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Do I explain the past misunderstanding and see what he says, or what else can I do?

Q.   I posted before about a situation with a guy who was my professor. He initiated a flirtation with me and seemed interested but I think I accidentally insulted him and he thought I was blowing him off but I wasn't. When I was in his class again it ...

A.   25 April 2011: I'll bet there is, what state do you live in?... (read in full...)

Married man cares about me or does he only want some action?

Q.   Hey all. Me and this married man have become friends. We are both married and we both know we are sexually attracted to each other. He seems to want to talk to me and be around me all the time and we have connected emotionally. We are both ...

A.   25 April 2011: Is your husband a dog looking to bang someone?... (read in full...)

Lost virginity equals pain. Help!

Q.   I recently lost my virginity and I'm sore as hell and bleeding. What would be the best products to use for feminine hygiene until the soreness goes down?...

A.   21 April 2011: Ivory soap and water.... (read in full...)

Married lover says he can't move because of his kids. Do I walk?

Q.   l have being seing a married guy for nearly a year who lives 400 miles away and who still sleeps with his wife but they dont have sex we talk every day and text all the time . We have met up four times and slept together on two occasions x he says ...

A.   21 April 2011: Walk away? How's about a nice crisp jog away? You've been hoodwinked my dear.... (read in full...)

I've been having hot dreams about my ex! How can I deal with the guilt?

Q.   Okay so i've not been on here in ages but im in SERIOUS need of some advice! So ive been with my boyfriend now for over a year (lets call him J), though we've been on and off for over 3 years. Lately though, things have been kind of rocky and we'v...

A.   21 April 2011: Here's what you do: you wait 5 or 6 years and then look back and have a big laugh over all this teenage drama.... (read in full...)

Do I explain the past misunderstanding and see what he says, or what else can I do?

Q.   I posted before about a situation with a guy who was my professor. He initiated a flirtation with me and seemed interested but I think I accidentally insulted him and he thought I was blowing him off but I wasn't. When I was in his class again it ...

A.   21 April 2011: Wait until you've graduated. He could be fired if you do before. Also if he does blow you off, at least you won't be seeing him all the time.... (read in full...)

Why is my boyfriend suggesting all these sex improvement operations for me?

Q.   Been with boyfriend for 10 years, have always been there for him in every way. I take care of myself financially, stay fit, work out four days a week, dress sexy, do what I can to keep things exciting. The other night he brought up me having a ...

A.   21 April 2011: I'm going to take that cast iron frying pan back, there's a guy on another thread that needs it upside his head.... (read in full...)

Experiences in dating foreign women?

Q.   Ok...so I have finally reached the point where I am literally forced to realize the great bulk of American women are not material for marriage. However, there is a great alternative and I have gathered enough information to set about it next summer ...

A.   21 April 2011: "Only feminine women need apply and, for that, I will search overseas." Please allow me to drive you to the airport.... (read in full...)

Guy I fooled around with from work has not responded. How do I act now?

Q.   I fooled around with a guy from work one night that I like, I waited a week to see if he'd text me but he didn't. I saw him at work again and we barely talked but had some small talk. Earlier I texted him casually but he hasn't replied. He seemed in ...

A.   21 April 2011: I'm willing to bet that he was just looking for sex and since you wouldn't put out he has just moved on in search of someone who will. Pat yourself on your back for being more than just another notch on his bedpost. ... (read in full...)

Should I give an ex gf gifts from my parents from Christmas?

Q.   Ok. The situation is that I dated a girl from Oct to just after valentines day. I've gotten over the anger, humiliation, and frustration of that. I was a wreck but I did not show any of that insecurity. I did contact her once, then ran into her once ...

A.   21 April 2011: I think that would be a very classy thing for you to do.... (read in full...)

Experiences in dating foreign women?

Q.   Ok...so I have finally reached the point where I am literally forced to realize the great bulk of American women are not material for marriage. However, there is a great alternative and I have gathered enough information to set about it next summer ...

A.   21 April 2011: Had a little trouble with the Chinese version apparently.... (read in full...)

Ex and I would have been together 4 years. should I acknowledge it to him?

