He's leaving the wife!
Q. My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...
A. 13 October 2010: You keep saying you want some common sense advice and you've recieved it. Leave him alone until he's out of his marriage. One has to wonder why you refuse to do the right thing and butt out.... (read in full...)
I think my doctor likes me
Q. I think my Doctor likes me. i know I like him. He gives me a hug.. and our visits last like an hour. How would i know for sure?...
A. 8 October 2010: Well you are half way there. All you have to do now is divorce your husband.... (read in full...)
He's leaving the wife!
Q. My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...
A. 6 October 2010: Sorry but I don't think this situation is the slightest bit grey. Right now he's married. Until he is UNmarried you should keep your mitt's off him. If you really want to have a future with him that is. A foundation of honor and integrity is a great ... (read in full...)
He keeps dreaming of kissing this girl!
Q. Okay, so this guy I've really fallen for told me that he had a dream of kissing a girl that he had a mega major crush for almost a year last year and asked her out twice but she turned him down but yeah, he still had a dream about kissing her and ...
A. 4 October 2010: He may or may not still be carrying a torch for her but really, who cares? He sounds like a real dumbass for telling you about his stupid dream. ... (read in full...)
My ex pushes me away and then pulls me back. I'm so confused!
Q. Hello, Me and my ex have been split up nearly 2 months now and im still not over him. We were together just over a year and engaged. We work together at the same place but in different units but still see each other. He always smiles and acts fri...
A. 4 October 2010: Don't let him string you alone any longer. You just have to force yourself to get on with your life. I know it's hard especially if you see him every day but it's time to get on with it. No more contact other than a smile when you see him. Stay ... (read in full...)
What's it going to be like to be an old person?
Q. Ok so have you ever thought about what it is going to be like when you are older or like to have an actual job and family etc. Or when you die? Like I've always tried to imagine my self being 18 or whatever but I never can, like being allowed to go ...
A. 4 October 2010: Wait and see and enjoy the ride.... (read in full...)
He's leaving the wife!
Q. My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...
A. 4 October 2010: Thank you LoveGirl. Unfortunately I leave a lot of pockmarks around the nail heads and usually need Tish to follow up with a translation. But thanks.... (read in full...)
I think my doctor likes me
Q. I think my Doctor likes me. i know I like him. He gives me a hug.. and our visits last like an hour. How would i know for sure?...
A. 1 October 2010: Is this your first crush? Did you ever have one in your schoolgirl years?... (read in full...)
He's leaving the wife!
Q. My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...
A. 1 October 2010: Legally they are man and wife, You are not included. If you want to be a class act you will wait until he is a free man and means leaving him alone until then. And by the way there is a heap of difference between "leaving his wife" and "left his ... (read in full...)
Wife taking 24 condoms on holiday when she is going with 3 other women.
Q. hi my wife and i have funny kind of marrage (i think we have been married a lot of years) yes i know how many 30. each year she and 3 old (well same age girlfriends go away on holiday for a week. this year they are going on a crusie and i was...
A. 1 October 2010: Is one of her friends having a birthday during the trip? Maybe she will be using them for balloons.... (read in full...)
Do you always have a thing for the guy that took your virginity?
Q. Wanted to ask a question toward the women, because i think it happens to them more than guys. Do you always have a thing for the guy that took your virginity?...
A. 1 October 2010: Absolutely, positively....no... (read in full...)
Is this marriage a waste of time?
Q. hello hope everyone is doing well.heres my problem,problems I should say.I have repeatly told my husband that It upsets me when the first thing in the morning he turns on the computer,as if it's the most imporant thing in his life,yet every morning ...
A. 1 October 2010: Does he work? How can he spend so much time in the morning on the computer?... (read in full...)
How can I overcome my trust issues?
Q. i've had trust issues for a very long time, from a very young age i can remember being reluctant to trust anyone i didn't know very well. when i was 10 my father left but continued to visit me, then after he got a new house i visited him for the ...
