My ex took my kids out of my life
Q. i m very depressed my ex husband took my kids out of my life he still wont let me go on with my life he loves to fight with me i m remarried i been married for 12 years i l love my husband but he will not let me go on with life im really un ...
A. 22 September 2010: Talk to a lawyer if you aren't getting the legal access to your kids that your custody agreement allows you. If your husband has total custody then perhaps you need to go back to court and sue for a change in the custody agreement. ... (read in full...)
Changes after giving birth.......
Q. hey there agony aunts.im a bit shy asking this but i realy want to know.my vagina lips got smaller after i gave birth and it was by ceasar so im surprised.can contractions make vagina lips smaller?i was in labour for 8 days before i got her.has this ...
A. 22 September 2010: You were in labor for 8 days???? Yowser. As far as your lips go, perhaps you only think they look smaller, but it would be best to discuss this with your doctor.... (read in full...)
How can I make my cousin have sex with me?
Q. I am 16 years of age and my girl cousin is 15 and a want to have sex with her so badly but i dont know how to ask her, or what to do to make her have sex with me!! I have been trying so hard since 14-15 to have sex with her and i dont know if she ...
A. 22 September 2010: Do you have cold showers in South Africa? I hope so. I recommend taking numerous ones.... (read in full...)
He doesn't like my annoying habit and doesn't think we can go further because of it
Q. Hi Okay I'll try to keep this short as it's nearly 5am here and I need some sleep. So I'm currently seeing this guy and it's really only the 2nd time that we have met physically prior to this we met online and then we e-mailed then we talked ...
A. 22 September 2010: You call THIS keeping it short? I will keep it short, listen to chigirl.... (read in full...)
How to get my girl to put her nipples out on display?
Q. I love it whe women dress so you can see their nipples. Thin tight material, etc. It seems that women love to show their cleavage. It's on display constantly. Why won't more women they their nipples be visible or just prominent under tight clothes ? ...
A. 20 September 2010: Lower your air conditioning, only take her to ice skating rinks, only shop in the frozen food section, and move as far north as you can. That's all I got for you.... (read in full...)
When I say I love you to him sometimes he sounds annoyed?
Q. okay so ive been dating this guy for nearly 2 years. he says he loves me but i dont know anymore. hes always mad at me, and never really hears me out even if im not wrong. we fight alot well kindof. but alot of the time hes sweet. i just dont know ...
A. 20 September 2010: If he doesn't make you happy, dump him and find someone who does. At your age you should be out there having the time of your life. Enjoy your youth, it doesn't last forever.... (read in full...)
I'm a natural flirt and it causes problems for the man I like!
Q. I'm a flirt. A natural flirt. Once I realised I was attractive to men, it became my way of relating to men. Trouble is, I am deeply in love with someone who reacts badly to other men paying me attention, and my knee-jerk response of flirting back. I ...
A. 20 September 2010: Why can't you tell him how you feel? He isn't married is he?... (read in full...)
How can I tell him enough is enough?
Q. I'm a bit confused... I have been single for the last 2 months, I work with a lot of males on a day to day bases.. I was good friend with a elderly guy,47, but now it feels as if things are getting 'serious' I just know this is wrong his married and ...
A. 17 September 2010: Tell this "elderly" 47 year old to go back to his wife. You will never settle for second place. And mean it.... (read in full...)
I can't find the strength to tell the truth!
Q. I need some help in this. i can't find the strenght to tell the truth about something. how can i do it? please help!...
A. 17 September 2010: Not enough info to get truly helpful responses.... (read in full...)
What words can I use to express to my boyfriend how sexy his voice is?
Q. So my boyfriend has a really sexy voice and whenever we are talking on the phone he voice just puts me to sleep cos it feels really good to my ears.. And it takes a lot to make me sleep. So we were thinking of names for what his voice does to me. ...
A. 17 September 2010: melodically lulling... (read in full...)
I'm a natural flirt and it causes problems for the man I like!
Q. I'm a flirt. A natural flirt. Once I realised I was attractive to men, it became my way of relating to men. Trouble is, I am deeply in love with someone who reacts badly to other men paying me attention, and my knee-jerk response of flirting back. I ...
