Feeling insecure about my relationship with her now.
Q. I fell in love with a 19 years old girl for 2 months now and we seemed to get along very well. She also loves me. We had an argument lately and she said she wanted to break up with me. I didn't take her for serious but then, I found out that a ...
A. 18 October 2010: Of course she'll do it again, she's only 19 freakin' years old. YOU wonder what the future will be like...think of what she feels when SHE thinks of the future with gramps! Sheesh..we get too soon old and too late smart.... (read in full...)
How do I get my parents to back off?
Q. I need some serious help on how to get my parents off my back about my boyfriend. I am 18 almost 19, he is 24. We have been seeing each other since january. We met online (when i met him in person i had my mom come with me in case he was a creeper, ...
A. 14 October 2010: Okay your update came after I posted so now all I can advise is for you to find a way to get your own place or get going on that transfer and move out. Your parents will get over all this need to control your life if you are no longer living under ... (read in full...)
How do I get my parents to back off?
Q. I need some serious help on how to get my parents off my back about my boyfriend. I am 18 almost 19, he is 24. We have been seeing each other since january. We met online (when i met him in person i had my mom come with me in case he was a creeper, ...
A. 14 October 2010: When are you transfering? I think that once you do that and are out of the house they will get used to your being on your own and will start untying the apron strings. Cindy has a good point however. Have they said anything other than the age ... (read in full...)
He's leaving the wife!
Q. My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...
A. 13 October 2010: You keep saying you want some common sense advice and you've recieved it. Leave him alone until he's out of his marriage. One has to wonder why you refuse to do the right thing and butt out.... (read in full...)
I ditched everyone to marry him and then he changed his mind! Now he wants me to drop everything again!
Q. Dear cupid, i feel so lost and confused i'm not sure of anything anymore . i'm 19 and i just got engaged to my boyfriend of 1 yr and 2 months i'm really young i know but i love him so much he's all I've ever wanted and i can't picture my life wit...
A. 12 October 2010: Atta Girl!!!!! You are making a very wise decision and you will never regret it.... (read in full...)
I think he's rather take my friend to homecoming rather than me!
Q. Apologies for the longness in advance. This guy that I kind of like (and used to "like" me) asked me to homecoming. Of course I said yes. But what bothers me is that he makes me feel like an option. It may be I'm overreacting but it seemed l...
A. 8 October 2010: Go to Homecoming and have a great time. You guys aren't in a relationship, just ease up and have some fun. If you don't have a good time then don't accept another date from him if he asks.... (read in full...)
How can my wife be so loose when she never had children, and supposedly not much sex?
Q. I have a very personal question, sometimes I am very confused about it. When I got married to my wife, according to her she have not had any man in her life in last seven years. Before that she had only one short relationship(three months). It was s...
A. 8 October 2010: Ha ha DED!... (read in full...)
Only son is in living with another man in a gay relationship
Q. Hi I have given birth to 3 sons in 22 years. 2 died at birth and my living son is just 17 and has met someone from the internet 'A 21yr old man!' he did not tell me what was going on just that he was moving out. Neither lads work and sponge ...
A. 8 October 2010: Like most things in life, all this will get easier for you with time. You'll get through it and get your smile back.... (read in full...)
I think my doctor likes me
Q. I think my Doctor likes me. i know I like him. He gives me a hug.. and our visits last like an hour. How would i know for sure?...
A. 8 October 2010: Well you are half way there. All you have to do now is divorce your husband.... (read in full...)
How do I get my daughter to see what a jerk her boyfriend really is?
Q. I need advice. My daughter has bee dating her boyfriend for 4 months now. She thinks they're serious. He turned 21 a few weeks ago and chose to spend his birthday with another girl...."just a friend"...because she promised (after he and my daughter ...
A. 8 October 2010: Well Mom, been there done that and still wearing the t-shirt. I have three kids, 2 of which are daughters. I watched the losers walk through my front door and watched the great finds go out the window many times. They are both now in their 30's and ... (read in full...)
it a natural desire not to have my boyfriend go to something like this without me?
Q. My boyfriend's dad invited him to go to a conference that is for dancing. Although the event is not advertised as a place to meet people, the dancing sessions are set up man and woman, so if a single man is there, they will couple him up with a ...
