Is this all normal behavior during sex?
Q. Im in a new relationship and recently had sex with this man for the first time, during the act he spoke out about what he was seeing ie youve opened your legs wide for me, he shouted out on 3 occasions while looking away "fuckoff" as if to someone ...
A. 4 January 2011: Creepy very creepy... (read in full...)
She's gorgeous. I don't want to mess this up, if I have any chance at all.
Q. Sooo, last night at my friend's birthday party I met one of the most beautiful girls in the world. We talked about relationships, music, etc and laughed a lot and we hugged like four or five times and at some points she even held my hand and kiss...
A. 4 January 2011: Sounds all good to me. Have fun and keep us posted, we don't get very many upbeat posts around here that's for sure.... (read in full...)
I'm pansexual and want to come out to my Christian boyfriend and best friend..
Q. :] I have just recently realized that I am pansexual (gender doesn't matter) and I don't know how to come out to my boyfriend and best friend. My boyfriend is a devout Christian and doesn't tolerate homosexuality what so ever and my best friend i...
A. 3 January 2011: What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual? I need this info for the DC Manual.... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my husband and cheat again? or leave him?
Q. I have been married for 14 years, my husband is a very caring, loving and great bloke - we unfortunately cannot have children but have spoken about this at length and have decided that we can have a fullfilling and wonderful life just the two of us ...
A. 3 January 2011: "we can have a fullfilling and wonderful life just the two of us" that's just the problem, there is three of you. Give your husband the wonderful gift of freedom to find someone who truly cares for him. Then you can screw whomever you want without ... (read in full...)
Why does everyone have to say "Keep your legs closed" since I'm a virgin?
Q. Okay, so im a virgin. When I first meet people, sadly, that's one of the first things they ask me. I usedto be honest and tell them I was a virgin, but its like once I tell them, their impression of me changes. Either they'll be like, "Your ...
A. 3 January 2011: If that is one of the first question someone asks you then you would be wise to respond with "What possible business is that of yours?" then turn and leave them to wallow in their rudeness. Keep your trap shut in the future, nobody needs to know ... (read in full...)
Hickey on my boyfriend's hip?
Q. Ok, i found a hickey looking mark on my boyfriend's hip. He said he hit it back i just dont know. what do i do?...
A. 3 January 2011: Why are you doing strip searches on your boyfriend? Why would you think he could possibly have a hickey on his hip? Why can I only remember having a great times with a boyfriend at 16 that never involved seeing his naked hip? Youth is wasted on the ... (read in full...)
He wants to keep things casual and now I'm pregnant!
Q. I am a hormonal emotional wreck. The man I hv been with for many years just informed me he wants to keep things the way they are at the moment. We live in separate homes . The twist in this I am 3 months pregnant . He wants things to remain...
A. 3 January 2011: Do what you think will be in the baby's best interest. Being closer to family, who will get involved in his/her life, may take up the slack for having a disinterested father figure. If your job allows you to move then maybe you should consider it. ... (read in full...)
She's gorgeous. I don't want to mess this up, if I have any chance at all.
Q. Sooo, last night at my friend's birthday party I met one of the most beautiful girls in the world. We talked about relationships, music, etc and laughed a lot and we hugged like four or five times and at some points she even held my hand and kiss...
A. 3 January 2011: I love a good ending.... (read in full...)
My husband of 14 years had an affair with a stripper 4 months ago. How do I forgive him?
Q. My husband of 14 years had an affair with a stripper 4 months ago. I just found about it 2 months ago. He paid her $200.00 for sex in a motel room. (Isn't that protitution?) I also found recepits where he bought her jewelry three different times. ...
A. 23 December 2010: Why do you think you should forgive him?... (read in full...)
Why don't babyboomers want their adult children to leave home?
Q. This seems to be a common problem. I know I have this problem and from other posts here, I'm not alone. I utterly hate it how the media often portrays us young adults as slackers and child- adults, it makes me mad. I actually want to leave home and ...
A. 22 December 2010: Trust me because this is coming from a babyboomer, if your parents are swearing at you all the time, I'll bet the farm they'll be tickled pink when you move out. Some baby birds need a push. ... (read in full...)
She's gorgeous. I don't want to mess this up, if I have any chance at all.
