Smother-in-laws
Q. What do I do about a mother in law who is driving me crazy? She is very bossy and demanding. I cannot see her or even just talk to her w/o hearing a new baby demand or request... Here is a list: She tried to invite herself to my out of ...
A. 4 May 2012: Thanks for the update. With some people it's always feast or famine but think in your case it's mostly has turned out for the best. Give the little guy a kiss for me. I'm the grandmother of 9 soon to be 10.... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 13 May 2011: Speaking of porn..who blew the margins???... (read in full...)
I hate my home life, should I run away?
Q. im 15 and i hate it at my house i dont want to be here no more the only reson im still here in my lil sister , she is the love of my life but im not happy and home these always fight with my mom and her boyfriend and she all way picks him of me , on ...
A. 13 May 2011: Go to your Grandmother's do not hit the streets.... (read in full...)
I want children, but he's ambivalent. What goes through his mind, and is there hope for having children with him?
Q. Dear Cupid Well, I think I would like to hear if anyone has been in a similar situation like me and how they decided... I am in a very happy and stable relationship and it is save to say that this is it for both of us. We are both 32. Ther...
A. 11 May 2011: We can't say what's going on in his mind, you'll have to ask him straight out. And just like Honey said, you have to be on the same page on the decision to have children. A woman who wants children and is denied that will harbor a huge resentment ... (read in full...)
I hate my home life, should I run away?
Q. im 15 and i hate it at my house i dont want to be here no more the only reson im still here in my lil sister , she is the love of my life but im not happy and home these always fight with my mom and her boyfriend and she all way picks him of me , on ...
A. 11 May 2011: As long as there is no abuse, I guess my suggestion for you is to study hard, get a scholarship into a good college and make a very bright future for yourself and help your sister to do the same. Lots of people have a bumpy start in life but rise ... (read in full...)
I hate my home life, should I run away?
Q. im 15 and i hate it at my house i dont want to be here no more the only reson im still here in my lil sister , she is the love of my life but im not happy and home these always fight with my mom and her boyfriend and she all way picks him of me , on ...
A. 10 May 2011: Where's your Dad?... (read in full...)
What's reasonable in this situation?
Q. My friend invited me to her house, as r bf's were going to come to her house so we could all hangout. When I got there she already had 2 other of our girlfriends there spending the night. So there were 4 girls and 2 boys, we are all 15. My m...
A. 10 May 2011: Your friend's parents are asking for trouble, believe me. I personally think all 15 year olds should be under lock and key for a couple years or they have a rational thought, whichever comes first.... (read in full...)
Surely if he loved me he would accept some of my requests?
Q. Ok so i am 21 years old gal, have been with my boyfriend for two and half years now, we want to spend our lives together and I like the guy, he is sweet , caring. As a lot of time has passed now, i guess he has started to show his true nature. He ...
A. 10 May 2011: Count on being treated as a slave to all the household drudgery if you marry this guy. You won't be able to change him, so you just have to make your choice accordingly.... (read in full...)
I think my 12 year old cousin has a crush on me, how do I handle this?
Q. Dear cupid, I am a 20yo guy and I have this problem with my 12yo cousin. I just dont know what is up with her. First, she seems to always try to catch my attention. You know, teasing, etc. Sometimes it becomes annoying such as blocking my way...
A. 10 May 2011: Methinks the (you) doth protest too much, if you get my drift. If this situation truly makes you so uncomfortable then stay away from her entirely or speak to your aunt/uncle about it. She at 12 is still a child as far as I'm concerned and you at 20 ... (read in full...)
Am I foolish for waiting for him to leave her?
Q. My 9 year marriage had been doomed for a few years now, so I broke free and have been seeing this other man for 5 months. At first, we were casual, nothing serious. After 2 months we realized we had fallen in love and expressed it to one another. ...
A. 10 May 2011: More importantly, what are you doing about your marriage? Are you divorcing?... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 10 May 2011: Okay who blew out the margins?????... (read in full...)
Love triangle sucks!
