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writes:I am a 31 year old woman. I am the one who wrote about a week ago about her husband wanting a striptease (from me) for his birthday. This has not happened yet as his birthday is next weekend.We were having sex on Saturday about which I still get hot now just thinking about it. Afterwards, my husband asked me if we could do it again, doggie style this time. I agreed. He asked if he could tie me to the bed after which he displayed some padded cuffs he had bought (the first I had seen of them).I was surprised, but would never let the word, no cross my lips if he asked me for anything in the sex department. I turned over and had both wrist cuffed to the bedframe. He couldn't find the ones for my ankles. I suggested he go ahead without him, but he was like, "No, it's got to be the ankles too". So, I waited there for about 5-6 minutes until he found them. This is the first time we've done this but I don't think it will be the last. I am not compalining as Saturday was incredible. I am just wondering why the hubby is getting into new things. Does that mean the old things are losing their flavor? Or, am I over thinking this?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 July 2011):
 Am sure he wasn't getting bored with your sex life. Its just sometimes couples fall in to routine and I guess he just wanted to spice things up in the bedroom and try new things. As long as you are comfortable with it well then you should have no worries and just go with the flow. Maybe do some experimenting of your own. Maybe buy some tantra books or karma sutra and enjoy experimenting
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 July 2011):
 Sit back and enjoy the ride, Sister!
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (5 July 2011):
 Variety is good! It does not mean anything was wrong with what you were doing before!
Consider yourself blessed that you have a hubby that wants to try something new and different!
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reader, Tbosse  +, writes (5 July 2011):
 You are luck he tries to spice things up.some just shut down or look for 'pleasure' somewhere.explore with him, have fun.goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2011): I think you are overthinking this. Things get old after a while and he's just wanting to try something new. Just go with it and don't make a big deal about it unless he tries to get you to do something you're not comfortable with. Also, you should just ask him why he wants new things in the bedroom.
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