A. 8 October 2010: Totally natural and reasonable. Why doesn't your boyfriend pay for you to go with him? I would be pissed that he would even WANT to go without me. ... (read in full...)
I ditched everyone to marry him and then he changed his mind! Now he wants me to drop everything again!
Q. Dear cupid, i feel so lost and confused i'm not sure of anything anymore . i'm 19 and i just got engaged to my boyfriend of 1 yr and 2 months i'm really young i know but i love him so much he's all I've ever wanted and i can't picture my life wit...
A. 8 October 2010: Stay in college, if he won't wait for you then he's not the guy for you!... (read in full...)
My dad cheated and I don't know what to do. help please
Q. hi recently...well actualy last year me and my brother were home while my mom was out of town. me and him were just chillin, me playing guitar and him listening to music. but then he went downstairs and came up and said he heard another woman in my ...
A. 8 October 2010: I'm sorry this has happened in your family. But if you look around this site you at least will find out you are definitely not alone. Marriages fall apart all the time. Know that none of this is your doing or fault. It really is a matter between ... (read in full...)
He took it nonchalantly when I said "I love you"
Q. I am 60 and have been dating a 63 yr. old widower for about a month and a half. He has been telling me for a couple of weeks now that he loves me.. I was hesitant to reply in kind because I didn't think I knew him well enough to respond the same. ...
A. 7 October 2010: Aww come on we're the Love Generation. Remember? Make Love not War? I think you are way over-thinking this one. Relax and enjoy the ride.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with this work situation? My FWB blabbed!
Q. I recently had a few sexual experiences with a Dr at our hospital, I am a nurse. We don't talk a lot, although he is pretty flirty when I see him he is still hard to read outside of work, also I told him in the beginning I only wanted "friends with ...
A. 7 October 2010: I think it's really that she's pissed he was bedding someone else at the same time he was doing her. Hell hath no fury....
And Nurse Betty your only choice is to maintain your composure until this fades into ancient history. Oh and stop blab... (read in full...)
Should I ask this teacher out on a date?
Q. PLEASE HELP! I KNOW ITS A LONG STORY BUT I NEED SOME ANSWERS! Ok so im a senior in highschool and i never thought this would happen to me. but it did. this year i met a woman at the gym i go to that made me fall in love at first sight. From wha...
A. 7 October 2010: She can't go out with you, it's against the law. Drop it like a hot potato. You'll only embarrass yourself because she'll give you a resounding "No". Stay busy and your crush will fade. And thank you ahead of time for your service.... (read in full...)
Bullied out of my job by a colleague! Is there anything I can do?
Q. Hi all, I have to get this out or I'll lose the plot! I've just been bullied out of my job. I am an extremely hard worker i.e. at work early every morning, believe in teamwork, frequently help others with things that aren't part of my job et...
A. 7 October 2010: I guess she's venting Nime...... (read in full...)
I stole money from my date and now I'm scared!
Q. I need help! I meet this guy at a bar we exchanged numbers went on 2nd date. He has a bit of an ego but I kinda liked it. But he turned me off because he kept talking about all the money he had that he had everything he wanted. We went to a hotel ...
A. 7 October 2010: Do what Tim says but first send the guy back his 100 bucks.... (read in full...)
I'm unable to cope with my sister's new relationship.
Q. My younger sister and I have always been very close, as teenagers I always looked out for her, particularly when it came to her relationships. While I never once interfered I always pride myself as being a good judge of character and it seemed like ...
A. 7 October 2010: If you want her to be happy then back off. You have no right to control who she dates. Of course you aren't the most important person in her life, and that's the way it should be. You are only her brother. If she wants your opinion let her ask for ... (read in full...)
My ex-gf birthday in 3 days - ignore or not ignore ?
Q. Short Summary (who didn't read my threads before) - my x-gf (for 4 months) went to vacation to her country, after 6 week I came to airport to meet her, and discovered that she came back with her X (they were together 3 years and separated 8 months...
A. 7 October 2010: Mail her a birthday card. A friendly not schmalzy birthday card.... (read in full...)
I secretly believe he will leave his wife for me! Am I mistaken?
Q. i've been having an affair with a man for the past six months. we really are in love. when we first got together we never thought that we would have feelings for each other the way that we do he is in a loveless relationship for convenience. him and ...