A. 1 October 2010: Well you've certainly had some hard knocks. I think that maybe some REAL therapy and advice from a professional is called for here. He/she will help you to relax around other people and let your inner beauty shine through. Really, if I were you, I'd ... (read in full...)
For the guys, do you prefer skinny or thick?
Q. This is a question for guys only:) does weight matter when your in a relashion? do you guys prefer a skiny gf or thick...
A. 1 October 2010: Ha ha LG!!... (read in full...)
I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17
Q. basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...
A. 1 October 2010: I'm sure we will be hearing from you in the very near future, but with an entirely different post.... (read in full...)
He's leaving the wife!
Q. My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...
A. 1 October 2010: Well he isn't YOUR man. Until he divorces his wife he belongs to her. It's called marriage and "let no man put asunder", that includes you.... (read in full...)
He's leaving the wife!
Q. My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...
A. 30 September 2010: Your first two words are an oxymoron in the context of a married man.... (read in full...)
I'm messing around with a 29 year old and he doesn't know that I"m only 17
Q. basically a few months back i met this guy we kissed, then after i found out he was 29 years old and i was only 16 years old. i stopped texting him because i knew it was wrong. but now.... I need your help again!! I was out downtown with ...
A. 30 September 2010: Your Mum has a screw loose.... (read in full...)
Star signs and love
Q. This a rather strange question but I'm very curious about this specific little subject :) A lot of people turn to the zodiac for tips on love and relationships. When I tell men I'm a Scorpio, they either think sex fiend, or possesive, jealous psycho ...
A. 30 September 2010: I think the stars are very beautiful, very twinkly. That's it.... (read in full...)
He is thinking of leaving his wife for me, but I'm worried he may only be leaving because he thinks the grass is greener on the other side....
Q. Ok, it's best to start at the beginning. I work with a guy who is 15 years older than me, have always had a soft spot, and the room kinda lit up when I saw him. I hadn't realised that (2 years down the line) he had felt the same as me. He is ...
A. 29 September 2010: I'm in total agreement. Until he moves out and has a legal separation, leave him alone. Be very careful if you do start dating him while you await his divorce. Ideally he will have some alone time while he adjusts to single life. If he jumps from ... (read in full...)
What do women really think about guys who are not good-looking?
Q. Hi all. I'm an ugly bloke (I think so anyway) and I have never had a girlfriend before, and I want an honest answer on this question...What do women really think about guys who are not good-looking? Most guys who are not good-looking gro...
A. 28 September 2010: You know Bruce if you do become a multi millionaire your looks will improve 100% and the ladies will come out of the woodwork.... (read in full...)
This isn't just another pupil/teacher crush!
Q. I'll start from the beginning. I'm 16 years old and completely in love with my 33 year old teacher. I know what you're all thinking. "Oh it's just a crush you silly girl!" and it's not, trust me, it's really not. I've experienced crushes and this ...
A. 28 September 2010: Good lord check out our Forbidden Love section off the main page! We get hundreds of schoolgirl crush posts and almost every single one says they are sure it's true love. But it isn't, it's a crush. And that's exactly what this is. Yes it is Yes it ... (read in full...)
Bored with the relationship and want to break up, but she'd be devestated
Q. I've been with a girl 5 months and I'm beginning to get bored. We slept together after a week, have been on holiday together, and have also been on family meals with each others families. Our sex life is really good, but everything else is boring. ...
A. 28 September 2010: Just tell her she deserves better and then leave her to get over you. She will be fine. Clean and quick like removing a bandaid, that's the kindest way.... (read in full...)
Christmas gift for my country boy?
Q. im wandering what to get my boyfriend for christmas. i'm 18 and he's 21, and by christmas we will have been together for 5 months and he already means the world to me. but i have no idea what to get him. he's a bit of a country boy if that helps ...
A. 28 September 2010: A cool decal for his truck, or maybe NEW truck. What's the price range?... (read in full...)
He said we are on a break, what does that mean?
