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writes:Ok so there is a teacher at my school and I don't call people amazing unless they are, but he really is amazing. I do not have a crush on him or anything, I guess I see him as a friend. But people at school keep saying he has feelings for me and to be honest, I don't see him act the way he acts with me, with any other girls. He acts silly around me and talks about things that I wouldn't expect a teacher to want to talk about.In my autograph book he wrote at the end of his paragraph to me 'My favourite student :)'. In school we were talking and joking around then he casually stuck his middle finger up at me and laughed, so I did it back and he said 'Hahaha, just because you're leaving soon, it doesn't mean you can do it to me, i'll get you back' and slightly winked. Now everytime I see him, he smiles and sticks his middle finger up before he talks to me.I was outside of school with my sister (I've officialy left school now) and he walked past and pointed at me and gave a cheeky grin, I saw him but from where he was, it would have been almost impossible for him to see me, my sister (who is 30 and wise) said to me 'Oh my god, he definitely has a thing for you, he was looking out for you'. Then after that I had to go back into school and he was there. He saw me and started adjusting his tie, he was across the other side of the room, I tried not to make eye contact but everytime I looked at him, he was looking at me and my sister said she kept catching him looking at me too. She said 'He definitely has something for you, nobody would look at you that way unless they more than liked you'. It makes me feel a little awkward because everyone that I have been with when I walk past him has said that he likes me.On the day I left, he came and hugged me and asked if I was going to the college which is at the same school, he said 'Don't worry we'll see each other when you're at college' however, I wasn't even worrying about that.I feel extremely silly writing this but does it sound like he has feelings for me? because I don't want to think that I could be leading him on with the way I am which is somewhat flirty, I do it without even knowing, its just my personality, but I see it as just being friendly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2011): It doesn't sound like you are leading him on at all but I believe it sounds like he has a slight feeling for you.
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reader, Battista +, writes (7 July 2011):
If he's not teaching you any more I don't think your "somewhat flirty" behaviour will make any difference as you won't be seeing him. Moreover he is an adult male teacher and I'm sure he sees this sort of behaviour all the time and is perfectly capable of ignoring it. I don't believe that you don't have a crush on him because if that was the case you wouldn't be wondering about whether he has feelings for you based on the events you have given here, and I can assure you that a teacher is highly unlikely to be "led on" by a teenage schoolgirl. In answer to your question, I don't think it sounds like he has feelings for you at all. It doesn't sound like he's done anything which implies that he is interested in you- adjusting his tie and having a couple of jokes don't really count in my book. I reckon your sister is off the mark personally, maybe having a bit of fun.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (7 July 2011):
 Don't worry about leading him on, he's a big boy. He most likely just considers you to be one of his favorite students, like he wrote in your autograph book. And you say you don't have a crush on him, not buying it. But nonetheless all this will fade and you won't be giving it a second thought in a few months.
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