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writes:Today I have a emtpy feeling and I'm bored. I want to go get my hair done. I want change. Because im going through a change with my bf messing up and it's suddeningly over. So it's day 1 he hasn't tried to call yet today. Im looking to change since things here are changing I wanna get streaks and get a lil trim. Really though me and him have been through a lot. A lot that know one can understand that. I can't get symphathy because everyone I know does not like him. Look dont get me wrong or anything but the way I tell my story doesn't fully describe who I am. Im a tough young woman who will not tolerate anyone speaking to me the wrong way. But that's who I am. Maybe that's why his parents dont like me. They were looking forward to scarring the girl he dates, but listen I'm older then he is, im 20yrs old and he's 18yrs old so the first time we met his fam, knew they couldn't itimidate, now I know you from a outsiders view might say something like.."parents usually dont wanna intmidate you" I know that but these ppl you do not know, they tried. Bottom lin they couldn't. So that's why im not the candidate for their son. So everytime something happens we argue or something like that, even something very small...they like to talk to him and try to encourage him to break up with me, so about 3 months ago they told him to get a job in a different town than here. To make money, they say "oh it'll be good you can save money and send it to me" like butteren him up. They also said they'd go with him, so he's up there and he calls me he says my aunt is rude and mean and won't take me to look for a job. So I ask him where are your folks at? And he says they just dropped me off. Which means his parents are down here. So he calls his parents and they don't answer his phone calls, they ingnore him. So I finally went up there to get him. Then calls his parents from my house and they don't answer, not surprising because they think I'm calling. So he goes to his house and they get so pissed off becasue I went to get him. They're weird ass ppl. They dumped him off to start a new life in a city way over with his aunt forcing him to babysit and not get paid. Like his dumb broad aunt was in on it too, she's a drunk. Anyway his family had some weird ass plan going but they didn't think I would go get him. Anyway their doing it again, so the excuse this time is, his mom is going to Missouri where his other aunt lives and she wants him to go help her, but I talk to her and she tells me "oh no don't think I'm making him, he's 18 he can do what he wants." Yeah right she says I need help. all pitiful like. Anyway she said him and her can make money save money send some down here and basically buttering him up again! So he's sopposed to leave in a week . So were fighting right now and probly not together because some dumb fat-ass broad calls my house drunk and I get mad at him for that and kick his ass out. So it's a change. So in the mean time his dumb asss mom is going to once again dump him off in another state and come back here. She's probly happy because I broke up with her son because of that situation. She's probly dancing and singing too. Just tell me what to do, because I feel like hell's froze over.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 July 2011):
 Go get your hair done, and get a pair of kick-ass shoes, you'll be just fine.
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