Q. Hey everyone,this is my first question on here. I'm 16 years old and bisexual. Months ago my ex bf broke up with me,after us being serious. now he asked me back out said I love you, then I find out he's dating my ex gf. He called me the other da...
A. 10 May 2011: Then I think that yes, you should just get over him. There's no future here.... (read in full...)
What are women's views on foreplay?
Q. OK well. It is really a fun thing befor the real thing. And I know guys get pleasure out of foreplay. They like that kind of secret between him and his girlfriend no one else. It keeps him alot interested. What bothers me is how do women feel ...
A. 6 May 2011: One of my favorites:
Oh dear, Winston's idea of foreplay was "Effie, brace yourself."
... (read in full...)
Love triangle sucks!
Q. Hey everyone,this is my first question on here. I'm 16 years old and bisexual. Months ago my ex bf broke up with me,after us being serious. now he asked me back out said I love you, then I find out he's dating my ex gf. He called me the other da...
A. 6 May 2011: He wouldn't be grooming a threesome would he? Sounds like a first class player to me but considering you age group maybe that's a good thing. Relax and enjoy your youth.... (read in full...)
My neighbour kissed me. We're both married. What do I do now??
Q. My neighbour kissed me tonight. We are both married and I am scared to death. It was just a flirty teasing relationship, but now I'm just freaked out. We both find each other very attractive and it's difficult to "act normal". I can see this ...
A. 6 May 2011: Knock off this nonsense and behave yourself and things will go back to normal.... (read in full...)
Ex teacher has feelings for me?
Q. I finished my last year at school last year. I played a lot of soccer, and the head of department seemed he didn't like me. He'd ignore me, or pick on me, or say some pretty harsh things about the way I played.. Maybe to get better play out of me. ...
A. 5 May 2011: You said "He's taken as well." So I guess it really doesn't matter WHAT his deal is, now does it?!!!... (read in full...)
Is she more than FRIENDS to my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend has a female friend of 8 yrs whom hes very close to. This send off red flags because he seems to like her more than friends.. although she is dating too but he's just always happy to see her everytime.. like tonight, he told me that she ...
A. 5 May 2011: I agree with all but one of the responses. OP you really need to work on the clinginess/self-esteem/controling issues or you'll find yourself in the same boat repeatedly.... (read in full...)
Would it seem stalkerish if I got a job at the place where he works?
Q. dear cupid, so, there's this guy that i met through mutual friends, and those mutual friends seem to think that the two of us would be absolutely perfect together. he works at a restaurant near the college that we both go to, and i just recently ...
A. 5 May 2011: If you think the job is a good fit then I'd go for it.... (read in full...)
How do you know if your hymen has broken, even if you havent had sex? Is there any way to tell?
Q. Hello, this is just a short question, but how do you know if your hymen has already broken, even if you havent had sex? Is there any way to tell if it has already been broken or not? I'm only wondering this because I do go out on my bike and horse ...
A. 4 May 2011: pelvic not pelvis... (read in full...)
How do you know if your hymen has broken, even if you havent had sex? Is there any way to tell?
Q. Hello, this is just a short question, but how do you know if your hymen has already broken, even if you havent had sex? Is there any way to tell if it has already been broken or not? I'm only wondering this because I do go out on my bike and horse ...
A. 4 May 2011: Only with a pelvis exam. If it's that important to you then schedule an appointment with your doctor.... (read in full...)
I want my teachers to be more friendly than they are!
Q. Disclaimer: I realize that the topic of this question is a bit of a stretch for this site, but my rationale is that it has to do with relationships, in a sense, so it IS applicable. ;) Now, to actually get down to business. To get right to the ...
A. 4 May 2011: It really isn't their job to be best Buds with their students, it's to teach the students the subject matter. And that is why you won't find too many teachers who seek a friendship, it can be a distraction in the student's learning process.... (read in full...)
What are natural ways to grow a larger penis?
Q. Ok, this is my question. I am 15 years old and I have a 7 inch penis. Is that normal? Is that small or anything, cause I'm kinda worried it'll stop growing. What are some natural ways to grow a bigger penis? Anything useful will help!!! :) Thanx...
