Why do you think I am behaving like this in class?
Q. Im in yr 10 im not very shy, im the least shy out of my friends. But i took geography as one of my options, dont get me wrong i 3 it. But it seems that when ever i go into the class i go into a shell, i never speak unless i have to, i never pu...
A. 18 February 2011: If I were you, I'd tranfer out of his geography class and get into a creative writing class.... (read in full...)
Would have I been better off if I had had a girlfriend years ago? Be honest.
Q. Hi everyone. I'm back. I would appreciate an honest answer to this question. I like feeling sorry for myself and blaming God for everything, but to do that, I need amunition. I need proof that what I'm complaining about is fair enough. I have always ...
A. 18 February 2011: Blame God all you want, it won't change anything. Your question is moot.... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married man...
Q. I'm a daycare teacher and currently having an affair with one of my parents. I know it's horrible but I'm enjoying every second of it. Every morning he drops his child off we chat but don't flirt to not make it obvious. But we know deep down we want ...
A. 18 February 2011: Dirty homewrecker...your words and they speak volumes.... (read in full...)
Husband says he loves me and that should be enough!
Q. I have been trying different things in my marriage to make things better and I am tired and just do not want to deal with more rejection from him, so what do I do? Here is a little info on our relationship... We have been together for 6 years and ...
A. 17 February 2011: The problem is HE won't try. You can't fix this all by yourself. He's most likely getting something on the side and just likes your cooking. I wouldn't settle for what you have right now. You are far too young to put up with a loveless marriage.... (read in full...)
Does my crush like me back?
Q. Does my crush like me back? i have a huge crush on this guy but i dunno if he likes me back or not. Sometimes ill see him staring at me and hell look away fast or just keep staring, or sometimes ill think hes staring at me but hes looking somewhere ...
A. 17 February 2011: Hard to say, when you get the opportunity why don't you go up and start a conversation with him .... (read in full...)
Husband says he loves me and that should be enough!
Q. I have been trying different things in my marriage to make things better and I am tired and just do not want to deal with more rejection from him, so what do I do? Here is a little info on our relationship... We have been together for 6 years and ...
A. 17 February 2011: This sure doesn't sound like a savable marriage to me. He isn't acting like he gives a rat's ass about you. You don't need his permission for a divorce in this country. I'd go for it, you aren't happy.... (read in full...)
I would have left this married man if I could!
Q. I am a 23 year old girl madly and helplessly in love with a 35 year old man who has a 3 year old daughter and an 8 year old son from a 9 year marriage with a 34 year old woman he dated for 5 years before marrying her. i liked him at the word go ...
A. 17 February 2011: If you are willing to take the sloppy seconds and all the crap that goes with an illicit relationship then by all means follow your heart. And when you are old and gray, you'll be looking back on a wasted and empty life. Your choice.... (read in full...)
I caught my husband and my best friend talking behind my back for the third time! How can I stop it?
Q. My husband had a secret relationship with my now ex-bestfriend. She's been in my life since elementary school and I've been with him since high school. They both said that there was no intimacy....but they both had feelings for eachother. They just ...
A. 16 February 2011: Get the best lawyer you can afford and go for the big bucks, adultery can cost in some states.... (read in full...)
How to ask someone out when you don't know them too well?
Q. So I met this girl through a friend of mine and i want to ask her on a date. ive only seen her once and we didnt talk a whole bunch since that time she was with her friend and i was with mine. The thing is my friend gave me her number and i want to ...
A. 16 February 2011: Just jump in Buddy, sink or swim. If she giggled after being told you are interested, I'd say the water's fine.... (read in full...)
Teacher ignores me, why?
Q. There is one teacher in my school who totally ignores me. Well I don't have any classes with him, but sometimes I do have him for exra help, and then he just like talks, talks and kinda doing his own business. I don't mind, I mean he's just my ...
A. 14 February 2011: If he's rude, I'd go to the guidance counselors office and report it. But somehow I don't think you'll do that. You wouldn't happen to be crushing on him, would you?... (read in full...)
So for Valentine's Day my boyfriend got me lube and a dildo, where's the rest of my present?
