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I have been called a "wasp" - what does that mean?

Q.   if someones calls you a wasp what does that mean?...

A.   25 October 2010: It's damn baffling how those bees can fly around with their fat asses isn't?!!!!... (read in full...)

I have been called a "wasp" - what does that mean?

Q.   if someones calls you a wasp what does that mean?...

A.   25 October 2010: I've been stalked by a wasp before. Mostly mosquitoes but a wasp was after me once or twice.... (read in full...)

Why is she exploding at me?

Q.   ok im 16 years old and ive never been so confused in my life. my girlfriend's mom took her fone and when she got it back i asked her what was wrong and she said forget it and when i told her i wanted to help but i couldnt unless she told me what was ...

A.   25 October 2010: Dang, take chill pill dude. First, when someone tells you that they don't want to talk about something, you should drop it. You are suffocating her and she's trying to let you know you need to back off. Worrying about her speaking to other boys and ... (read in full...)

Biggest age gap you've ever seen?!

Q.   Hi, ok. are u sitting down people? I seriously need a word of advice..i've fallen in love. madly, deeply inlove. And this man is in love with me, but we have to keep our relationship secret because we are afraid of what people might think. We ...

A.   25 October 2010: So what advice are you looking for? You didn't ask a question.... (read in full...)

I am having an affair with my first love ...

Q.   I've being married for 8ys but so much in love with my first love who's with someone. We meet and ended up in bed. I just went him bac. Please help...

A.   25 October 2010: Separate from you husband and file for divorce, he deserves the chance to find someone who respects him. Then you can can sit around and wait for your friend to show up. ... (read in full...)

For the girls: What do you notice when you look at a guy?

Q.   Girls what stands out when you look at guy?...

A.   25 October 2010: I look to see if he has bulge in his pants. Not in the front, but in the back pocket where he keeps his wallet.... (read in full...)

My boyfriends family won't let go of his soon to be ex wife

Q.   I am in a fairly new relationship with a man going through divorce. His family absolutely adores his soon to be ex and is making it clear that they want them to get back together. While they are friendly and cordial to me, the ex continues to be ...

A.   22 October 2010: If she is spreading lies about you then you really don't have to do anything, those lies will indeed come back and bite her in the butt. Remain calm and classy and the family will begin to see through the lies eventually. Enjoy your relationship. ... (read in full...)

How can I know if she wants me?

Q.   My neighbour lady is 35 years old. She is always showing her cleavage by bending down in front of me. I don't know it is accidently or not. We are also friends. I likes her very much and wants her. But i don't know if she wants me or not. How can ...

A.   22 October 2010: She isn't married is she? And by the way, some guys look at the butt at the time of bending.... (read in full...)

My boyfriends family won't let go of his soon to be ex wife

Q.   I am in a fairly new relationship with a man going through divorce. His family absolutely adores his soon to be ex and is making it clear that they want them to get back together. While they are friendly and cordial to me, the ex continues to be ...

A.   22 October 2010: What was the main reason they are divorcing? Is it a "friendly" divorce?... (read in full...)

What justifies pursuing a girl in High School?

Q.   Hello, Though this site seems to mainly serve a slightly older community, I've a question on high school relationships. What justifies pursuing a girl? As a mere sophomore, I've no real experience with dating. I would like very much to find mys...

A.   22 October 2010: You have to just jump in Buddy, sink or swim. Asking girls out gets easier the more you do it. As far as meeting people, join all the clubs that interest you at school, look into volunteer activities in your community, just stay out there very ... (read in full...)

Winking before making love?

Q.   What does it mean when a man winks at you when he is just about to make love to you?...

A.   22 October 2010: Or maybe he has a facial tick.... (read in full...)

Winking before making love?

Q.   What does it mean when a man winks at you when he is just about to make love to you?...

A.   22 October 2010: Maybe he's got something in his eye?... (read in full...)

How will I know when there is penetration?

Q.   I'm a 20yrs old girl, still a virgin, my hymen wasn't there, so my BF knows and promised not to penetrate deeper during sex ie for me not to lose my virginity until i'm ready,but i'm confused, am i still a virgin? Can i get pregnant like that and ...