A. 7 October 2010: What I can't understand is why women keep falling for all this bullshit? Cheaters always say the same damn things and women, for some demented reason, believe them. They think their situation is unique when we hear the same scenario over and over ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so unloved when my girlfriend says she won't have sex with me?
Q. Why do I feel so unloved, unappreciated, and dirty when my girlfriend says she won't have sex with me? Why do I feel as if she doesn't desire me anymore? Why do I feel so...... Down......?...
A. 7 October 2010: Has she ever had sex with you?... (read in full...)
Only son is in living with another man in a gay relationship
Q. Hi I have given birth to 3 sons in 22 years. 2 died at birth and my living son is just 17 and has met someone from the internet 'A 21yr old man!' he did not tell me what was going on just that he was moving out. Neither lads work and sponge ...
A. 6 October 2010: I don't like my one daughter's husband very much, my other daughter is a lousy housekeeper, and I think my son drinks too much. At the end of the day, I'm just glad they are healthy, and geniunely nice people. It's all a mother can truly expect and ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 6 October 2010: Oh yeah DB? What about death and taxes? Huh?... (read in full...)
How do you keep a boy interested?
Q. i know its a random question but how to you keep a boy intrested ???? ...
A. 6 October 2010: If you have to work to keep him interested then he's not the guy for you.... (read in full...)
Some days he's interested, some days he's not!
Q. heres a long story short iv met this boy and he seem intrested some days but then does bother for weeks am i wasting my time or try and make him intrested ??...
A. 6 October 2010: I agree, most definitely wasting your precious time.... (read in full...)
Polygamist relationships?
Q. Hi. I just wanted to ask a very serious question. Have you ever had a polygamist relationship that was either successful or unsuccessful? Thank you....
A. 6 October 2010: Do you live in Utah?... (read in full...)
Breasts or nipples?
Q. My question might be a little hard to answer but for starters some guys, well a lot of guys like big breasts on a woman but will tell a woman that has really small breasts that more than a hand full is a waste but what I was wanting to know is this: ...
A. 6 October 2010: Just curious, did you click on the right age bracket?... (read in full...)
He wants me to pay expenses for his house but I don't live there!
Q. My boyfriend and I both own houses. He rarely comes to mine but wants me to come to his. He has a child that he has custody of every other week and we get along great. I have suggested for the kid's stability that we do the week he has his kid at ...
A. 6 October 2010: Do not get a joint account unless you marry the guy. You could get royally screwed. Does he chip in for your gas driving back and forth?... (read in full...)
I"m 14 and my best friends wants a FWB relationship
Q. Im 14 and i just found out my best friend has liked me since 5th grade. We were on the phone a few days ago and he wants to be "friends with benifits" Well i like him alot to and i kinda do wanna be to. but he has a rep of just using people. I can't ...
A. 6 October 2010: The 5th grade? Really that long?... (read in full...)
He's leaving the wife!
Q. My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...
A. 6 October 2010: Sorry but I don't think this situation is the slightest bit grey. Right now he's married. Until he is UNmarried you should keep your mitt's off him. If you really want to have a future with him that is. A foundation of honor and integrity is a great ... (read in full...)
Do you always have a thing for your first love...?
Q. Hi DC, Just a general post from something that I saw on TV the other nite about a couple who reunited after 40yrs apart (leaving thier respective partners/families) Do you always have a thing for your 1st love? Is the expression "1st Love neve...
A. 5 October 2010: Ditto... (read in full...)
Sex was so fun, I don't regret it but now I"m 14 & pregnant!
Q. Im under 16 and pregnant. Let me fill you in, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now since I was 12,i'm 14 now. Anyway, we were celebrating our 2 year anniversary by going for dinner then a movie at his. When we finished our dinner ...
A. 5 October 2010: I'm so glad you had fun. Verify that you are pregnant then tell your parents ASAP so the poor little baby can at least a modicum of pre-natal care. ... (read in full...)
My teacher acts like he likes me but doesn't directly say it! What should I do?
Q. I have an issue. I went to religious school and found my self with a teacher I hadn't seen in a few years. He's very nice and knows me. He started flirting with me. I liked him before and was sad when he didn't come back to teach. So now he's back ...