Q.   hi my name is julissa, me and my ex boyfriend recently broke up about a 1mth agao. Today (04-21-2011) would've been our 4yr anniversary. I dnt know if its a good idea for me to call or text him? or what to say? I wanted to write him something nice ...

A.   21 April 2011: Leave where it lies, he's your EX.... (read in full...)

Guy I fooled around with from work has not responded. How do I act now?

Q.   I fooled around with a guy from work one night that I like, I waited a week to see if he'd text me but he didn't. I saw him at work again and we barely talked but had some small talk. Earlier I texted him casually but he hasn't replied. He seemed in ...

A.   21 April 2011: Did you have sex with him?... (read in full...)

Experiences in dating foreign women?

Q.   Ok...so I have finally reached the point where I am literally forced to realize the great bulk of American women are not material for marriage. However, there is a great alternative and I have gathered enough information to set about it next summer ...

A.   21 April 2011: He großer Junge, kommt über hier, will ich Ringkampf Sie bewaffnen. ... (read in full...)

Experiences in dating foreign women?

Q.   Ok...so I have finally reached the point where I am literally forced to realize the great bulk of American women are not material for marriage. However, there is a great alternative and I have gathered enough information to set about it next summer ...

A.   21 April 2011: Hé le grand garçon, venir ici je veux que le bras vous lutte.... (read in full...)

We cant agree on when to have a baby.....

Q.   I'm nearly 26 and my partner is 28. I have a 9 year old daughter from a previous relationship but she rarely sees her dad so it's my partner who helps her with homework, takes her on days out and comforts her when she's unwell etc. He's such a ...

A.   21 April 2011: Whew Cerberus! I thought there for a moment that I had you all wrong!... (read in full...)

Experiences in dating foreign women?

Q.   Ok...so I have finally reached the point where I am literally forced to realize the great bulk of American women are not material for marriage. However, there is a great alternative and I have gathered enough information to set about it next summer ...

A.   21 April 2011: Hey big boy come over here, I want to arm wrestle you.... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to like another guy while you have a bf?

Q.   My bf and I started dating a few days ago.....I've dated him 2 other times this school year, and he knows I like someone else too, but is that wrong?...

A.   21 April 2011: Ditto to what the penquin said.... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to like another guy while you have a bf?

Q.   My bf and I started dating a few days ago.....I've dated him 2 other times this school year, and he knows I like someone else too, but is that wrong?...

A.   21 April 2011: You're back?... (read in full...)

What did this message mean?

Q.   My new Bf and I started dating a few days ago and then I got this message from him over facebook: (slightly edited so names aren't shown) "hey babe, you know the same day that you asked me out that my best friend did the same but after we started...

A.   21 April 2011: Quite honestly, Sjroller, all your posts confuse me. All I can say is your love life is mighty active for a 14 year old.... (read in full...)

Why is my boyfriend suggesting all these sex improvement operations for me?

Q.   Been with boyfriend for 10 years, have always been there for him in every way. I take care of myself financially, stay fit, work out four days a week, dress sexy, do what I can to keep things exciting. The other night he brought up me having a ...

A.   21 April 2011: It's for guys like this that caste iron frying pans were invented.... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend is shooting blanks

Q.   Hey guys I need a little help... Me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for 3 months now and wev still not got pregnant Im 21 and already have 2 kids from a previous relationship and my boyfriends 30 and doesnt have any kids Iv been pr...

A.   21 April 2011: I got pregnant with my first after one try, I got pregnant with my second after two months of trying, and I got pregnant with my third after six months of trying. Doctor told me that child birth can sometimes slightly tip a women's uterus thus ... (read in full...)

Why does she want to marry me when she doesn't want to be with my physically?

Q.   hi guys and galls. I was just hoping for some views on my situation. I an due to be married next year after 5 years in this relationship. Over the part 8 months me and my future wife have had sex 5 times. This is not normal for any relationship ...

A.   20 April 2011: Don't tie the knot if you can't even have a discussion about this with her. I totally agree that there will be trouble ahead.... (read in full...)