A.   22 October 2010: You are no longer a virgin if your boyfriend has inserted his penis into your vagina, no matter how far in he goes. And yes you can get pregnant doing this. As far as knowing when there is penetration, you know by feeling something pushing into your ... (read in full...)

Husband will not defend me against his mom!

Q.   I don't understand what it's going to take for my husband to defend me when it comes to his mom. I had taken anti depressants because of her. And because I took anti depressants I had a miscarriage not knowing I was pregnant. I cry all the time. He ...

A.   22 October 2010: Yeah what exactly has she been doing?... (read in full...)

The guy who had broken my heart is back...!

Q.   He's back. -Que dramatic music!- Can I ask a simple question to those of you out there who had their heart broken before? Let's say that you met a guy/girl who you fell head over heels for. You hung out with him/her ALOT and you've kissed quite a f...

A.   21 October 2010: Lets say your have a cotton top that needs ironing. You plug in your iron and let it heat up to the cotton setting. You then start ironing your top but in one of the tight little corners you make a misjudgement and burn your finger but good. Hurts ... (read in full...)

Do women like to catch a glimpse of a man's penis or balls?

Q.   Do women like it when men wear shortish kind of shorts and maybe you catch a glimpse of what he is packing here or there (san undies, of course). I love it when I happen to catch a glimpse up a woman's skirt, or into her shorts, or down her top to ...

A.   21 October 2010: I love that show, SS!... (read in full...)

What does "wandering eye" really mean?

Q.   What does it mean by "wandering eye"? I've read a few posts here about women who are upset that their boyfriends/husbands are "looking" at other women. I've never read anything about a man who is jealous that his girlfriend/wife "looks" at other men ...

A.   21 October 2010: I had a wandering eye at 3 years old but it was surgically corrected.... (read in full...)

Is it really right to strike someone in this situation?

Q.   I was surprised and a bit shocked by some of the responses to A recent post about a guy wanting to know if women found it attractive when a guys junk happens to show. Several of the women say that they would slap the guy in the face if his junk ...

A.   21 October 2010: Isn't it interesting that not a single woman found your peeking pecker idea the slightest bit erotic? Kinda burst that bubble didn't it!?... (read in full...)

Music to play during sex

Q.   Hi. Does anybody know of some nice, relaxing music that we can dowload to play during sex? We do not like hop hop or modern techno.` ...

A.   21 October 2010: My husband and I like "Flight of the Bumblebee"- Nikolai Rimsky-Korsakov, keeps everyone on task. ... (read in full...)

I'm worried it is just becoming habit instead of having meaning!

Q.   My boyfriend and I are together for around 8 months for now. And recently, we started to sleep together, yes just sleeping and heavy petting which includes me giving him handjob and blowjobs and him fingering me. However, I have discussed with h...

A.   21 October 2010: Hey suitcase, "just think for a second WHY THERE'S ONLY FEMALE PROSTITUTES" Where have you been living...under a rock?... (read in full...)

Do you think that getting a hand job during a massage is really cheating?

Q.   I am a little bored and was intrigued by all the ads for Asian massage places and something called "table shower". My question to you all is do you think that getting a hand job during a massage is really cheating? It seems to me that it is not ...

A.   21 October 2010: Okay, well I for one want you to ask her if you can go get wanked and then come right back here and tell us what she said.... (read in full...)

Girls say its small! Is it?

Q.   I'm 20 and I want to know why girls keep telling Me that my 7" long 6" girth penis is small? is it small or what? please answer. ...

A.   21 October 2010: I'm with Elaine Benes on this one. I don't know how you guys even walk around with those things.... (read in full...)

My friend got a married woman pregnant and now doesn't know what to do!

Q.   please help to my friend. My friend is a student with me. He had sex with the wife of his house mate and she is now pregnant. My friend is aftraid and still a teenager. He doesnt know what to do, should he tell his housemate's wife to have an ...