A. 17 September 2010: If you revel in attention from other men then he isn't really your "only one" he's just another one.... (read in full...)
Should I stay in contact with him, even though he's married?
Q. I'm a 21 y.o who recently met this gorgeous 41 y.o guy in a band when they played live, after we briefly met, i got in touch with him through myspace and he replied saying that he really liked me though he was married. Anyway, a few weeks passed and ...
A. 17 September 2010: "I'm a 21 y.o who recently met this gorgeous 41 y.o guy"..what does the "yo" stand for?
1. Maybe, yo have no honor nor integrity?
2. Or, yo are looking for to cause devastation and hurt to a poor pregnant woman?
3. Possibly, yo are clueless and... (read in full...)
Just the thought of it excites her that much?
Q. I have a rather large dick, 9 1/4 inches long and about as big around as the bottom of a beer bottle. Is it normal for my girlfriend to orgasm JUST by me dangling it over her crotch when naked? She says its just the thought of the size that ...
A. 16 September 2010: Yeah I think she is most likely faking it to avoid actually having intercourse with that tree trunk. All I can say is you'd best start stocking up with KY and you might want to buy by the case. ... (read in full...)
Why does it feel different every time?
Q. My husband accuses me of cheating all the time. His reason is one day we will have sex and my vagina is tight and abd the next time he says its loose. He tells me a man can tell when another guy has been in his stuff. I'm not cheating on him. Can ...
A. 16 September 2010: "has been in his stuff"? Yikes. ... (read in full...)
Why was this man staring at me?
Q. When out to eat the other day with my daughter. We were at aa table in a sandwich shop. This guy sits there and stares at me the whole time never takes his eyes off me. Then he leaves before I do. Then when he gets ready to leave he walks by my ...
A. 15 September 2010: Maybe you look like the body he buried in his backyard a few years ago. Maybe you had some spinach stuck to your chin. You were there, we weren't. If you clicked the correct age bracket aren't you old enough to take this at face value and not give ... (read in full...)
Do guys like calm girls or hyper girls?
Q. I read somewhere that guys don't like hyper girls, who are always excited all the time. Like they think that the girl is trying to get attention and its lame that they are so excited about little things. It has been researched that most guys don't ...
A. 15 September 2010: I wonder if the research was done by a pharmaceutical company?... (read in full...)
Husband won't return sexual favors
Q. Hi, everyone. I'm a married woman of 6 years. I love my husband with every fiber of my being. And would do anything to make him happy.Among these things are oral sex. I love to make him happy and keep him satisfied. But I can't seem to want to ...
A. 15 September 2010: Agreed, tit for tat.... (read in full...)
What's the difference between being honest and being negative?
Q. What is the difference between being honest and being negative? People told me many times.including family,and friends, ''you are being too negative'' And I just cant see, where am I going wrong. I feel, Im just seeing the truth.. What is wrong wi...
A. 14 September 2010: I've never been accused of being Pollyanna or Mary Sunshine but I figure if you only have negative things to say, keep your trap shut until something positive comes along. ... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with someone, I can't have? HELP!
Q. I am 17 and I have been talking to this 20 year old guy from Washington since April, we started talking and talked for hours and hes asked me loads of times to come to Washington, but is it even possible? I mean I live so far away, could I make it ...
A. 14 September 2010: Did you ask this the other day? Wasn't this the guy who said he wanted you to come alone?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-a-bad-idea-to-go-over.html
I thought we Aunts made our advice pretty darn clear.... (read in full...)
What's the difference between being honest and being negative?
Q. What is the difference between being honest and being negative? People told me many times.including family,and friends, ''you are being too negative'' And I just cant see, where am I going wrong. I feel, Im just seeing the truth.. What is wrong wi...
A. 14 September 2010: Did anybody survive the train crash?... (read in full...)
Do guys like calm girls or hyper girls?
Q. I read somewhere that guys don't like hyper girls, who are always excited all the time. Like they think that the girl is trying to get attention and its lame that they are so excited about little things. It has been researched that most guys don't ...