Q. Well my boyfriend came to talk to me last night and asked for a break. I wouldn't call it asked though cause I did not really have a choice, and I know why we are having this break. There are a lot of things in his life he needs to get together ...
A. 28 September 2010: Does he live with his wife? Is this a LEGAL separation? How much time have you wasted on this guy? Wanna buy a bridge?... (read in full...)
Age taking it's toll...
Q. I am about to meet up with an old friend the same age as me. He remembers me fondly, we went out once 40 years ago. I am probably fairly attractive, but I wear a hearing aid and have false teeth. I have already put him off once but am meeting this ...
A. 28 September 2010: You were worried about telling him you have a hearing aid and dentures, but yet, not about your adultery?... (read in full...)
Why do family members and relatives interrogate me just because I don't want kids?
Q. Hi everyone. I've noticed that when someone does not want to have kids, everyone interrogates them. They demand answers. But when someone does want to have kids, no-one interrogates them! How does that work? It sounds like discrimination to me...
A. 28 September 2010: Hey Bruce aren't you the really ugly guy?... (read in full...)
What do women really think about guys who are not good-looking?
Q. Hi all. I'm an ugly bloke (I think so anyway) and I have never had a girlfriend before, and I want an honest answer on this question...What do women really think about guys who are not good-looking? Most guys who are not good-looking gro...
A. 28 September 2010: On a scale of 1 to 10...just how ugly are you?... (read in full...)
Why do family members and relatives interrogate me just because I don't want kids?
Q. Hi everyone. I've noticed that when someone does not want to have kids, everyone interrogates them. They demand answers. But when someone does want to have kids, no-one interrogates them! How does that work? It sounds like discrimination to me...
A. 28 September 2010: I say stick to your guns and stick that finger up when someone nosey busybody starts questioning you. Children aren't for everyone. I just wished there were more 14 year olds that could consider you a role model!... (read in full...)
I want to be close to him without telling him I like him as more than a friend. How do I do this?
Q. Hi, i like this guy hes a family friend of ours, we get along in a amazing way, that we even think the same way.My question is i want to be close to him, without telling him i like him more than a friend yet.So should i tell him lets be friends....
A. 28 September 2010: Why tell him anything? It sounds like you are already on a friendship basis.... (read in full...)
I want a large family, and I want to start when I'm 19. Is this a good idea?
Q. Before you answer this question, could you PLEASE understand that, I know I may be talking about being young to do all these things, but I believe that if I'm ready for it, I shouldn't sit and wait around. I should do it. My parents don't know this ...
A. 27 September 2010: I can see that the only people you truly want advice from are the ones that say, Go for it, Do whatever you feel like, etc... I can tell you what I really think of your plan but you won't like it and won't listen. Just what part of this FULL story ... (read in full...)
What is so special about love or lust?
Q. Well, it's been a long time since I've had sex, which was a few years back, but my question is... Why do people insist on saying that relationships are special? What is so special about an intimate relationship? Is it possible (just possible) ...
A. 27 September 2010: Whether you are stuffed in the head or not, one thing is for sure...you'll never be confused with Mary Sunshine.... (read in full...)
I am gay but about to marry a woman, does anyone have any advice on how to make my marriage work?
Q. hi, im jay 28 yrs old gay and dont have any feeling for girls. but i have too marry a girl very soon, i have already stopped my gay activities and want to live like other married couples and i have heared that many gays are married and have kids ...
A. 27 September 2010: Because if you don't tell her she will be living a lie, what she feels in her heart of hearts will be a sham. Who could do that to other human being?... (read in full...)
Is he trying to tell me he wants a baby?
Q. my boyfriend is 26 and iam 20, i may be wrong but this is what is on my mind. we've been together for a year and a bit and quite recently he's made hints about babies. there have been a few occasions where he's mentioned this: once we drove ...
