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writes:i reallly like my male teacher, but he is married. with a 2 year old daughter. i have heard rumors that he kinda creeps on his students but has never done anything sexual with him. i really want to do something with him and i'm afraid he will reject me. what if i am imagining the flirting between us? helppp!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): 15 and almost a homewrecker. whether he flirted first or not does not make it more acceptable that you have your claws into a married man. you are an underaged CHILD, stop provoking this adult and then if he goes too far you will cry rape.
Personally i feel sorry for some teachers. they have these young ones THROWING themselves at them and the TEACHERS then pay the price. Not all teachers are perverts and not all of them want to screw little girls. SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (10 November 2010):
 Your 15? That makes it even better..YOU'RE UNDERAGE! He is most definitely not flirting with you, because if he does, not only can he lose his teaching career, he also can go to jail and be labeled as a sex offender for life. Now do you want that for your hot teacher? No you don't..How did he hit on you? Give you a gold star on your A paper?? If he hit on you, then you would be attempting to enact on it or report him to an adult for being inappropriate.
You've got a lot of growing up to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): You're 15?! That's even worse. He could be put in prison if anything happened. Just get this silly idea out of your head and drop it. Whether he flirted with you first or not it's stupid and wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionby the way, i am 15 and HE hit on ME FIRST
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): Oh goody another student teacher post. Firstly, lets just forget he's your teacher for a second. He's a married man with a child, doesn't that, you know, make you at least think twice? Secondly, you are his student and if the guy has any morals he won't touch you with a barge pole.
"I really want him to do something with me" grow up, seriously, it's not going to happen and you sound a bit desperate.
Don't even think about going there. You will not only make an idiot of yourself, if this gets out about you trying it on with him you will get a bad reputation and no guy will want you. Don't you care that he's married with a child? Doesn't sound like it, it's all "i want i want i want" this isn't a game, you are trying to mess with peoples lives and possibley career.
Grow up, wake up and start looking at single guys.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Teenage girls with crushes on their teachers...tough crowd.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 November 2010):
Op, in no way did I lash out at you, but what do you expect when you ask a question like that? Given your age, you're old enough to know right from wrong and see the student-teacher romances on TV, not to mention the part where the teachers lose their job. So again, don't pursue a married man when you know very well it's wrong.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 You are old enough to know the consequences of doing ANYTHING with him! He's married, he has a family and he's YOUR teacher! Act your age and go and look for someone else to "do something with" and stop listening to rumours.
~Eve~
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwow guys both of you need to relax. and thank you anonymous person for not lashing out at me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): There is something very mysterious and attractive about an older man, especially one with a bit of power (teacher). Add in the "challenge factor" (married), and you've got the cliche situation: wanting what you can't have (or shouldn't).
This overwhelming desire will pass. Don't feed the fire. Let it fizzle. Have respect for yourself and for the sanctity of marriage.
Feelings cannot rule your decisions. "Following your heart" is the stuff that fairy-tales, not reality, are made of.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Please, don't be so foolish! What in heck are you thinking?
This man is your teacher. He could lose his job if he were to get involved with his female students. Moreover, doesn't it mean ANYTHING to you that he is married and has a young daughter?!
You say you "really want to do something with him". Don't you know how self-centered you're being, only thinking of what YOU want? I hope to heck you ARE imagining things!
I tell you: that's no way to attract even a (single) boyfriend -only thinking of how you want something to turn out and not considering what "he" wants!!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 November 2010):
Let me reiterate what you said..He's married with a 2 years old daughter, he has a home and a life. You heard RUMORS about him. Now, why would you want to try to make a move on a very married man? Don't even try it.
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