Thank you for all the help!
Q. This is not a question just a big thank you to people who have helped me over here for the past few months. I came across this site through internet browsing, looking for the answers I needed with my relationship. I met a guy who i never thought wo...
A. 25 May 2011: You are very welcome and stick around, you'll be able to help the next young lady who is riding that very same roller coaster.... (read in full...)
Is he serious about changing his ways or is he just talking?
Q. Hello Cupid! Me and this guy met seven months ago through a mutual friend and instantly clicked. We both graduated from the same college, have alot in common and are relatively known for what we do. I'm a journalist and he's a filmmaker/journa...
A. 24 May 2011: Absolutely the right approach in my opinion. Temporary LDR's suck and more so when there's no end in site. Avoid pain if you can has always been one of my mottos.... (read in full...)
Thank you for all the help!
Q. This is not a question just a big thank you to people who have helped me over here for the past few months. I came across this site through internet browsing, looking for the answers I needed with my relationship. I met a guy who i never thought wo...
A. 24 May 2011: Name names... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're ready to move in with your girl/boyfriend?
Q. How long do couples date usually before moving in together?...
A. 24 May 2011: Just a word of warning, keep the finances totally separate and documented. If you buy large ticket items together and down the road you guys have a falling out, it can be a real mess. Legally married couples have the law on their side, all you'll ... (read in full...)
I have a couple of questions about pursing a relationship with my professor.
Q. I am interested in a professor of mine that is almost 20 years older than me. However I am in my mid 30's and not your typical college student. Over the semester, I found myself developing feelings for him and, after a few interactions about a ...
A. 23 May 2011: If you are a student at the same university where he teaches you are still not allowed to date. He already knows this so you should save your energies and put them towards your studies. It matter not that you are a non-tradtional student or not (age ... (read in full...)
Need to break ties with a non-trustworthy friend...
Q. I believe it is time I cut ties with an old friend of mine. We have been friends for about 7 years, and lived together twice. Even though we get in some very heated arguements I would like to end things on good terms. Her morals are very differe...
A. 23 May 2011: If she hangs out with mutual friends you guys are going to be running into each other constantly. I would just stop hanging out with her one on one. You've sunddenly become a very busy woman.... (read in full...)
I want to be friends with my guy friends like we were before they got girlfriends!
Q. This situation is really upsetting to me. I'm a woman who has always gravitated to male friends. Having friends that I can share things and confide in is really important to me, and I need to have friends, but I feel that guys understand me and I ...
A. 23 May 2011: Great points YW! OP,have you never in your life fallen in love?... (read in full...)
I'm a 40 yr old female in love with a 20 yr old
Q. I'm a 40 yr old female in love with a 20 yr old. I struggle with our age difference and it doesn't bother him at all. He wants to marry me and loves my kids as his own. I've discussed with him that someday he would like to have his own children ...
A. 23 May 2011: I'd just advise you to enjoy it while it lasts. Don't count on it going on forever, chances are it won't.... (read in full...)
My best friend is stealing my ideas...including the one about the tattoo that I've always wanted!!
Q. Basically the question is, am I making a bigger deal of this than I should. Here's the situation: So, I've always wanted at least one or two small tattoos. That's it. But I'm not going to get them until I'm older. So what I did was I took ...
A. 23 May 2011: "Tyson tattoo artist sues to block 'Hangover 2'", this guy is sueing over a tattoo maybe you could if your friend copies it. I've got a better idea, don't get a permanent tatto just use magic markers.
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What is the best way to talk to my boyfriend about problems in a our relationship
Q. hi everyone,i am having a problem of not knowing my boyfriend and we've been together for 6months .i want to talk to him about him not being open and about not knowing each other since we dont spend time together,how do i talk to him about thisin ...
A. 23 May 2011: How much time DO you spend together?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend behaves like a 5 year old!
Q. my boyfriend behaves like a five yr old. i love him we met on freshers week i had just come out of a bad relationship and needed someone who really appreciated me, and he did he told me all the time how beautiful i was brought me gifts unexpectedly, ...
A. 23 May 2011: Why waste any more time on this relationship, especially at your age? I'd say it's time to trade up.... (read in full...)
He stands up when his 10 year old sister enters the room, is this too much?
Q. What would you think of a guy (27) who is handsome, has a good job and basically has everything going right for him who actually physically stands up as a gesture of respect for his 10 years younger sister (17) when she enters the room and makes her ...
A. 23 May 2011: Listen to every single response, the Aunts have spoken.... (read in full...)
My lover said its none of my business if she's cheating on me!
Q. Have been dating my lover for the past 11mnths and i discovered about 2 weeks ago that she is having afair with another guy. I accused her for this yesterday night and she said it is non of my business if she is cheating on me then she slapped me. ...
A. 23 May 2011: You wouldn't happen to be married would you?... (read in full...)
Whats wrong with me? Every guy I've dated they have broken up with me!
Q. Every guy I have gone out with has broken up with me and i dont know why! I try not to be so clingy, I try not to hug all of my guy friends all the time. I dont know what I do wrong. It seems as if I'll always be lonely :(...