Q. Sooo, last night at my friend's birthday party I met one of the most beautiful girls in the world. We talked about relationships, music, etc and laughed a lot and we hugged like four or five times and at some points she even held my hand and kiss...
A. 22 December 2010: Tell her you'd like to take her to lunch when you come back from visiting your family. Ignore the friend's comment.... (read in full...)
He's married, but I want him back. What should I do?
Q. i had been in affair with married man for 7 months. i knew having sex with married man is no good. but he was a good looking 47 years man and he has a nice body. first, he drove me home after work and he was saying he had cheated his wife befo...
A. 22 December 2010: Well I think you have a shot at screwing him again but ONLY if he can't find another sucker who puts out.... (read in full...)
I'm a big strong guy but have overwhelming urges to cuddle. What's wrong with me?
Q. How do I start this? Let's see, I'm a masculine guy I guess you could say. I think people interpret me as being that way. I'm 6 foot 1, 250, broad shoulders drive a truck, play rugby, have tatoos, and own more than a few firearms. I wear overalls to ...
A. 22 December 2010: Do they like to cuddle? Mine do.... (read in full...)
Help...i can't get a woman out of my head.
Q. On a chance meeting I briefly chatted with a woman younger than myself. I'm 15 years her senior. She's 30 and has a young child. Amazingly I was instantly attracted to her, and now I cannot get this woman out of my mind. I cannot become involved ...
A. 21 December 2010: Exactly why can't you get involved with this woman, Hummm?... (read in full...)
Defended my special needs child from attacker, who's now vilifying me. What can I do?
Q. Anyways i am a parent who went on vacation with my husband's family. Not a good idea, it turns out that I ending up reprimanding, my husband's family member for physically attacking my child. Well that wasn't a good idea as the relative, got so ...
A. 21 December 2010: Of course not, if you child was being unjustly treated or threatened. What exactly happened? As far as the bad-mouthing and lies being tossed around by this person your best defense is no defense. Ignore the goofball, you know the truth always comes ... (read in full...)
How do I reveal to him and his mother that I'm pregnant?
Q. I have known my boyfriend for about a year and we've been dating for nearly 6months. He is a great guy. We are both 24 with me being a few months older. We discussed the possibility of pregnancy when we decided together to have unprotected sex. We ...
A. 21 December 2010: Sorry but your intial post made this pregnancy out to be a BAD thing, a problem. In this day and age an unplanned, unwanted pregnancy pretty much pisses me off. I'm glad to hear this is not the case. Good luck and enjoy your baby.... (read in full...)
Is he referring to oral sex?
Q. Hi, This is a question for the guys. If a guy says to a woman he wants to touch and lick you until you scream.Is he referring to oral sex? ...
A. 21 December 2010: Unless that's the way he kisses. If someone started licking my face and touching it I'd be screaming right fast and in a hurry.... (read in full...)
In love with a married man, how do I say 'no' when my heart says yes?
Q. Okay, here is the deal. I am in college, but right now I am on winter break. My sister, still in high school, and I went to go watch her boyfriend in a school performance. The teacher I used to have a crush on was there. I gave up on anything ...
A. 21 December 2010: You still have a crush on the teacher, stay away from him and it will fade. I guarantee it's all one sided.... (read in full...)
Where did my beautiful loving wife go?
Q. My wife and I have 3 boys and have been married for 8 years. This year just after our anniversary my wife began an affair. She had become increasingly distant, and I finally asked her what was going on after 6 weeks without intimacy. She flatly told ...
A. 21 December 2010: You need to talk to a lawyer ASAP. Find out what you can do to get her out of the house and you get primary custody of the kids. She is the one who violated your marriage, she goes, not you. This marriage is over, you are now just beating a dead ... (read in full...)
Am I right to leave him due to his impotence?
Q. i am married for 5 years now my husband is impotent i am really hurt that he hid this fact from me. i want to leave him now is this my right decision....
A. 21 December 2010: By impotent do you mean he cannot father children or do you mean he can't get an erection?... (read in full...)
My comatose husband may never wake up. Should I try and raise his baby alone or abort it?
Q. Hi, everybody i'm new here so here goes... about 2 months ago my husband and i got in a near fatal car accident. i am ok, just came out with a broken arm, but my husband suffered a serious concussion and he has been in a coma ever since. i'm so ...