A.   21 October 2010: How does he know it's his for sure?... (read in full...)

I want him to french kiss me!

Q.   My boyfriend said he wants to french kiss me, and i do too, but i dont know when he will. and i really want him to. help? ...

A.   21 October 2010: Trust me, I'm betting the anticipation is going to be the better end of this deal.... (read in full...)

Would a guy pick the girl with the big boobs?

Q.   embarrassing question... :S would a guy rather a girl with an athletic body, LOTS of muscle, long legs, a six pack, and a good bum but has small boobs (A)... or would he rather a girl with an average or skinny body, with big boobs? both girls hav...

A.   21 October 2010: Yes and No... (read in full...)

Do women like to catch a glimpse of a man's penis or balls?

Q.   Do women like it when men wear shortish kind of shorts and maybe you catch a glimpse of what he is packing here or there (san undies, of course). I love it when I happen to catch a glimpse up a woman's skirt, or into her shorts, or down her top to ...

A.   21 October 2010: I've got to put in my two cents...no...especially old man junk. This question makes me kinda throw up in my mouth.... (read in full...)

Ghostly goings on...

Q.   I'm sorry, but this is going to be a long one, but this is something that I'm really confused about and most of you that read this probably will either have no idea what to say or just think I'm crazy. Well I sense ghosts, I was able to repel them, ...

A.   20 October 2010: You have OCD too?... (read in full...)

Us "hanging out" usually just means me giving him head or us having sex. I'm feeling used!

Q.   Okay soo.. Ive been seeing this guy for over a year; we just started dating 3 months ago officially. It's my junior year and his senior year. Homecoming is in a couple of weeks and he won't take me. He also never wants to go out with me on a date or ...

A.   20 October 2010: Drop him like a hot potato. Of course he's using you and you are allowing it. You are wasting your precious high school fun times. Get you head out of his crotch and go make some wonderful high school memories for yourself. ... (read in full...)

I had a student bump up my grade so I can get the car dad promised for a good grade point average. Is this bad?

Q.   So I was totally failing this class completly and for my dad to buy me a car I have to hava a goood grade point average,My grades were decent besides this one, I had the teachers student asst, ( who is extremly hot) I mught add and a senior, bump it ...

A.   20 October 2010: Of course it's really bad. It's cheating pure and simple. And he will get into trouble if your teacher finds out he did it. See if he can change the grade back if not you will have to go to the teacher and fess up. Next time try studying harder. ... (read in full...)

Should I tell the teacher I'm sorry that I like him?

Q.   Teacher at my school knows i like him now but dosen't really care and i knew he would find out sooner or later , but i feel very humilated and incredibly stupid , i hope he understands that i don't mean to fall for him it was just a faint little ...

A.   20 October 2010: Teachers are trained on how to deal with school girl crushes. They almost all have experienced these over and over again. I'm sure you aren't his first and you won't be his last. I see no need for you to apologise. Just pay attention in class, stay ... (read in full...)

Need an answer to a male orgasm question, please help??

Q.   Hey, recently with my boyfriend I managed to "get his cum stuck in his cock" (his words) and he said it was absolutely amazing. The thing is I have no idea how I did this yet I'd like to do it again so if anyone knows what this is or how I would do ...

A.   19 October 2010: Call me weird but ANYTIME someone uses the word "stuck" in reference to their body, it sounds painful to me.... (read in full...)

Dating a cop who behaves very strangely, should I flee??

Q.   I am dating a cop... started out great, he told me he was crazy about me - dated a few months, we were very much into each other and things turned REALLY weird. On one date, he actually was a complete jerk -I purchased expensive tix to a football ...

A.   19 October 2010: Sorry but I don't think it's your woman's intuition here, I'd say it's more like a big wall with 6 ft red spray painted letters that spell "Dump the Dope". ... (read in full...)

I need advice, I want to have a baby, I am 14, please help??

Q.   hey im 14 and i really want a baby i have wanted one sence i was 11 and i dont know what to do my family and friends say i am a natual when it comes to looking after children and careing for them i really don tknow what to do please help x...

