma's a wonderful high-riding bitch, don't cha just love her?... (read in full...)
Is it ok to go back to his place on a first date?
Q. Hi I met a guy and we are going on a date. If he asked me back to his house after the date should I go? Is this ok on a first date? I have no intention of sleeping with him this quickly, so there will not be any sex, but if he offers to contin...
A. 3 December 2010: You can have him hassling you for sex anytime of the day. As Birdy said, it's simply not appropriate for you to go to his place on a first date, whether you have known him for awhile or not. It is also very impolite on his part to even suggest it.... (read in full...)
In love with two very different men
Q. I'm in love with two very different men, any advise? So it started about 8years ago with my high school sweetheart, we only dated for a few months but after all this time I have never stopped loving him, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, b...
A. 3 December 2010: You are setting yourself up for a very lonely future. Your boyfriend will leave you when he finds out you are a cheater and your married guy will never leave his wife for you. Best wise up chickie.... (read in full...)
Revealing too much at the swimming pool
Q. There is this girl at the gym who wears a bathing suit that is way too revealing! It only covers half of her breasts and only a quarter of her ass. It is almost seethru, and she always has T.H.O.'s. She makes a point to walk slowly around the pool ...
A. 3 December 2010: Okay thanks Buddy. I'll add it to the DC Manual. To the poster, are you a teensy weensy envious perhaps?... (read in full...)
Revealing too much at the swimming pool
Q. There is this girl at the gym who wears a bathing suit that is way too revealing! It only covers half of her breasts and only a quarter of her ass. It is almost seethru, and she always has T.H.O.'s. She makes a point to walk slowly around the pool ...
A. 3 December 2010: What does T.H.O. mean, some one enlighten me please. ... (read in full...)
Pisces man dumped me, will he ever swim back?
Q. Pisces Man Dumped Me Will He Ever Swim Back? Pisces dumped me He has a lot of girls around as friends and a girl best friend that he used to be with..also they say pisces men are freaks..well its true because he's always saying things about men..how...
A. 3 December 2010: I think your fish has jumped into another pond. Sorry, but I think you'd best cut bait and move on.... (read in full...)
Why is my chemistry teacher avoiding me?
Q. im really confused. i've had a teacher for about a year now, he teaches me chemistry and i really like him! hes so funny, kind and willing to help you to understand even if it means making himself look stupid. i noticed that hes been looking at me ...
A. 3 December 2010: You say he's 45 and single...I wonder why... (read in full...)
My sex drive has gone through the roof! So much so that I am even considering an affair, what should I do?
Q. Dear forum I am coming to you for help as I there is no one else to turn to. I am 39 year old woman happily married for 13 years and a son.I love my husband dearly.My husband is the only man I have ever been with.The last couple of years my...
A. 1 December 2010: Buy yourself a vibrator and knock off this nonsense.... (read in full...)
Should I attempt to find this person? I have a strong desire to reconcile with her for what I did
Q. Twenty five years ago I had a brief affair (I was married at the time) with another woman that I cared for deeply. I was in the army and left for Germany without telling her I was leaving. (doing what I thought was the 'right' thing by my wife at ...
A. 1 December 2010: Leave it alone and tell her in Heaven.... (read in full...)
Why is my chemistry teacher avoiding me?
Q. im really confused. i've had a teacher for about a year now, he teaches me chemistry and i really like him! hes so funny, kind and willing to help you to understand even if it means making himself look stupid. i noticed that hes been looking at me ...
A. 1 December 2010: So Alice just where do you think this is going? What advice are you really looking for?... (read in full...)
Should I have sex?
Q. I am not sure if I should have sex or not and I was hoping for some input based on the following 1. I REALLY want to have sex 2. I trust my partner and have been with him for three years. 3. I feel at 25 I should be having sex or at least ...
A. 1 December 2010: Yeah I'm dying to know also, why are you wasting your time with someone you definitely don't love?... (read in full...)
Lunatic ex wife!
Q. How are you supposed to react when the ex-wife is insane, constantly texting, calling, leaving nasty voicemails saying the kid needs something and how terrible of a person I am to their kid, when she agonised my son for ten years calling him names, ...
A. 1 December 2010: That's WERE you his first wife?... (read in full...)
Lunatic ex wife!
Q. How are you supposed to react when the ex-wife is insane, constantly texting, calling, leaving nasty voicemails saying the kid needs something and how terrible of a person I am to their kid, when she agonised my son for ten years calling him names, ...
A. 1 December 2010: Where you his first wife?... (read in full...)
I'm in love... with a dead woman!!!
Q. Ok people...this might sound insane but i cant help it. About a year back i saw a picture of a girl and read her life story and i think i am falling over for her. I think i am in love... but the catch is... she died way back during the second ...
A. 1 December 2010: Well his dream girl is another year deader...... (read in full...)
Why is my chemistry teacher avoiding me?