A. 21 December 2010: There is something very weird about this whole thread if you ask me...makes for a great Harlequin novel however. What kind of person is afraid to be there for her husband? What kind of doctor tells someone that the husband will be "just fine" then ... (read in full...)
What exactly is a FWB?
Q. If a guy just wants to be friends with benefits, does that mean that he only finds you physically attractive, or could he possibly care about you too and like your personality, but just not want a serious relationship ?. ...
A. 20 December 2010: To most guys the emphasis is on the "benefits" more than the "friends". Make sure you feel the same way or you are in for a world of hurt. FWB's are a crock if you ask me and the guy who came up with the idea AND managed to sell this to women must ... (read in full...)
How do I reveal to him and his mother that I'm pregnant?
Q. I have known my boyfriend for about a year and we've been dating for nearly 6months. He is a great guy. We are both 24 with me being a few months older. We discussed the possibility of pregnancy when we decided together to have unprotected sex. We ...
A. 20 December 2010: You just tell him your ill-conceived idea to have unprotected sex has caused you to conceive. ... (read in full...)
Is there a possibility of us contracting STDs?
Q. Both my boyfriend and I are virgins. But both of us have progressed to oral sex. Can I just ask if there will still be a possibility of us contracting STDs if we have sex? Since both of us are virgins and even our individual sexual progressi...
A. 20 December 2010: Yeah that other thing the little devil is talking about can't be cured with a dose of penicillin and it usually takes at least 18 years for it to go away, and that's if you are lucky. Sometimes it comes back and asks to live in your basement.... (read in full...)
..Should I just forget about my superstar love??
Q. Hey, I'm just another average girl, with just another average life. But my problem is that I'm unconditionally and completely in love with this guy, which is kinda normal. But what's not normal is that now he's a super star and if I named him ...
A. 20 December 2010: No advise here, I'm still waiting for Johnny Depp to call me back....... (read in full...)
My comatose husband may never wake up. Should I try and raise his baby alone or abort it?
Q. Hi, everybody i'm new here so here goes... about 2 months ago my husband and i got in a near fatal car accident. i am ok, just came out with a broken arm, but my husband suffered a serious concussion and he has been in a coma ever since. i'm so ...
A. 20 December 2010: Do you know your husband well enough to figure out what he would say in the matter?... (read in full...)
I'm a big strong guy but have overwhelming urges to cuddle. What's wrong with me?
Q. How do I start this? Let's see, I'm a masculine guy I guess you could say. I think people interpret me as being that way. I'm 6 foot 1, 250, broad shoulders drive a truck, play rugby, have tatoos, and own more than a few firearms. I wear overalls to ...
A. 20 December 2010: Get a dog.... (read in full...)
She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?
Q. my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...
A. 17 December 2010: Somethings just cannot be fixed, there's no going back, no way to turn back the clock, no magic wand, done bun can't be undone. Stop dwelling in your denial you can't ever get back what you destroyed.... (read in full...)
She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?
Q. my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...
A. 17 December 2010: I counted 10 "I"'s and "my"'s in your last response. That's preoccupation with yourself, my man.... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him so he can leave me alone?
Q. Somebody plz help me. I made a stupid decision that can cost me my marriage. I'm ashamed,embarrassed, and feel like crap. I got myself involved with a man at my job who liked to do phone sex. He is older than I and married. It was fun at first ...
A. 17 December 2010: Of course you shouldn't have sex with him, what kind of whacked-out reasoning is that?! Phone sex is one thing full blown intercourse is entirely another. Your husband is going to be pissed because cheating is cheating but I think he'll be less ... (read in full...)
She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?
Q. my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...
A. 17 December 2010: You are unbelievably selfish. Leave her alone, sounds to me like she's better off without you. If you truly love her you'll let her get on with her life but somehow I think you're too self-absorbed to do the right thing by her.... (read in full...)
I'm a big strong guy but have overwhelming urges to cuddle. What's wrong with me?
Q. How do I start this? Let's see, I'm a masculine guy I guess you could say. I think people interpret me as being that way. I'm 6 foot 1, 250, broad shoulders drive a truck, play rugby, have tatoos, and own more than a few firearms. I wear overalls to ...