A.   19 October 2010: Babysit as often as you can. Not only will it put some change in your pocket but it also will help you to realize that maybe the babies can wait until you are no longer a baby yourself.... (read in full...)

Guys Only Please* nude pics of gf

Q.   GUYS ONLY PLEASE I mean this, because girls view the world in a totally different way, and they all THINK they know what guys are thinking and the reasons behindd their actions, but are usually wrong. A girl asking for insight into a guy's min...

A.   19 October 2010: Me again, with a rebel yell...giving women a bad reputation, heh heh... (read in full...)

My husband needs to clean up! Please help!

Q.   I've been married to my husband for almost 19 years. We have no children and probably won't at this point since we are both in our 40's now. We have cats we love and adore so this kind of fills the parenthood gap for us. We are pretty happy and get ...

A.   18 October 2010: My husband retired a year ago this past summer. And for some reason he thought that meant no more shaving, no more after shave, no more dressing nicely , no more alot of stuff. I let it go for a few months then I spoke up and told Stinky to clean up ... (read in full...)

Guys Only Please* nude pics of gf

Q.   GUYS ONLY PLEASE I mean this, because girls view the world in a totally different way, and they all THINK they know what guys are thinking and the reasons behindd their actions, but are usually wrong. A girl asking for insight into a guy's min...

A.   18 October 2010: Just had to respond, it's the rebel in me.... (read in full...)

I want to dedicate a song to a loved one! What song would you choose?

Q.   Hi, I'm not sure if this is the right place for this....if you could dedicate a song or two (or even 3 lol) to someone..what would it be and why? For example "Luther Vandross - Dance with my Father" ...always reminds me of my dad....

A.   18 October 2010: You goofy retired people! on that note I'd send my boss the "Take This Job and Shove It" song. Then maybe I could sit around and think of stuff like this.... (read in full...)

My husband's long-lost ex fiancé is suddenly intruding into his life

Q.   My husband of twelve years recently added his ex fiance on Facebook. She apparently contacted him thru his sisters Facebook. They broke up 18 years ago because she cheated on him. Now she has come back and has attended family gatherings (I was away ...

A.   18 October 2010: I'm really pissed at your husband and his family in all this. Especially since you are busy serving our country. This is totally unacceptable behavior on everyone's part. Tell him to knock this nonsense off immediately and when you get a chance tell ... (read in full...)

Up to now its been nothing but a smooch, but I want to tear his clothes from him

Q.   Hi Everyone Really hoping for some advice and reassurance. First some history. I split up with my ex husband 3 years ago, and apart from a fling right after the breakup (definate rebound fling) I havent slept with anyone since. Partly throug...

A.   18 October 2010: I really liked your post. It was sweet. I think you've found a keeper there, he does sound lovely. My only advice is to just relax and enjoy every moment as your relationship unfolds and develops. Savor every tingly second. ... (read in full...)

Husband masturbates to porn videos but doesn't get an erection with me

Q.   My husband and me are both 27 years old.We been together for almost 6 years.for the last few months,he hasn't been able to get an erection.when is does,he only last about 2minutes before he non funtional.he says it has nothing to do with me.I was ...

A.   18 October 2010: How's his eyesight?... (read in full...)

Is he hiding from himself or his past?

Q.   What kind of man changes his telephone number and his identity weekly/fortnightly,his he hiding from his true self or his past i can help wandering why he behaves in this way i find it bizzare behaviour pretending to be someone else when your over ...

A.   18 October 2010: Boy that's a lot of work, whatever he's hiding from must be pretty serious. Of course he might also be a nutcase.... (read in full...)

Feeling insecure about my relationship with her now.

Q.   I fell in love with a 19 years old girl for 2 months now and we seemed to get along very well. She also loves me. We had an argument lately and she said she wanted to break up with me. I didn't take her for serious but then, I found out that a ...

A.   18 October 2010: Of course she'll do it again, she's only 19 freakin' years old. YOU wonder what the future will be like...think of what she feels when SHE thinks of the future with gramps! Sheesh..we get too soon old and too late smart.... (read in full...)

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