Q. im really confused. i've had a teacher for about a year now, he teaches me chemistry and i really like him! hes so funny, kind and willing to help you to understand even if it means making himself look stupid. i noticed that hes been looking at me ...
A. 1 December 2010: Why don't you go up to him and tell him about your undying love. I think that will clear up your confusion. ... (read in full...)
In love after three days???
Q. i went for holiday for 1 week .. and i meet one guy .. we have fun and went out for a drink all the time after that 3 days pass he told me he loves me .. and he wants to marry me .. do i need to belive it ?.. cos for me love is not for just in 3 ...
A. 30 November 2010: Naw he's looking for something from you, think hard, what ever could that be?... (read in full...)
I couldn't have got pregnant from this, right?
Q. I'm really worried... Last night, my boyfriend and I were messing around. While he was fingering me, I touched his penis... but as far as i can remember, I didn't felt anything wet on his package. after touching his penis, i touched his body and his ...
A. 30 November 2010: You can stop worrying, while it's relatively easy to get pregnant, it's not THAT easy.... (read in full...)
I really want plastic surgery because I hate the way I look
Q. I really want plastic surgery because I hate the way I look, I dont like looking in the mirror because everytime I do, I feel like Im going to cry. What can I do to feel happier about myself?...
A. 29 November 2010: You need to get a handle on this. Even if you have surgery done and you think "Wow, don't I look great!" one day many years from now you'll be looking in that mirror and you'll say "Hell Mom! What are you doing in there?". Self-esteem lasts and in ... (read in full...)
Old man perverts and clueless teenage girls...
Q. Hey I'm a 17 year old boy from Australia and I have a problem. It's pretty strange I guess I see teenage girls walking down the street in mini skirts and their bodies hanging out which is their choice I guess but thats not the problem. I see...
A. 29 November 2010: Unless you move to a country where all the women wear burkas I guess you'll just have to accept this behavior. Why not try to focus on a problem you can actually do something about?... (read in full...)
Old man perverts and clueless teenage girls...
Q. Hey I'm a 17 year old boy from Australia and I have a problem. It's pretty strange I guess I see teenage girls walking down the street in mini skirts and their bodies hanging out which is their choice I guess but thats not the problem. I see...
A. 24 November 2010: Just cause a guy is old, which is a relative term, (you may mean all of 40, ha ha) doesn't mean he's dead. Besides what guy checks out droopy old ladies?... (read in full...)
Why is my chemistry teacher avoiding me?
Q. im really confused. i've had a teacher for about a year now, he teaches me chemistry and i really like him! hes so funny, kind and willing to help you to understand even if it means making himself look stupid. i noticed that hes been looking at me ...
A. 24 November 2010: School girl crushes cause temporary insanity. The key word is temporary.... (read in full...)
What kind of dirty talk do guys like during sex?
Q. So this is gonna sound kind of dumb, buttt when you're talking dirty during a blow job or sex or whatever, what exactly do guys like to hear?...
A. 24 November 2010: I expect that anything you say DURING a blow job would sound kinda like "muph pluf sohte". I guess if a guy can actually understand what is being said he has other things to be concern about. Not that size matters though........ (read in full...)
I love her but we have very different opinions on important issues!
Q. I have been dating a girl from a little over a month now. We connected extremely fast at the beginning and things were great for several weeks. As I got to know her, however, I found out things that I'm not sure if I can deal with on a long term ...
A. 24 November 2010: I think there are things that can become deal breakers in a relationship. Religion and children are among them. If something is important to a person, being denied it can cause major resentment and bitterness. Sometimes love can overcome this ... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love with my gay best friend!
Q. i think i'm falling in love with my best friend. only prblem is hes gay and i'm a straight girl. hes so sweet and we get along really well we're so alike and he says nice things to me and compliments me all the time and hes usually really ...
A. 18 November 2010: If you want to allow yourself to be tortured, then far be from me to argue the point. There is no magic wand, either you distance yourself and stay busy getting on with your life or you hang out with him and be miserable. I repeat, this is a no win ... (read in full...)
Why does he always tell me there's someone else when we fight?
Q. Am i insecure when me and my boyfriend get into a argument he saids he got somebody else thats better than me he dont want me he dont want to sleep with me im a turn off he just living with me cause i let him. am i wrong for being insecure? Then ...
A. 17 November 2010: I'd be more than insecure, I'd be royally pissed off at this little ploy. Next time he says he has someone else, tell him to prove it. If he can then show him the door.... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love with my gay best friend!
Q. i think i'm falling in love with my best friend. only prblem is hes gay and i'm a straight girl. hes so sweet and we get along really well we're so alike and he says nice things to me and compliments me all the time and hes usually really ...
A. 17 November 2010: You, unfortunately, are in a no win situation. This isn't going to get easier for you if you are in constant contact with him. If you can't distance yourself then you'll just have to grin and bear it. With luck maybe your romantic feelings for him ... (read in full...)
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