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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I dated a guy, for about 3 weeks, who later broke my heart and made me very miserable for a year or so by coming around, not giving me time to get closure, moving behind my back by asking my best friend at work out (she told me later and she was not interested), using up my good friendship I tried to make with him (to get closure..I tried and tried)...maybe that's all. I was very hurt but after a year or so, I moved on. And I am so sad to say that I 'hate' him. I dated other guys but I ended up walking away from them. Then one of his friends needed help and I was there for him as a friend. I helped him through his hard times and then about 6 months later of our friendship, we found out that we had so many things in common. We decided a bit later to start a relationship. My boyfriend then told that guy (I hate) about us and he didn't seem to mind. I thought things were cool now as that guy has a girlfriend and a pretty good life. Besides he left me and we didn't have a very close relationship at all back then. I tried (again) to be friends with him. He accepted me to be his facebook friend, then deleted me out later. There..I feel hurt again. The meeting with him and his girlfriend was terrible. He didn't even look at my face and his girlfriend even asked my boyfriend 'Mark, has your girlfriend got a name?' as we were not introduced to each other in time...All I could express was 'wha..??' I hate that guy even more but he is my boyfriend's close friend who hangs out with him sometimes. I want to put an end to my hatred, I don't want it to eat me inside out anymore. I love my boyfriend and we have a good future together. Any idea to help me think and realize so I can be happier?? Please..Just yesterday, I was told by my boyfriend that the guy and his girlfriend are getting married in November. Would you go if you were me? Please tell your idea..Thank you so much for reading this.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (6 July 2011):
 THREE WEEKS?
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