A. 4 May 2011: Well it's nice to get the penis question of the day over and done with.... (read in full...)
Fiance wants an occasional threesome and I can't handle it!
Q. i need help. my fiance and i just planned to get married. everything goes so well, i mean we went through many obstacles all the way here. but then he mentioned he would want threesome with me and another girl occasionally. i can't handle it. but he ...
A. 4 May 2011: Deal breaker. But if you decide to go through with the marriage you'd best have the "forsaking all others" taken out of your vows. ... (read in full...)
Is he seriously considering me to mother his child?
Q. Here goes...I've been seeing this guy on and off for almost six years now. Its been to the point where we have spent all our time together, we've fought, went out of down, just plain out, yadda yadda. Recently though he's been talking about having a ...
A. 4 May 2011: If your relationship is on again off again then he isn't all that serious about YOU. So why would you bring a baby into the mix? Think about the welfare of the child rather than whether he wants to impregnate someone. ... (read in full...)
What's the secret to attracting a woman?
Q. Please tell me what REALLY TURNS ON A WOMEN. What gives her that spark to feel so attracted she'll jump into your arms?...
A. 3 May 2011: A very large penis. Well heck fire guys...it's 2:26 p.m. my time and we haven't had our daily penis question yet. This ought to bring 'em outta woods.... (read in full...)
Why did the doctor ask me if I'm in a relationship? I can't see the relevance
Q. i'v just been to see my doctor i'v got a sore throat. So what relevance was there to his question to me, asking if i'm in a relationship? why did he ask me if i'm in a relationship? How was that appropriate?...
A. 3 May 2011: So what WAS the diagnosis?... (read in full...)
Am I wrong? Or can it be as black and white as this?
Q. I've been thinking about this for a while and I think I finally have my answer. Tell me if you think I'm wrong. (or right? LOL) If a man knows that his porn viewing is hurting his girl, and he continues to do it, doesn't that mean he doesn't ...
A. 3 May 2011: I would like to hear what the OP has to say in reference to what Battista asked her. I think that will be the telling response to this situation.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants me to get tattoo of his name! Should I?
Q. my partner Shane says he is not the marrying kind. but we do everything together. He was my fiurst boyfriund and I never want any other boyfriend. He does shift work and i get scared at night sometimes when he is not home. And I cant go out without ...
A. 3 May 2011: Only if his nickname is "Mom".... (read in full...)
Is he seriously considering me to mother his child?
Q. Here goes...I've been seeing this guy on and off for almost six years now. Its been to the point where we have spent all our time together, we've fought, went out of down, just plain out, yadda yadda. Recently though he's been talking about having a ...
A. 3 May 2011: I think you need it to work for months and months before you consider having a child. There isn't any stability here that I can see. If there is one thing I've learned after having three kids and nine grandkids is that children need stability and ... (read in full...)
Is he seriously considering me to mother his child?
Q. Here goes...I've been seeing this guy on and off for almost six years now. Its been to the point where we have spent all our time together, we've fought, went out of down, just plain out, yadda yadda. Recently though he's been talking about having a ...
A. 2 May 2011: Sure there is something there..on again and off again.... (read in full...)
Is he seriously considering me to mother his child?
Q. Here goes...I've been seeing this guy on and off for almost six years now. Its been to the point where we have spent all our time together, we've fought, went out of down, just plain out, yadda yadda. Recently though he's been talking about having a ...
A. 2 May 2011: On again off again for six years with this guy and you think you should have a baby with him??? Good lord.... (read in full...)
Smother-in-laws
Q. What do I do about a mother in law who is driving me crazy? She is very bossy and demanding. I cannot see her or even just talk to her w/o hearing a new baby demand or request... Here is a list: She tried to invite herself to my out of ...
A. 2 May 2011: With pushy women (ones you can't get away from, like MILs) you need to learn how to turn a deaf ear on their demands. In other words let all her future plans go in one ear and out the other. Just say "we'll see once the baby comes". Don't commit one ... (read in full...)
Smother-in-laws
Q. What do I do about a mother in law who is driving me crazy? She is very bossy and demanding. I cannot see her or even just talk to her w/o hearing a new baby demand or request... Here is a list: She tried to invite herself to my out of ...