Q. My Boyfriend got me a dildo and lube for valentine's day and I'm really upset because that is not at all what I wanted. What should I do?...
A. 14 February 2011: Well it IS the gift that keeps on giving....... (read in full...)
Insecurities are going to ruin our relationship
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and we've lived together for 5 months. We are very much in love, and he is definitely the best influence in my life (I have a depressive, judgmental family, struggle to relate to people well enough to make ...
A. 14 February 2011: I think you need to do some research; there must be some counseling available at a low cost. Check with social services, I think you need to have professional help to get over the insecurities that are causing your distress. It almost sounds like ... (read in full...)
Best friend has valentine's day blues
Q. My best friend's girlfriend had broken up with him two days before valentines day.What should I do to make him feel better?...
A. 14 February 2011: Rent a funny movie and watch together after school.... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and I was wondering if its wrong to befriend a 12 yr old girl...?
Q. So yesterday I had a "houseconcert" of piano, quite like an exercise for the real concert in 2 weeks. It was organised by my piano teacher. It was at his house. Unlike the usual concerts, it was a warm concert because there were only 9 people ...
A. 14 February 2011: There's "mature" and then there's "mature FOR A 12 year old". Big difference.... (read in full...)
My meds helped make this relationship possilble, but they're also getting in the way of me being all she needs me to be
Q. First of all, I have to give some background information on myself. I am 44 years old and have had mental problems all my life. My father was an extremely abusive person and I grew up either being beaten, or watching him beat my mother. I develo...
A. 14 February 2011: Have you discussed your meds and the effects on your sex drive with your doctor? Did he says that there is nothing to be done?... (read in full...)
Are my standards too high to get a girlfriend?`
Q. Hello all, I'm a seventeen (Virgin) year old boy. I do want a girlfriend but I'm worried that my standards are too high. I don't believe in ANY sexual contact whatsoever, I wouldn't date a female if she had voluntarily given her virginity away o...
A. 14 February 2011: If we were living in Victorian times you'd have a better shot at finding your idealistic female, but judging by the ages of some of our posters, you are SOL.... (read in full...)
He's looking at porn every day, and defensive about it
Q. My boyfriend and I had a huge fight last night about porn. I dont mind he viewing porn but I saw he was viewing porn on everyday basis on his computer. I asked him why does he like porn and he told me , he doesnt know himself. He actually told me ...
A. 10 February 2011: "We have great sex" and then "a person is ignoring you and they want to watch porn instead of having sex with you"...so which is it???... (read in full...)
What would you do if you were told you only have 8 years left?
Q. If you're single, what would you do about your current love life if the doctor told you, you have a deadly disease and that you only have 8 years of life? Would you look for someone? and why? ...
A. 10 February 2011: I'd get a second opinion.... (read in full...)
I'm widowed and slept with a married man. For once in my life I want to be selfish and just do what I want!
Q. I have been widowed for a year and have 2 children. This doesn't leave me a lot of time to date or even meet someone. I do miss having sex but I am not ready for a relationship and may never be, given the circumstances of my previous marriage and ...
A. 10 February 2011: Well I can guarentee that his wife is emotionally involved and has plenty of time for her relationship. Keep your mitts off and act like a class act.... (read in full...)
Guy out of the blue said he doesn't want a relationship, but we really clicked. Help!!
Q. So I started talking to this guy about a week ago and we went out on our first date a few days back and had a great time. We really clicked and expressed to each other that we really liked each other. I stayed with him that night since he does live ...
A. 10 February 2011: If I were you I would just let him make the next move. Let him call you. But don't put your life on hold for the guy. If he's interested he'll let you know.... (read in full...)
In love with a woman who is an abusive relationship! Should I wait for her?
Q. So I met this girl at work a few months ago and I developed feelings for her. Come to find out she also developed feelings for me. Problem is, she has been with a guy for 5 years and has two children with him. He is emotionally, and on occasion, ...
A. 9 February 2011: How do you know he's abusive to her, have you seen the bruises?... (read in full...)
Why won't he accept that it is over?
Q. Nine months ago, my married man left his wife of 3 years. He said he did it for me, which I never asked of him and I don't believe he did, I think I was just an excuse. He moved in with me for 2 months and moved out again and now shares a house ...
