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I don't want to waste any more time if he doesn't think we'll ever marry

Q.   I've known my boyfriend for about 10 months now. We dated for 2 months, broke-up, were friends/cuddle buddies for about 6 months, and finally we got back together again. It's been two months since we've started dating for the second time. Things are ...

A.   3 November 2010: What's the rush? If you love him and you are happy why would you think you are wasting your time anyway? I'd just enjoy the ride if I were you.... (read in full...)

What sports should I try for a plus size teen girl?

Q.   I'm a 14 year old teen girl and I really want to get into sports espescially for losing weight cause I'm around 280 pounds. I would really like to know what sports you all think I should try at first, but don't get me wrong I do dance a lot and try ...

A.   3 November 2010: Talk to your physical education teacher(s). They are trained and can guide towards the sport you are best suited for. You go girl, and remember to have some fun along the way.... (read in full...)

Jealousy over boyfriend's past.

Q.   I only ask this because I'm not sure how to react or respond to my boyfriend. He admitted something to me about him and his sister when he was a freshmen in high school. He was drunk when he told me this and I'm not sure if it was because he w...

A.   2 November 2010: He and his friend had a threesome with his own sister? Unless you guys live in West Virginia, I agree with Moo...run, very very fast.... (read in full...)

What do I wear to go out on this hot date?

Q.   Hey people... I am going on this date with this guy and I have NO idea what to wear do you have any idea what is hot to wear this season...? I dont wanna Be too revealing and I don't wanna be too covered up =) BTW I am 16.. Help please......

A.   2 November 2010: Where are you going?... (read in full...)

Does wearing tampons make your vagina looser?

Q.   I decided to wear Pads instead of Tampons because i think if i use Tampons for almost a week out the month 'it will cause my Vagina to be looser.. so my Q is Does it matter or make a difference if i dont use Tampons because i dont want my Vagina to ...

A.   2 November 2010: Nonsense. ... (read in full...)

We had sex and now he threatens to tell my husband if I don't do what he wants!!! Help!

Q.   Long story short, I met a guy and we ended up having sex. I'm married. Now he threatens to tell my husband if I don't do what he wants, when he wants. How do I get out of this? Please help me....

A.   2 November 2010: No other choice but to tell your husband yourself.... (read in full...)

She's annoyed with my kisses

Q.   Hi everyone its me back with another question I've been wondering about my girl she says she gets annoyed of my kisses is that a bad sign? ...

A.   2 November 2010: Well then all I can suggest is that if your kisses annoy her then I'd find a new girl, this one must not really like you all that much.... (read in full...)

I fancy this lad but I'm trying not to get caught. Help!

Q.   I'm liking this lad who comes over to see his grandma who lives next door. He is 18 and im 15, i dont know if this is illigal but i really like him and he really likes me. But ever since he came over his grandma (My mam's best friend) is really ...

A.   1 November 2010: Sounds like granny has a sharp memory and knows what can happen when you leave a 18 year old guy alone with a 15 year old girl. You are underage and he is considered to be an adult. She is looking out for her grandson, and wisely so.... (read in full...)

My teacher shouts at me around others but is nice in private. What does it mean?

Q.   my teacher is grumpy in front of others and shouts at me and points out my flaws but when i go to ask for doubts privately he acts so sweet and he brushes on me and acts as if nothing wrong has happened, what does he have in mind?...

A.   1 November 2010: Let's clear this up first, do you have a crush on him?... (read in full...)

I want my feelings for wife's sister to go away!

Q.   To make a long story short here recently (very recently) Im having feeling about my sister in law.I dont know were these feeling have come from. Am I wierd? I really dont know what to do. I have been married for 7 years and have a 5 year old son. My ...

A.   1 November 2010: Instead of repeatedly posting this question, and getting the same answers by the way, why not hop into a cold shower instead? http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-if-i-cannot-stop-my-attraction-to.html... (read in full...)

What if I cannot stop my attraction to my sister in law?

Q.   hi, Im back again with these SIL thing. I got your answers to the question however I dont think it done me much justice. Im still having these feeling in fact I woke up thinking about her. What if i cant stop it? I know im married and so is she with ...

A.   1 November 2010: I wonder what the wives would say knowing you two goofballs were talking trading them like trading power tools???? Speaking of tools....... (read in full...)

His ex wife has not told anyone they have split up, and he is allowing this! What should I do?

Q.   Need advice. I'll try to keep this as simple as I can, but it is complicated. I'm separated for over a year and a half. I have been dating a man for the past 13 months who has been separated for the past 7 months. Yes, that means he was married ...

A.   1 November 2010: Why haven't you gotten your divorce finalized by now? When is his divorce going to be finalized or hasn't he filed yet?... (read in full...)

My mother is a hoarder!

Q.   My mother is a compulsive hoarder. I'm the exact opposite and like to keep everything neat and tidy, but every single room of the house is overtaken with her useless shit. Living in a house full of clutter for most of my life and getting hurt while ...

A.   1 November 2010: Make the call, that may be exactly the motivation she needs. They will give her a time frame to clean the joint up or else. Coming from the authorities instead of you may just be the ticket. You can't keep living like animals.... (read in full...)