A. 29 April 2011: You will be in control of your child. You will say when she babysits, you will decide where you spend which holiday. You will dress the baby as you see fit. You will decorate the baby's room the way you want. You will make it clear you are in ... (read in full...)
I am feeling devastated by the Tornado in Alabama. Can people please just keep us in their thoughts?
Q. I am feeling devastated by the Tornado in Alabama. We got completely leveled today by the tornadoes. Just asking for people's thoughts and prayers for the state of Alabama. Lots of people lost their homes too, and their lives. just please keep us i...
A. 28 April 2011: I'm in North Carolina...I feel your pain. Two weeks ago we lost 24 people to tornados. Scary business. Be strong.... (read in full...)
Was the bartender just being friendly?
Q. I was at a party a few weeks ago for a sweet sixteen and ofcourse their were bartendars. There was one in particular that was really hot and he looked about twenty five, he winked at me! Im sixteen and I would love to know if the wink was just a ...
A. 27 April 2011: You are way over-thinking this one. Relax and enjoy your youth.... (read in full...)
After I moved thousands of miles to be with him he cheated on me with my co-worker!
Q. I don't know where to turn. Six years ago I met a man online, after talking for over a year online, I went to visit him and fell in love. I packed my things and moved from Pennsylvania to Alaska for him. I gave up everything adn our life together ...
A. 26 April 2011: Are you better off with the job in Alaska? I know I'd rather cut off my right arm than live there but if you really like your job then maybe you can get past all this. Of course you need to get rid of the boyfriend and find your own place to ... (read in full...)
If we're both fifteen...what happens if we want to have a baby?
Q. What iF You're 15 And You And Your Boyfriend Want To Have A Baby?!?...
A. 26 April 2011: Did you click the wrong age bracket or are we talking about your kid sister?... (read in full...)
Can't get this boy off my mind, even though I barely know him. Is it possible to truly like someone without knowing them?
Q. There's this guy who goes to my school that I really like but barely know. Basically, whenever I'm not in school I miss him so much that it always gets to the point of me crying my eyes out or lashing out at my family. Everything I do makes me think ...
A. 25 April 2011: I think you already know that you just like the idea of him at the moment. How can you really like someone if you don't know him?... (read in full...)
Is it ok to ask a married man out for coffee?
Q. Hi everybody. First time here. Could use your advice. I am friendly with a married man. Our sons go to karate together. We talk a lot when we see each other twice a week. He always finds me to talk and seems to enjoy my company. I enjoy his compan...
A. 25 April 2011: I'm asking the OP, just to clarify.... (read in full...)
Do I explain the past misunderstanding and see what he says, or what else can I do?
Q. I posted before about a situation with a guy who was my professor. He initiated a flirtation with me and seemed interested but I think I accidentally insulted him and he thought I was blowing him off but I wasn't. When I was in his class again it ...
A. 25 April 2011: I'll bet there is, what state do you live in?... (read in full...)
Is it ok to ask a married man out for coffee?
Q. Hi everybody. First time here. Could use your advice. I am friendly with a married man. Our sons go to karate together. We talk a lot when we see each other twice a week. He always finds me to talk and seems to enjoy my company. I enjoy his compan...
A. 25 April 2011: Great answer Aunty BimBim! Are you married? ... (read in full...)
Married man cares about me or does he only want some action?
Q. Hey all. Me and this married man have become friends. We are both married and we both know we are sexually attracted to each other. He seems to want to talk to me and be around me all the time and we have connected emotionally. We are both ...
A. 25 April 2011: Is your husband a dog looking to bang someone?... (read in full...)
Do I explain the past misunderstanding and see what he says, or what else can I do?
Q. I posted before about a situation with a guy who was my professor. He initiated a flirtation with me and seemed interested but I think I accidentally insulted him and he thought I was blowing him off but I wasn't. When I was in his class again it ...
A. 21 April 2011: Wait until you've graduated. He could be fired if you do before. Also if he does blow you off, at least you won't be seeing him all the time.... (read in full...)
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