A. 23 May 2011: At your age you SHOULD be going through boyfriends like tissues. Relax and enjoy these years, they are gone before you know it.... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping with a married man and he wants me to stay at his house. Should I?
Q. I am seeing a married guy 3 or 4 times a year we meet in cities away from home in Fl and or Ca I am 69 and he is 40. When in Ca I have dinner with him and his wifr, I am goig to Ca next and he suggested I stay at his home. Good idea ?????"??...
A. 23 May 2011: Does his wife know he's homosexual/bisexual?... (read in full...)
How can I increase the size and pull back the foreskin?
Q. hi my penis is typically very small in size at normal condition and when erected it gets to a medium size and my foreskin doesn't pull back at erection and at normal condition the foreskin appears to be covering whole penis and looks so small. and ...
A. 20 May 2011: ...sigh... :@... (read in full...)
How can I learn to sleep alone and not be scared?
Q. Hi, I'm a 22 year old woman, and I cannot sleep alone. At night I get horrible images in my head and get scared, and so cannot sleep. Sometimes I am awake until 3am because I am so scared. Or I need to go to talk to a family member or even sleep in...
A. 19 May 2011: Get a therapist with whom you can work this out and get a dog.... (read in full...)
Ex filed restraining order against me but is now in contact again. Does that mean he dropped the order?
Q. i was in a relationship for 15 years, lived with my boyfriend. he ended it. it was a bad breakup. he ended up getting a restraining order against me. now he is talking to me and acknowledging emails and texts. i don't know if he dropped the order. ...
A. 19 May 2011: He's married now. Leave it alone.... (read in full...)
He got real personal. Did I overreact? Should I meet him?
Q. well, I've been single for 2 yrs now haven't really liked anyone since i split with my ex. Anyways I started talking to this guy on facebook well he talked to me first, we have arranged to meet up (in a public place I'm careful lol) but we haven't ...
A. 19 May 2011: Sounds very creepy to me.... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to get a bikini wax so what are my alternatives?
Q. Ok so im too shy to go get a bikini wax. And for some reason I cant wax myself. I dislike always needing to shave and the effects of that. So does anyone know another way. Can I use that veet stuff as long as im careful to keep it external?...
A. 19 May 2011: Epilators hurt like a bitch. I got one a couple of years ago. Used it once..ZOWIE!... (read in full...)
Penis size and sexual satisfaction..
Q. Does penis size matter? Can a woman be satisfied with a small penis? ...
A. 19 May 2011: It's like waiting for the other shoe to drop...these daily penis size questions. The suspense is palpable.... (read in full...)
Topic suggestions?
Q. My boyfriend and i have trouble finding topics to talk about. Do you have any suggestions for me?...
A. 19 May 2011: Can alternative energy effectively replace fossil fuels?... (read in full...)
What type of girl appeals more to men?
Q. This a question I have wondered for a while, and men would probably find answering this one easier, but what type of girl do guys usually go for? I know it's personality that counts and I would never change how I looked to please someone else, bu...
A. 18 May 2011: This sort of question is pretty stupid, no offense, but really? You will get all kinds of different answers so what's the point? There is some guy out there who totally loves your hair, your body, and your personality. Instead of wasting time with ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend shuts down when I am ill and it really hurts me.
Q. Hello. Has anyone else have or have had a partner who can’t handle you being ill? I get a lot of gynaechalogical pain as I was diagnosed with endometriosis in 2003 and although it was removed, I am still having problems with pain management. I also ...
A. 18 May 2011: You're lucky, my husband thinks intercourse can cure any ailment. And he's very assiduous about my health and well-being.... (read in full...)
We had sex on our first date and now he's ignoring me
Q. Hi, well a few months ago I met this guy on a bus and we got talking and it was an instant attraction. I totally fell for him we didn't exchange numbers we added each other on Facebook and I found out he had a girlfriend. I just forgot all about him ...
A. 18 May 2011: Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am.... (read in full...)
Do I read too much into his actions?
Q. There's this man I really like and I think it's mutual, but sometimes it's hard to tell. Oftentimes he shows romantic or attracted interest and others, like lately, he shows disinterest, as in not responding to my text messages anymore. Has he ...
A. 18 May 2011: Ask him out, see if he wants to go for a drink or some coffee. That ought to clarify things for you.... (read in full...)
Do I bug him by always texting him first? Should I keep texting him?
Q. i am 14 he is 15. i like him. i dont know if he likes me. we cant hang out a lot due to out young age. so we text. but i always text him. when we are texting he flirts a lot. i feel like i bug him always texting him first. should i keep texting him ...
A. 18 May 2011: Let him text first the next time. Quid pro quo. ... (read in full...)
About these teacher/student sex scandals...do you think that there is a double standard for the punishments?
Q. About these teacher/student sex scandals - do you think that there is a double standard for the punishments? do you think male teachers have it worse than female teachers? do male students get lucky? do female students get abused?...
A. 17 May 2011: Haven't done the research, this isn't a homework assignment is it?... (read in full...)
How do I behave toward his daughter when she comes to visit?