A. 27 September 2010: He's just goofing around. Even if he's hinting around, wouldn't be nice to have all the ducks in a row before you bring a baby into the world?... (read in full...)
Is this a lost cause??
Q. For the past several months, I have had an ongoing "thing" going with a fellow colleague. We are both Senior Managers, both married, and yet whenever we meet, there is a clear spark. The way he looks at me is unsettling, and I find myself also ...
A. 27 September 2010: Nope, no point at all.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's kids were fine ... until I saw an old picture of her ex and now I feel cheated!
Q. Im 29 and shes 27, her kids are 2 and 5. We've been going out for about a year, just recently i saw some old pics of her kids, herself and her ex, they were never married... I saw some pics of them playing in the park and christining ... ...
A. 27 September 2010: Ease up there Buddy. You yourself said you think you should move on because you can NEVER have a "normal traditional" life with her and her kids. The fact that you never gave it much thought before you were emotionally involved was just poor ... (read in full...)
Cheating with married man, why do I feel its all my fault?
Q. I have been in a situation where-as-though I messed with a married man. My intentions wasn't to get seriously involve but I did. I was told he was separated and lived by his self but all that was a lie. He made it so believeable because he always ...
A. 27 September 2010: Not ALL your fault but 50% of it is. Stop with this nonsense.... (read in full...)
I want to fake a pregnany to get back at him!
Q. I already know what everyone will say to this, but please say it anyway! I met a guy on an internet dating site and we have been speaking on msn for a few months, he lives about 100 miles away from me and seemed to really like me. he kept begging me ...
A. 27 September 2010: Just curious, how old are you?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's kids were fine ... until I saw an old picture of her ex and now I feel cheated!
Q. Im 29 and shes 27, her kids are 2 and 5. We've been going out for about a year, just recently i saw some old pics of her kids, herself and her ex, they were never married... I saw some pics of them playing in the park and christining ... ...
A. 27 September 2010: Kids may go away at 18 but they usually come back, bringing with them a spouse and a kid or two. At least that's my experience with parenthood.... (read in full...)
Bennefits of Porn
Q. Hi: I have read a lot of negative things at forums about the dangers and evil of PORN (OMG) and wish to offer my perspective on Porn. When I got caught up in Porn, it was not because something was missing in my current marriage. I just liked ...
A. 23 September 2010: Where can I send the flowers Jimbo?... (read in full...)
He's gone from being a gentleman to being loud, embarrassing to be seen with, and disgusting!
Q. I have a college friend that I have known for 8 years. When we met, it was wonderful and pleasant. A real gentleman he was. Now, he is loud, embarrassing to be seen with, and disgusting. He always want to have special dinner evenings in public. When ...
A. 23 September 2010: It's a free country so don't go out with him until he cleans up his act.... (read in full...)
No sex...no job
Q. Hi, iam a convicted felon that was released from prison december,2008. i jus recently landed a job about 3weeks ago. she gave me sex when i first got out for about a week then she started putin me on pussy probation becuz i didnt have a job. now ...
A. 23 September 2010: Find a new girlfriend.... (read in full...)
His love for his mistress ruined our marriage!
Q. Hi guys I am 37 years and have been married with my husband for 14 years. About 3 years ago he cheated on me with another woman and the relationship lasted a long time because of his drinking and drug abuse. He left me in 2009 to move in with her ...
A. 22 September 2010: Same boat but now you can change the direction it's going. You can take the lessons you've learned from this whole mess and plot a new course. Get that divorce this time, get the child support you deserve, and get busy living. Good luck sister!... (read in full...)
My ex took my kids out of my life
Q. i m very depressed my ex husband took my kids out of my life he still wont let me go on with my life he loves to fight with me i m remarried i been married for 12 years i l love my husband but he will not let me go on with life im really un ...
A. 22 September 2010: Talk to a lawyer if you aren't getting the legal access to your kids that your custody agreement allows you. If your husband has total custody then perhaps you need to go back to court and sue for a change in the custody agreement. ... (read in full...)
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