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Ex of 3 years ago wrote me and apologized. Now what?

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Question - (7 July 2011) 8 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, *luesapphire44 writes:

I was so happy when the guy that broke up with me almost 3 years ago, finally kept in touch with me again. My heart was so pounding and I can't believe my eyes when I read his long email to me yesterday. He said that he was sorry for his attitude, to shallow and selfish. But I must learn from my mistake and not to trust him 100 %. Any advice ?

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A female reader, Bluesapphire44 United States +, writes (12 July 2011):

Bluesapphire44 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I found out that he also lied about his DOB too. That was so rediculous why did he do that to me ? I think that he was one of the cutest casanova and had no character.

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A female reader, Bluesapphire44 United States +, writes (9 July 2011):

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Thanks guys for your responds... For me, I'd rather watched his action, because I don't want to be trap or used by him... Action first and talks later ..

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A female reader, Bluesapphire44 United States +, writes (9 July 2011):

Bluesapphire44 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks guys for your responds... For me, I'd rather watched his action, because I don't want to be trap or used by him... Action first and talks later ..

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A female reader, Bluesapphire44 United States +, writes (9 July 2011):

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For me, action first, talks later... I don't want him to use me again.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2011):

No, do not trust him. He's contacting you after 3 years. If he truly loved you he would have come back to you long time back.

Just reply, "Its Okay, I'm over it and you."

Because you got to move on with your life. You don't want to spend your life with a guy who emailed you after 3 years.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (7 July 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntI agree SVC, it sounds like one of the steps in a recovery program. And I also think a simple thank you is all that's called for here. You don't want to go over the same real estate that you have covered these last three years, do you?

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A female reader, RedAthena United States +, writes (7 July 2011):

RedAthena agony auntRespond THANK YOU. As simple as that.

Then be on your guard. Do not listen to words, watch actions.

Best O luck!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (7 July 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntlisten to him. do not trust him.

he may be making amends as part of a program...

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