A. 17 December 2010: The only thing "wrong" with you is that you are impatient. Keep looking, that woman with the strokable hair is right around the corner, you'll find each other, I promise.... (read in full...)
While dancing with another woman, my boyfriend got an erection. Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend needed to attend a formal dinner/dance event. Though I was the partner of choice, I could not get out of work on time to make it to the benefit. Instead, My boyfriend invited a friend to be his partner. Later that night, he told me that ...
A. 16 December 2010: I too have to wonder what his motivation was for telling you. I mean honesty IS crucial to a good relationship but telling you about an "accidental" erection makes me wonder. He must have known that this little chunk of info might upset you, if he ... (read in full...)
Men, would you date a girl with a tattoo?
Q. Not a relationship question and i'm quite sure its probably been asked before but was just wondering what guys think of girls with tattoos, not the big sleeves and manish tattoos just dainty ones and ones that have meaning to the individual? Would ...
A. 14 December 2010: Angelina has tats, which guy here would turn her down?... (read in full...)
He said he was in love with me, but ignored me for 2 months and now I find out he has a girlfriend!
Q. hey :) uhm well i really like this guy and he really likes me too (well thats what he said) and after he told me he really likes me, he ignored me for about 2 months and i tried texting and calling him everyday... after all that i found out from h...
A. 14 December 2010: Give it up, he's not interested.... (read in full...)
I want to leave but I really love our little girl, what should I do?
Q. I am a American living in Thailand. I don't speak Thai and my lady partner does not speak english. Been together 7 yrs. We took in a 4 yr. old little girl that 10 yr. old now. her parents threw her away. I can't stand her continuously yelling ...
A. 14 December 2010: Who has legal custody of the little girl? Get legal full custody of the little girl, then move someplace else. Since you are not married, and your partner is not the mother it should be fairly easy.... (read in full...)
I know he loves me, but he is not that attractive and it is becoming a problem....
Q. I am 20 years of age and my boyfriend is 23. I got to know him through a male friend of his who is also my friend. We've been together for the past one and half year. My problem is that, he is not all that handsome to me but a very caring,kind,From ...
A. 14 December 2010: I also think you aren't really in love with the guy. People in love see the other person as the most desirable person in the world. Just the thought of kissing those sweet lips send shivers down their spines. Everything about them is hot and ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my cousin I love her?
Q. I am 32 years old, and i belive i am in love with my cousin, she is 28 years old (she is my frist cousin) for the last year all i do is think about her. what should i do tell her or not....
A. 14 December 2010: Don't tell her, at least not before the family holiday get-togethers, and then ONLY if you live in West Virginia.... (read in full...)
She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?
Q. my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...
A. 14 December 2010: Look Buddy you cheated on your ex to be with your most current ex, then you cyber-cheated on HER two times. Why can't you admit that you failed both women and betrayed both women (albeit it sounds like your second ex is a cheater as well)? You will ... (read in full...)
Can I send a card after a breakup, hoping it might make a difference?
Q. Should I send a xmas card to a woman that broke up with me in an email, "I think we should just leave things well enough alone..." It is killing me and embarrassing at my age (47) but I am still in love with her three months after our (email) ...
A. 14 December 2010: I wouldn't waste anymore precious time on this gal. She's made her feelings very very clear. Keep busy, keep dating, get on with your life.... (read in full...)
She cant confirm if we are really over, but wont let me back in her life! What can I do?
Q. my lifes just spinning out of control. 8 months ago i had everything, although it wasnt all good on the relationship front and hadnt been since sept 09 really when our 2nd son was born. basically we fell in love and left out partners nearly 7 years ...
A. 14 December 2010: I read your other posts on DC and now ater this one I see this cybersex happened more than one time. You've had your second chance already and blown it. I'm afraid that makes you SOL my friend. Seek visitation rights to your kids, you won't get any ... (read in full...)
Can I send a card after a breakup, hoping it might make a difference?
Q. Should I send a xmas card to a woman that broke up with me in an email, "I think we should just leave things well enough alone..." It is killing me and embarrassing at my age (47) but I am still in love with her three months after our (email) ...
A. 14 December 2010: Apparently you were never in the military, at least never disciplined in the military. Your post reminds me of the old "Thank you sir, may I have another".... (read in full...)
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