I cant stop thinking about my family friend

Q.   ok there is this guy i can't stop thinking about. He is a family friend. We were out at a bar friday night with my family and ended up at a mutual friends house after, someone we didn't know asked if i was his wife and i said no, as he was saying ...

A.   19 April 2011: I'm just curious, how old is this guy?... (read in full...)

Wife is away, does husband want to play?

Q.   Can anyone please tell me why a married man has made it a point to tell me that his wife is out of town on business for a few days? Is this an innocent statement or is there a reason he is saying this to me?...

A.   18 April 2011: Is there a reason why this matters to you one way or another?... (read in full...)

Why does he continue to pay for ex's child meanwhile we can't have a family?

Q.   My husband was previously married and has been divorced for 4 years. He was married to a woman who had 2 children of her own and they had 1 child together. The children’s father also lives nearby and they see him or go to stay with him, although...

A.   18 April 2011: If this is part of their divorce agreement then he is bound by it and he would have to go back to court to try to change it, which he may not be able to do even with a costly lawyer. Anyway, you must have known about all his obligations before you ... (read in full...)

What would you think of this age difference?

Q.   Please be as brutally honest as your thoughts might be. If you saw an 18yr old girl walking down the street holding hands with a grey haired 49yr old man what would you think? Thank you for your time xxx...

A.   18 April 2011: I'd probably elbow my husband and say "You wish!" and then we'd both have a good laugh and giggle about it off and on the rest of the day.... (read in full...)

I want to be his but unfortunately, he already has someone. How do I deal with it?

Q.   Hi, I'm 23 and about six months ago, I met an insanely hot and gentle-spirited 29 year old doctor... with a 38 year old girlfriend. His girlfriend doesn't want more kids as she had three from her previous marriage (her eldest is my age with her ...

A.   18 April 2011: Strange that he hasn't left his girlfriend already since "he's never felt about anyone the way he feels about me"! I'd take everything he says with a grain of salt and I'd certainly keep a nickel between my knees. That is unless male anonymous is ... (read in full...)

She's never happy with me.....

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly 4 months, but have known each other for years before that. I love her and she says she loves me, and everything was sooo perfect at first. But now it seems like all I do is piss her off. Over stupid ...

A.   18 April 2011: 4 months? Take a hike buddy, if she's like this already, think what she'll be like in 4 years!... (read in full...)

What are the advantages and disadvantages of living together?

Q.   Dear Aunts, Just wondering what you can say about couples living together in one house without being married. What are the advantages and disadvantages of such situations. Is this a bad thing or a good thing to do? Thanks!...

A.   15 April 2011: If you are going to live together without the legal bond of marriage it is absolutely crucial that the finances are kept totally separate, equal, and documented. No sharing the cost of a sofa or bedroom furniture, etc... That is a very big problem ... (read in full...)

How do I avoid men who are only after one nighters and find someone who wants a serious relationship?

Q.   My problem is this, I have been trying for over a year to find a bf im over being single but i only seem able to find men that only want one night stands. Sometimes i think i've found a potential one but they end up not interested in somethi...

A.   15 April 2011: Easy, just say "no" to the sleep overs and be patient. ... (read in full...)

I put up a fake profile to monitor my son, but now I've fallen in love and don't know how to get out of it.

Q.   I set up a social networkng acct only to keep an eye on my son. Since I was only there for that purpose I put in all wrong info and a pic that was not me. Age 20 years younger. Different state etc. The problem is that I accepted a friend request ...

A.   15 April 2011: Even if he was some kind of hacker computer genius, he's not going to bother. Just delete you profile.... (read in full...)

How to talk to the girl who really hates me....

Q.   i love a girl. first she use to talk normally. one day she came to know that i likes her. she started hating me. when i tried to talk she just replys for questions. and trys to stop the conversaton, she did'nt add me in her facebook, even though i ...

A.   15 April 2011: Google it.... (read in full...)

Is it common to think about people other than your partner during sex/while masturbating?

Q.   Is it okay to fantasize and masturbate thinking about people other than your partner? (my guess would be that most people would say yes) But is it morally okay to think of other people while you're having sex with your partner? Is this something ...