Q. My partner has one daughter who lives with her mum. When I first met her it was on a day out with her dad when we went to visit her and I thought she had no time for me on that day. I kept my thoughts to myself because I was unsure. About 6 m...
A. 17 May 2011: Great, let her stay in a hotel and let her pay for it. She's acting like a brat. Be the class act that yoou obviously are and hopefully her visit will fly by. Chin up.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 2 years didnt acknowledge my birthday....am I wrong to be upset?
Q. hi there agony aunts, may i just say, i so thank you for all your help when i post a problem on here, and here i am again, i am not sure how to start this one but here i go, i am in a relationship and its LDR well a couple of hours away, we are ...
A. 17 May 2011: I have to start reminding my husband about a week before any special day or event. Some people are just forgetful and usually they have a penis.... (read in full...)
Is it selfish that I don't want my boyfriend's 2 kids to live with us?
Q. My boyfriend has two kids from a previous marriage. One is 7, and the other one is 5. They are two very hyper boys. We have a 9 week old together. I never knew his boys were living with their mothers grandmother. So, not too long ago, she told my...
A. 17 May 2011: Where are the boys supposed to live? If their Mom doesn't want them, it falls on their Dad. It is what it is. Poor little guys...I feel for them.... (read in full...)
Getting emails from the ex's new g/f
Q. Hello, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend a year ago. He was really a kind of insecure guy and very nervous to me. A year later he suddenely contact me and started to talking to me. He may have heard some sad news of my family. At this time he...
A. 17 May 2011: Just curious, is English a second language for you?... (read in full...)
A quick (honest) survey: How often do you and your partner have sex?
Q. This is something I am interested in as this often comes up on Dear Cupid, how often are couples actually having sex? I know personally I feel that my boyfriend and I are not having enough sex, I am 24 and he is nearly 28 yet we have sex once or...
A. 16 May 2011: Every Sunday afternoon. Cialis is damned expensive.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend still has a girl calling and messaging him all the time!
Q. My boyfriend of 2 month still has a girl calling and messaging him all the time!! Ive always found it very hard to trust men as ive been badly hurt before. Then along comes this amazing guy who treats me like a princess and i actually trusted...
A. 16 May 2011: You've only been dating for 2 months or have you just decided to be exclusive in the last 2 months?... (read in full...)
Does Smiling REALLY matter?
Q. Does "smiling" REALLY matter?? Been "told" I'm "pretty" and have a nice "smile" (hardly ever use it though) but I never believe it. I don't think I'm "pretty" at all. ...
A. 16 May 2011: Smiling uses fewer facial muscles than frowning. ... (read in full...)
How do I get over the hate I have for his ex?
Q. Hey(: i'd like to tell you of an ongoing issue i have with one of my boyfriends ex's. She's a true cow, a real evil piece of work and whats more, shes the mother of my boyfriends 3 year old daughter. He's taken her to court, he's tried reasoning ...
A. 16 May 2011: They don't call jealousy the green eyed monster for nothing. You are causing yourself all this grief and until you get a handle on it you will continue to make yourself miserable. Remember this cow is his EX and you are now his girlfriend. Do what ... (read in full...)
My best friend's wife.........
Q. Alrighty guys and gals,I have a little bit of a problem. For the past year or more now I've had feelings for my best friend's wife.Now before you tell me it's wrong and to let it go, I know, I tried, and thought I was over it......well the...
A. 16 May 2011: It's wrong, let it go.... (read in full...)
My husband cheated but we are working things out, how do I get over everything that happened?
Q. My husband cheated on me with one of my friend who split from her partner last year. I knew something was wrong as he was not himself but I did not find out until a week after he left me in june. Up until then we had a full sex life and continued ...
A. 16 May 2011: You are being played. Unless you like it you will have to take the bull by the horns and kick him out once and for all. Get yourself tested for STD's and get yourself the best lawyer you can afford. Time to start over and find the happiness you ... (read in full...)
My current ex couldn't handle me talking to my previous ex!
Q. This hurts so bad. And to warn you guys this might be a long post. So this guy and I have been dating for almost three months. I love him, I really do. However I still talk to an ex of mine. Now let me just make this clear...I do love my ex, but we ...
A. 16 May 2011: Oxymorons are funny.... (read in full...)
Penis size insecurities......
Q. OK, so we've seen the barrage of penis size questions. Got me so curious I decided to actually measure mine. What I encountered was that it may be impossible to get an accurate measurement because there are probably 13 ways to measure it. I know ...
A. 13 May 2011: Even tho' this was posted last month, can it count as today's penis size question? Please?... (read in full...)
City girl falling for a country boy, does he like me too?
Q. I just need some clarity without judgment, please! I've known this guy for about five years and over the last couple of years, we've been hanging out a lot. NOT dating; just hanging out and being great friends. Now, I've always been into British ...
A. 13 May 2011: You do know we have cities in the South filled with city girls, right?... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 13 May 2011: Speaking of porn..who blew the margins???... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 10 May 2011: Okay who blew out the margins?????... (read in full...)
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