A. 9 February 2011: Agreed, he's not listening because he doesn't have to.... (read in full...)
The father of my baby has never visited or asked about his daughter! What should I do?
Q. Hey, he abondoned me when I was four months pregnant. My daughter is now 8 months old. He has never come to see our child, and if he sees me in town, he hides from me. Instead, he sends me messages on facebook about how he saw me in town and what I ...
A. 8 February 2011: That's "act like one", the "y" is right next to the "t" so close but no cigar for me.... (read in full...)
The father of my baby has never visited or asked about his daughter! What should I do?
Q. Hey, he abondoned me when I was four months pregnant. My daughter is now 8 months old. He has never come to see our child, and if he sees me in town, he hides from me. Instead, he sends me messages on facebook about how he saw me in town and what I ...
A. 8 February 2011: I have no clue what the child support laws are in your country so my only advice is to check with a solicitor/lawyer. You should at least make him pay up as a father even if he doesn't want to acy like one.... (read in full...)
My relationship with my parents is falling apart! Who can I talk to about getting help?
Q. At 17, I despise where I live, I despise who I live with, and most of all I can't wait to get the hell out of here. I have the life outlook of a cynical man of 70, and I'm not even allowed to have a legal drink. After 17 years of putting up with my ...
A. 8 February 2011: You can emancipate yourself. Check it out. Where are your grandparents? Do you have any uncles/aunts?... (read in full...)
Wife is too wet and it turns me off!
Q. My wife is having this funny noise on her vagina when we having sex its not the farting sound due to air inside her vagina its like her vagina its too much wet and every time i go in and out the noise is there and it turns me off, so what should be ...
A. 8 February 2011: I agree with DB, you have no idea how many men would like to trade places with you, Buddy. I suggest you turn up the volume on the mood music.... (read in full...)
What makes a man "good at screwing"?
Q. Question for the women: I hear men described as being "good in bed" and as being "good at screwing". What's the difference, and what makes a man "good at screwing"? Is this a skill that can be learned, or is it some sort of natural ability?...
A. 8 February 2011: My husband is pretty good in bed, rarely does he steal the covers but he does snore. He is also really good at screwing, he just recently made me a set of shelves for my special plates. Now I have a question for you are you really 41-50 years old?... (read in full...)
Had lots of unprotected sex and never got pregnant....does this mean I wont be able to have kids in the future?
Q. There's this guy that I have sex with a lot. He cums inside me all the time...but I have never gotten pregnant once. I'm 13 years old (I know I'm wayyyy too young for sex) but I mean...why cant I get pregnant? I don't want to at all but I mean can I ...
A. 8 February 2011: Double yikes with chocolate on top. Please say you don't live in North Carolina.... (read in full...)
I've got the French maid costume, but what do I do after I put it on?
Q. My boyfriend has told me before that one of his fantasies is for me to dress up as a french maid. As we are at different universities we hardly see each other at all any more, so I thought I'd surprise him when I go to visit him next. The thing is...
A. 7 February 2011: Three women: one engaged, one married, and one a mistress, are chatting about their relationships and decide to amaze their men....that night all three will wear a leather bodice S&M style, stilettos and mask over their eyes . After a few days ... (read in full...)
Whatever happened to holding hands and watching the sunset?
Q. So, alot of things have been hard to adjust to since I got out of the Army. Not the least of which has been dating, or...not dating, I suppose. I like to think I'm a nice guy, outgoing in public, but private at home. I own my own house, and c...
A. 7 February 2011: Anybody who breaks up with someone by "texting" has no class. But if it's only after one date then I guess it makes some sense, at least she saved you the effort of asking for a second date. Get used to the texting however, it's going to be with us ... (read in full...)
My daughter is causing me so much stress just now...
Q. Hello, I posted on here recently regarding problem with my daughter and her BF who is here 2/3 nights a week. I got some really helpful answers regarding him paying his way. However since that time, another serious problem has happened and I ...
A. 7 February 2011: You need to inform your daughter that her behavior is unacceptable and because of it, she (and of course the boyfriend) will no longer be living under your roof. Since not only do they not contribute to the household costs (from your previous post) ... (read in full...)