A. 14 September 2010: So who did this research? Documentation please.... (read in full...)
He is having marriage problems and we want a fling together? what should I do?
Q. So I just got into contact with a guy I had a crush on back in high school. Found out he was very attracted to me as well. We both haven't forgotten each other and would like to have a fling but here's the situation: he's married, I live in one ...
A. 14 September 2010: Damn and I JUST sold the Brooklyn Bridge last week!... (read in full...)
I don't love my wife and before I die I want to be in love once more!
Q. I been with my wife for 10 years and married for 3. I love her but I'm not in love with her no more. We have a beautiful daughter together and she's the reason why I stayed this long. Here are my reasons why: I'm not attracted to her, she's not ...
A. 13 September 2010: I agree with db, you say you don't want to hurt her but you most likely have been by your "poor me" attitude. This whole "I love you but I'm not in love with you" is a bunch of crap. Man up and see if you can find a way to put the spark into your ... (read in full...)
I cannot hate my family because he does!
Q. My boyfriend of almost 4 years and I have been going through a tough time recently. For the past year my mother has been dying slowly due to cancer. Its all over her body and there isnt an "if" but a "when" in this situation. For me, being very ...
A. 13 September 2010: How old is your boyfriend? I guess it doesn't really matter but I get the feeling he quite a bit older than you. Nonetheless he sounds like a control freak and he want to have that control over ALL aspects of your life. One of the first flags is ... (read in full...)
My wife just wants oral!
Q. My wife does not want intercourse or me to touch her, she only wants to do oral to me? she used to never want to do that at all? It has went on for months. I dont know what to think?...
A. 13 September 2010: Is she worried about pregnancy?... (read in full...)
He is married and wont break up with me, Now I think I'm in love!
Q. Hi,i just want to ask some help about my turkish boyfriend now,he is married to a filipina like me ,,,they have two kids now,,i dont know if he really loves me,,how many many times i told him to break up with me ...
A. 13 September 2010: Stay away from him. Move and don't tell him where you are going, change your phone number, just do whatever it takes. There is no future here but there will be lots and lots of heartache. Look out for number one.... (read in full...)
I can't give my husband a baby! Shoud I tell him to leave me for someone who can?
Q. I'm not sure whether or not this is allowed to go on here, but this is my story. I have been married for five months to the guy of my dreams, we met at Uni and had been going out for six years before our wedding in April. All our friends think we...
A. 10 September 2010: What about adoption?... (read in full...)
He left me for his old g/f he found on facebook, so why is he acting this way now?
Q. Ive been with my husband for 8 yrs... All of a sudden he found an old GF on Facebook... He talked to her 2 weeks and decided to ddrop everything for her, he says things are going good for them and they get along good.. house and all. It has been a ...
A. 10 September 2010: First off I would have told him to pick up his own damn keys, then left them for him in a nice steamy pile of dog shit. Who care's what he's thinking, you sure a heck shouldn't. He's trying to play you, don't fall for it. ... (read in full...)
I know I should just stay away, but I'm finding that very hard to do!
Q. I don't know what to do about this. One of my former students (we had a very close relationship) is now a teacher at the same school. I thought it would be awkward, because we haven't seen each other in a few years, but we fell right back into our ...
A. 10 September 2010: Stay away or end your marriage. Those are your only options. For crying out loud, do the right thing.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says I nag him, am I a bad girlfriend?
Q. Hi dear cupid advisors, My bf has been pulling away from me recently, i have asked him why here is what he says: he thinks i am a nag, he is in debt, i have been telling him not to spend, save his money, cut up his cards. i have access to his ...
A. 10 September 2010: Hard-hearted Hannah the vamp of Savannah... (read in full...)
I told a guy I'm interested in that I like him, but he never responded! What do I do?
Q. Im a sophmore in high school. Alright, I'll just get to the point. I Like this boy very very very very much. He definetely is attracted to me because of the way he acts around me. i sent him a message (like a retard) telling him i liked him. he ...
A. 9 September 2010: Maybe he's not gay.... (read in full...)
Her dad hates me, and I can't figure out his reason!