A. 5 October 2010: You should pay attention in class and do your homework.... (read in full...)
What does she want from me ? Friendship ? Attention ? Life is too short for these stupid games.
Q. I've known this girl for a few month now we used to text everyday ( one of her girlfriends told me she liked me and got my number for her)and see each other through our group of friends quite abit, occasionally I'd walk her home, and I really liked ...
A. 4 October 2010: Yep all weird girls end up in Hungary sooner or later. just kidding. I'd just relax and enjoy the friendship such as it is and not read anything more into it. Go ahead and keep looking for that special someone however.... (read in full...)
What can I do to fix this? My husband refuses to get any outside help!
Q. My husband and I have been together for almost 3 years, and married for the past 4 months. Our relationship has been a not so normal one, we got engaged after 4 months of being together. He always wanted a family and never had a chance to have one, ...
A. 4 October 2010: If your husband won't seek help then all you can do is prepare for the worst and ride out the storm. What you did in the past was foolish (the cheating AND going ahead and marrying someone who wasn't affectionate) but it is in the past and there ... (read in full...)
The relationship changed after we slept together
Q. Hello all, I used to be the greatest girl ever. The one who was cute, sweet, sexy, smart and funny. He was contacting me on a daily basis and every time we went out together it was clear that we liked each other very much. I am not the kind of ...
A. 4 October 2010: I'm afraid he just wanted to get into your pants and that's it. Some guys just love the chase. Sooner or later it would have progressed to sexual activity anyway so at least you haven't wasted anymore time on the fink.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend suddenly broke up with me last week - am I doing the right thing?
Q. Hello. I'm just trying to get some advice here. My girlfriend unexpectedly broke up - by text - last week. Her reasons were that she needed to concentrate on studies (she started University last week) and family, and that she felt I wouldn't suppo...
A. 4 October 2010: I think anyone who breaks up using a text message is a cowardly bitch/bastard. Whatever happened to good manners?... (read in full...)
Girlfriend suddenly broke up with me last week - am I doing the right thing?
Q. Hello. I'm just trying to get some advice here. My girlfriend unexpectedly broke up - by text - last week. Her reasons were that she needed to concentrate on studies (she started University last week) and family, and that she felt I wouldn't suppo...
A. 4 October 2010: Let her contact you. She's a big girl, if she wants to talk to you, she will. Be strong and go about your business. Good luck Buddy!... (read in full...)
How can I try to get his dad to be nice to me?
Q. Ok. This is a teensy bit awkward. Basically, the guy I've been seeing for over a year, I've had a crush on since I was 12. Although I payed him a lot of attention, he was never really interested in me, so I gave up and dated another guy. We all go t...
A. 4 October 2010: Keep behaving like a lady and Dad will come around.... (read in full...)
He keeps dreaming of kissing this girl!
Q. Okay, so this guy I've really fallen for told me that he had a dream of kissing a girl that he had a mega major crush for almost a year last year and asked her out twice but she turned him down but yeah, he still had a dream about kissing her and ...
A. 4 October 2010: He may or may not still be carrying a torch for her but really, who cares? He sounds like a real dumbass for telling you about his stupid dream. ... (read in full...)
He's leaving the wife!
Q. My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...
A. 4 October 2010: Thank you LoveGirl. Unfortunately I leave a lot of pockmarks around the nail heads and usually need Tish to follow up with a translation. But thanks.... (read in full...)
I think my doctor likes me
Q. I think my Doctor likes me. i know I like him. He gives me a hug.. and our visits last like an hour. How would i know for sure?...
A. 1 October 2010: Is this your first crush? Did you ever have one in your schoolgirl years?... (read in full...)
He's leaving the wife!
Q. My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...
A. 1 October 2010: Legally they are man and wife, You are not included. If you want to be a class act you will wait until he is a free man and means leaving him alone until then. And by the way there is a heap of difference between "leaving his wife" and "left his ... (read in full...)
He's leaving the wife!
Q. My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...
A. 1 October 2010: Well he isn't YOUR man. Until he divorces his wife he belongs to her. It's called marriage and "let no man put asunder", that includes you.... (read in full...)
He's leaving the wife!
Q. My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...
A. 30 September 2010: Your first two words are an oxymoron in the context of a married man.... (read in full...)
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