How much does he like me on a scale of 1-10?

Q.   I know I asked this before but I left some details out. I don't want to keep my hope up. Okay so I like this boy A LOT but he has a girlfriend. But before I knew that I though he liked me. Please don't make fun of me or be rude thanks... I had to ...

A.   1 November 2010: Yeah I'd say maybe a 2, he sounds just like a friendly guy to me. Anyway you say he has a girlfriend so I guess it's a moot point.... (read in full...)

She's annoyed with my kisses

Q.   Hi everyone its me back with another question I've been wondering about my girl she says she gets annoyed of my kisses is that a bad sign? ...

A.   1 November 2010: How old is she? Maybe she's too young to get into kissing.... (read in full...)

Like others, married wanting someone else.

Q.   I've been married for 4 years to a great guy. He is 14 years older than me. We only dated for about 6 months before we got married, but I thought he was the one despite our age difference. He has older kids that do not live with us. Being a step ...

A.   1 November 2010: "I have a mortgage and pets and cars" those are THINGS for crying out loud. I think your husband will be more than glad to divide them up once he finds out about your affair. Since he's cheated on you before maybe he wants out just as much as you ... (read in full...)

She's annoyed with my kisses

Q.   Hi everyone its me back with another question I've been wondering about my girl she says she gets annoyed of my kisses is that a bad sign? ...

A.   1 November 2010: Are you constantly trying to kiss her, in other words are you all over her, basically smothering her?... (read in full...)

My husband is rubbing his affairs in my face!

Q.   I have been reading your colume for awhile and i felt it was time to reach out to someone. iv been married for 24 years my husband 2 years ago took out a young girl out for valintines night.for the past 2 years their has been 2 different women call ...

A.   29 October 2010: Why are you still there? Leave the son of a bitch, get a good lawyer (the best your husband's money can buy) and take him to the cleaners.... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a guy "popped your cherry?"

Q.   What does it mean when a guy has 'popped your cherry'??...

A.   29 October 2010: It means he took your virginity... (read in full...)

Pregnant and no one knows but me

Q.   Okay so I'm pregnant and the guy doesn't know It and neither do my parents. Help me please?!!...

A.   29 October 2010: Looks to me like someone goofing around on their computer who should really be busy doing their homework instead.... (read in full...)

She wants a break, but I am so scared of losing her!

Q.   Hello, now, first of all I am a 15 year old boy. I have been in a 6 month relationship with my girlfriend who is 13 years old. Now, everything has been great, since the start, my love for her has been constantly growing. Suddenly, a co...

A.   29 October 2010: She is frickin' 13 years old!!!! Give her a break and back off. If she were my daughter she wouldn't even be allowed to HAVE a boyfriend yet.... (read in full...)

She's annoyed with my kisses

Q.   Hi everyone its me back with another question I've been wondering about my girl she says she gets annoyed of my kisses is that a bad sign? ...

A.   29 October 2010: Are you one of those really sloppy kissers?... (read in full...)

My friends always say the teacher is staring at me

Q.   hey :) I know I have asked this before, but I got no help :( thank you to the people who did comment though, I just need more help please I don't know what to do im really sorry its so long, but please I need your advice .... I'm a littl...

A.   29 October 2010: Then why haven't you reported him to someone?... (read in full...)

Airports new "feel you up" measure is crossing the lines!

Q.   ok. who was watching cnn this morning? airports are bringing in some new security measures and its getting personal. i watched (on cnn) an employee run her hand between and right under a female passengers breasts. they touch your butt and quickly ...

A.   29 October 2010: Better a few embarrassing seconds than an eternity spread over a Pennsylvania corn field.... (read in full...)

My friends always say the teacher is staring at me

Q.   hey :) I know I have asked this before, but I got no help :( thank you to the people who did comment though, I just need more help please I don't know what to do im really sorry its so long, but please I need your advice .... I'm a littl...

A.   29 October 2010: First posting???? Look at your first sentence. You got the exact same advice the last time, yet you did not heed it apparently. I really don't think you are upset about this teacher's behavior in the slightest.... (read in full...)

My friends always say the teacher is staring at me

Q.   hey :) I know I have asked this before, but I got no help :( thank you to the people who did comment though, I just need more help please I don't know what to do im really sorry its so long, but please I need your advice .... I'm a littl...

A.   28 October 2010: You beat me TS! Great minds think alike....... (read in full...)

My friends always say the teacher is staring at me

Q.   hey :) I know I have asked this before, but I got no help :( thank you to the people who did comment though, I just need more help please I don't know what to do im really sorry its so long, but please I need your advice .... I'm a littl...

A.   28 October 2010: Okay why doesn't the poster actually say what help she is seeking? Does she want advice on how to get away from this teacher? No. Does she want to know who at the school she should report this to? No. We all tried to help her the last two times ... (read in full...)

My wife thinks that my ejaculating inside of her will make her fat!

Q.   My wife does not want me to ejaculate inside her because she thinks sperm will make her fat, even though she doesn't eats junk food all the time. We have been married 18 months and I have to pull out just before I cum or wear condoms. This has been ...