A.   14 April 2011: Yikes, talk about a loaded question!!!... (read in full...)

I'm not sure what really happened with my email. Any ideas?

Q.   i'm a girl who've known this couple for a while. wife is really nice to me. he has been so weird towards me for years. she saw a pic of my and thought it was pretty. she ask me to email it to her. i did. its been 5 months. she said she did not...

A.   14 April 2011: So send it again if it's that important. Why IS this so important?... (read in full...)

Does it hurt when your cherry is popped?

Q.   what are the signs to knowing your cherry (hymen) was popped during intercourse??? is is suppose to hurt? ...

A.   14 April 2011: You may not bleed. But if you have had sexual intercourse you've been popped. Did you?... (read in full...)

How do I get my parents to believe I am who I am and don't want to be like them?

Q.   This is a question about my mother....PLEASE READ!! Ok so Ive dealt with years of mental and physical abuse from my mum, she always tells me im worthless, no-one will love me, in useless, I'll never amount to anyone, I should just die already and ...

A.   14 April 2011: If things fall through with going to Canada at least move out of your parent's house. It's time you get your own place. Then you can discuss only those things you want to discuss with your parents. They won't have their noses in your life.... (read in full...)

What can I take or do to reduce the size of my breasts?

Q.   Hi cupid friend! I will really appreciate if you all can find the solution to my problem and it goes... There is this guy i love and he really love me too, but the problem is that he complain how big my breast is. Please help me, what should i take ...

A.   14 April 2011: Complain about how small his penis is, that ought to shut him up. Your breasts are not the issue, he is.... (read in full...)

I put up a fake profile to monitor my son, but now I've fallen in love and don't know how to get out of it.

Q.   I set up a social networkng acct only to keep an eye on my son. Since I was only there for that purpose I put in all wrong info and a pic that was not me. Age 20 years younger. Different state etc. The problem is that I accepted a friend request ...

A.   14 April 2011: Delete your profile. He'll get over it, happens all the time on those dating sites.... (read in full...)

Do you think this will get "A's" attention?

Q.   I'm attracted to this guy lets call him 'A' but he seems shy so he has never spoken to me but gives this impression that he is also attracted. Anyways, his friends with this other guy we'll call him 'B' who i've spoken to once and he hangs round ...

A.   14 April 2011: Go for it, if "A" doesn't pay any attention, at least you will have gained a new firend. What do you have to lose?... (read in full...)

I love my girlfriend but she's too fat. How do I break up?

Q.   me and my gf got together about 3 years ago. we both weighed 17 stone. we had a good relationship but in the last 12 months we said we would go on a diet. Now i weight 13 stone. she however weighs 18 and 1/2 stone. i am attracting the attention of ...

A.   14 April 2011: You DON'T love her. ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend liked sex with her ex better because he was "larger". How do a I deal with this?

Q.   I know a lot of people on this board are tired of the never-ending penis size questions, but please bear with me. The answers to most questions are "it's how you use it" and "women don't care about size", etc. But, what if you're in a situation ...

A.   14 April 2011: Did your girlfriend ACTUALLY say she liked having sex with that guy MORE than she likes having sex with you??? Because for most women there is so much more involved with good sex than just the act itself. If you do not satisfy her then you need to ... (read in full...)

Does it hurt when your cherry is popped?

Q.   what are the signs to knowing your cherry (hymen) was popped during intercourse??? is is suppose to hurt? ...

A.   14 April 2011: After you have intercourse for the first time, consider it poppped.... (read in full...)

How to talk to the girl who really hates me....

Q.   i love a girl. first she use to talk normally. one day she came to know that i likes her. she started hating me. when i tried to talk she just replys for questions. and trys to stop the conversaton, she did'nt add me in her facebook, even though i ...

A.   13 April 2011: Why do I have a cartoon of Pepe Le Pew running through my brain?... (read in full...)

Does it hurt when your cherry is popped?

Q.   what are the signs to knowing your cherry (hymen) was popped during intercourse??? is is suppose to hurt? ...

A.   13 April 2011: Everybody's different. Some people don't feel a thing and some feel intense pain and some everything in between.... (read in full...)

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