Q. I am 19 yrs old and have been dating my girlfriend Jillian,who is 18 for a little over 8 months now. From the very beginning her family really liked me, I get along great with her brother and sister, and her parents loved me. We have a great ...
A. 9 September 2010: Hard to say if you can't put a finger on it, I sure can't. Maybe ask your girlfriend, she knows her Dad better than you. Maybe her Mom?... (read in full...)
Compatible star signs?
Q. My question is to Sag women in relationships with Aries men. Accoding to the experts, Aries is supposed to be our most compatible sign. I've heard Aries men are short tempered, have child-like tantrums and have anger management problems. I've read ...
A. 9 September 2010: I'm Saggy does that count?... (read in full...)
I just had unprotected sex on the first date!
Q. Yesterday I met up with my boyfriend for the first time. We actually ended up having sex, and I know it was really to soon! We actually did it without a condom, and I do plan on getting checked out just to make sure. Anyways now looking back on it I ...
A. 9 September 2010: Good call, this sure isn't a 18-21 year old, at least one can only hope it isn't.
And to the poster, listen to your parents and do what your told.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says I nag him, am I a bad girlfriend?
Q. Hi dear cupid advisors, My bf has been pulling away from me recently, i have asked him why here is what he says: he thinks i am a nag, he is in debt, i have been telling him not to spend, save his money, cut up his cards. i have access to his ...
A. 9 September 2010: Maybe forgo the glass altogether... (read in full...)
Is it fine for a guy to sleep over at his friend's house if we live together?
Q. My boyfriend moved in with me about a month ago after 9 months of dating. Three days ago, he told me that he was going to sleep over his best friend's house, whom I have known for about 6 months. His best friend, had been to our apartment a few ...
A. 9 September 2010: Are they going to be drinking? If so better he stays the night than drive home drunk. Of course I'm assuming this friend is a guy.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says I nag him, am I a bad girlfriend?
Q. Hi dear cupid advisors, My bf has been pulling away from me recently, i have asked him why here is what he says: he thinks i am a nag, he is in debt, i have been telling him not to spend, save his money, cut up his cards. i have access to his ...
A. 9 September 2010: Naw, no ice pack or pick, this one calls for a huge tumbler of scotch.... (read in full...)
Is he really in love with her as much as he say? he is messing with my head!
Q. I have a male friend who i have feelings for (wish i didn't), anyway, he has a girlfriend who he's been with about 9 months. I'm pretty sure he knows i like him as more than a friend and him being with her kills me. He flirts with me all the time ...
A. 8 September 2010: Leave him alone. You are checking yourself into the Heartbreak Hotel. If he were really interested in you he'd drop his girlfriend in a nano second. And by the way, none of my guy FRIENDS ever tried to stick their hands down my pants or ask for a ... (read in full...)
His tightness with money bothers me! Is there any future with him?
Q. I've divorced my husband after 15 years together. He is controlling and I just followed his decisions all the time. The last year before we separate he shaved his head and lost a lot of weight and refuse to have sex. Then I met this 20 years ...
A. 8 September 2010: If there are times when you just don't want to see him, then I think you really shouldn't be all that interested in perpetuating this relationship anyway. How rich is he?... (read in full...)
Is he playing or using both woman?
Q. Here's the deal, you're a woman that has been involved with a man for an extended period of time(more than 3 yrs) and you find out that while he has been sleeping with you he has hidden the fact he has a live in GF. Would you say that this man is...
A. 8 September 2010: How could be involved with a guy for over three years and NOT know he had a live in girlfriend? No I wouldn't call him a player, I'd call him Houdini.... (read in full...)
I've been called his ex's name 3 times by him!
Q. My boyfriend has called me my ex's name three times now, i over reacted at first and said if he did it again i couldnt forgive him, yet he has done it since but seeing how angry he is with himself after ive forgiven him. The wierd thing is he call ...
A. 8 September 2010: I do this all the time. Relax, it just means he's name challenged. How similar are your names? Not that it makes any difference in my case. ... (read in full...)
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