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anonymous
writes:My ex gf whipped me. She treated me like shit cheated lied you name it then threw me to the canibals. I went way down had to go on antidepressants. I used to breathe her 24 7 for months and months thinking maybe she would return. I want her to be my wife but I'm finding it harder to remind myself that I still want her for my wife. What things can I do so I won't fall out of love with her because my mind is constantly preoccupied with what I can do next to keep this doll of a girl dazzled and all about me. She is so different from my ex gf.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 November 2010):
 She sure doesn't sound like a doll to me. Life is short unless you marry yourself to a shrew.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 You realize that marriage is supposed to last a life time and it will require your wholehearted commitment. Do not go through with this. Usually I support marriage but not like this. Not if she treats you this way and mutilates your sanity like clay. This is not the way to begin any relationship so just forget her and find someone else. There is a woman out there who will treat you just as well as you treat her, with devotion and compassion. THAT is the stuff of strong relationships, this however is the beginnings of a suicidal conquest against yourself so, I urge you once more to forget her and move on.
I hope that helps.
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