One time, at band camp, we had this connection....Does he possibly like me?
Q. A couple of months ago, I started crushing on my senior in our school band. He was the one who taught me how to play my instrument, but when we first knew each other, we didn't talk at all. Back then, he would look at me coldly and ignore me ea...
A. 7 February 2011: Relax and give it time. I think he's definitely interested, just let it develop. Good luck.... (read in full...)
My best friend took me in, and helped me escape an abusive relationship. Now I'm having feelings for her. Do I tell her?
Q. I have a friend I've known for a little over 4 months now. She insisted I move in with her, so I could get away from my abusive soon to be ex husband. She has slowly become my best friend as I learn to trust more and more. I trust her pretty much ...
A. 4 February 2011: I have a cookie recipe for "Dirty Balls". Haven't tried it yet but it does sound yummy.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel about him?
Q. Basically I'm in love with my teacher, yeah you've heard it all before I understand, this is just typical, he pays me special attention, touches my body like waist and arms. He makes jokes that can be taken in different ways and says things I could ...
A. 4 February 2011: Okay which one of you guys blew out the margin???? CT?????... (read in full...)
It's been 3 months since she said she needed some space. Is this over?
Q. My mistress of 4 years told me she "needs some space". Her friends told her we should not talk or e-mail for a few months. we both miss doing things together (not just the sex). It's been 3 long months . Is it over ? Neither one of us (I think) h...
A. 4 February 2011: "long standing comittment"????????????... (read in full...)
Why did he stop running back to me?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend and now he has a gilfriend. I'm fuming because she's prettier and nicer then me. All of our mutual friends adore her. She's nice to me to and that pisses me off. How could my boyfriend move on from me so fast?!!! He ...
A. 3 February 2011: It's okay to be pissed, chalk it up as a learning experience. But quite honestly I think he was lucky to get away. Now you have the time to work on being nicer to people. ... (read in full...)
It's been 3 months since she said she needed some space. Is this over?
Q. My mistress of 4 years told me she "needs some space". Her friends told her we should not talk or e-mail for a few months. we both miss doing things together (not just the sex). It's been 3 long months . Is it over ? Neither one of us (I think) h...
A. 3 February 2011: Say hey to the wife for me.... (read in full...)
He works so much I feel like a single parent
Q. The roads are treacherous and icy today, the kids are home from school. My husband, although having the option (from his boss) to work from home, got up before the crack of dawn and spent over two hours to get to his office in a commute that ...
A. 2 February 2011: Maybe try a trial separation? Perhaps when he's entirely on his own he'll realize what is really important in life and make some changes. I hope so. But I agree that spending the rest of you life lonely but unable to find a lover, friend, and ... (read in full...)
It's been 3 months since she said she needed some space. Is this over?
Q. My mistress of 4 years told me she "needs some space". Her friends told her we should not talk or e-mail for a few months. we both miss doing things together (not just the sex). It's been 3 long months . Is it over ? Neither one of us (I think) h...
A. 2 February 2011: Your mistress just finally wised up and saw that her life was not going anywhere and involvement with a married guy is a dead end street. Go groom another one. Your wife has my deepest sympathy, I think I can guess what started her drinking.... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 2 February 2011: You asked: "Anyone have experience and can share some tips, pitfalls, advice, whatever?" You got all of the above with both postings. Here's my positive answer: I'm positive you are going to regret this threesome, that is if this is a real post and ... (read in full...)
She's gone from loving and caring to controlling and possessive!
Q. my girlfriend of almost a year know has completely changed on me. she was once a loving, caring person to me and my four kids. and know she is a total @*$%# with my kids and she is controlling and possesive with me. i dnt want to call it quits just ...
A. 1 February 2011: Have you asked her why she has changed attitudes?... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 1 February 2011: Whatever floats your etc... but please, let us know how it all comes out in the wash.... (read in full...)
Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.
Q. Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before ...
A. 1 February 2011: After you fulfill this fantasy of hers, and I assume you're thinking it's a one time only deal, I'm curious to know what YOUR fantasy is all about.... (read in full...)
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