A.   28 October 2010: Tell her to check out this site. Once she realizes just how many calories she burns off during sex, she won't focus on the teaspoon of sperm. http://www.c4vct.com/kym/humor/csex.htm... (read in full...)

My friends always say the teacher is staring at me

Q.   hey :) I know I have asked this before, but I got no help :( thank you to the people who did comment though, I just need more help please I don't know what to do im really sorry its so long, but please I need your advice .... I'm a littl...

A.   28 October 2010: Nime, I agree with your post as well. I recognize this young lady from her previous posts. She is not looking for ways to stop or address the teacher's "flirting". Telling her to seek help from an adult just ain't going to happen since she totally ... (read in full...)

I'm 18 and dating a 42 year old married man!

Q.   I've kind of dug myself a grave here. I'm dating a man who's 42, and I'm only 18. But there one huge problem that I used to let slide but now it's starting to get to me. He's married. I used to just brush it off, but every time I see his and her car ...

A.   28 October 2010: You have very appropriately dug your own grave since this is certainly a dead end. Cut off the sex and see just how long Mr. Wrong hangs around.... (read in full...)

My best friend wants the boys when I like them!

Q.   This all started a year ago when I meet this boy I really liked him We became good friends and he liked and we made out couple of times but then my best friend said she liked him too and she also made out with him and she told me to stop talking ...

A.   28 October 2010: Normal for her I reckon.... (read in full...)

I want my married lover to take off his wedding ring when he's out with me

Q.   ok yall i have been dating this man for a least a years and some months! however our relationship is getting deeper and deeper everyday! when the two some us started dating we both agree to no feeling no attachment ! now that time change words have ...

A.   28 October 2010: So who are spending Thanksgiving with? Not him. So who are you spending Christmas eve with? Not him. Christmas Day? His birthday? Valentine's Day? Not him Not him Not him. Let's fast forward to a cold winter's night in the future. There's a roaring ... (read in full...)

Should I confront her again and let her know that I don't appreciate her calling my man?

Q.   I'm in a 5yr. relationship with an super guy. He's everything that I could ask for in a man. He's a real man. But I am having a few problems with his female neighbor. She's an attractive black female, but he says that she's not his type and not to ...

A.   27 October 2010: Yeah I think it's your boyfriend's turn to step up to bat. I don't think your boyfriend is the slightest bit interested in her but sounds like she might be setting her sights on him. He should nip this in the bud.... (read in full...)

How do I handle my boyfriend's mother? She's driving me crazy!

Q.   I've been with my bf for 1.5 years and we've been living together for 4 months. He's the only child and lives with his parents. At first I didn't have a problem with his mom, but as time went by i realized that there are some annoyance cause...

A.   27 October 2010: I agree with everything Kc said. Your only option is to suck it up or move out.... (read in full...)

Threesome lead to wife giving something that I had always wanted

Q.   Awhile back, my wife and I got drunk and lost our inhibitions and did something we always fantasized about, but should have left as a fantasy. We had a threesome, with a complete stranger. We picked a stranger, because we thought the chances of a...

A.   26 October 2010: I've no advice, but I can say after reading this post, I was so glad to find out I can claim to still be a virgin after all these years!... (read in full...)

I like a 40 y/o man and I am 17...what are the chances?

Q.   I met a man in a chat room on July of this year. We didn't talk much in pm but when we did, I was mostly seeking his advice on something. I always showed a certain interest in the cat room because I liked his personality. Not once had I seen his ...

A.   26 October 2010: I'm with you, Serpico. "I met a man in a chat room on July of this year" and the other one "He is of course private of his personal life but has hinted that I'll learn of it in time" are the two sentences that say it all. I know this will fall on ... (read in full...)

We slept together, he's now ignoring me. What did I do wrong?

Q.   Two months ago, I lost my virginity to someone I'd met online. I was completely head over heels in love with him. The day after, he stopped texting or calling me. We were still in communication; it's just that I did all the work to maintain it. ...

A.   26 October 2010: It's the old "wham bam thank you ma'am" hopefully you won't sucker for it again.... (read in full...)

How do we tell our parents we want to be adult porn stars?

Q.   I am 18 years old and I sexually active athletic , and a model , I have been dating my girlfriend Alex for 3 years she is a model too , as well we plan to be together forever as well we have a desire to be adult film stars how do we go about telling ...

A.   25 October 2010: How about something like: "Well Folks, I've decided to become a porn star, please pass the green bean casserole".... (read in full...)

Customs and border patrols?

Q.   i need to write my final term paper and it has to be about customs and border patrols can domeone halp me to get like the main idea i have no clue at all :$...

A.   25 October 2010: What's in it for me?... (read in full...)

I have been called a "wasp" - what does that mean?

Q.   if someones calls you a wasp what does that mean?...

A.   25 October 2010: It's damn baffling how those bees can fly around with their fat asses isn't?!!!!... (read in full...)

I have been called a "wasp" - what does that mean?

Q.   if someones calls you a wasp what does that mean?...

A.   25 October 2010: I've been stalked by a wasp before. Mostly mosquitoes but a wasp was after me once or twice.... (read in full...)

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