All I did was answer her question honestly, now shes hardly talking to me! what have I done wrong?
Q. Hi, this is my first time doing this, im also using my wifes account!! im really confused, the other day my wife asked me if i fancied any one and i didnt think i did, but after thinking about it all night i realised i do fancy atleast 10 people, i ...
A. 7 June 2006: Ah ha! I knew that guy was a loser! All suspicions confirmed! To the wife: As soon as you can after you have your baby, get a lawyer and file for divorce, making sure that you get every single cent that's coming to you and your children. You will ... (read in full...)
I slept with a new guy after the shock of a break up
Q. Did I give the wrong answer to his question? I have posted a few questions on this website before as have had a very difficult three months trying to get over the shock of my 4 year live in boyfriend dumping me out of the blue. Following advice I ...
A. 5 June 2006: All the aunts are in agreement here, you are doing just fine, hang in there. It's takes time to regroup after a break up and you might have gotten alittle too involved with this guy too fast but as you said you were having a great time together. If ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell him I'm scared about getting pregnant, what should I do?
Q. i'm 15yrs old and my boyfriend is 23 he's already got a daughter, and i've been pregnant before but miscarried. when we have sex he doesn't use condoms and i don't want to get pregnant again, he says he wants me to have his kids but only when i'm ...
A. 5 June 2006: All babies deserved to be planned for and purposely conceived. Get on the pill, the patch, whatever works for you but you obviously need to be the person responsible for the birth control. By the way this guy sounds like a fiirst class loser so ... (read in full...)
All I did was answer her question honestly, now shes hardly talking to me! what have I done wrong?
Q. Hi, this is my first time doing this, im also using my wifes account!! im really confused, the other day my wife asked me if i fancied any one and i didnt think i did, but after thinking about it all night i realised i do fancy atleast 10 people, i ...
A. 5 June 2006: You did the world a huge dis-service by reproducing, shame on you.... (read in full...)
All I did was answer her question honestly, now shes hardly talking to me! what have I done wrong?
Q. Hi, this is my first time doing this, im also using my wifes account!! im really confused, the other day my wife asked me if i fancied any one and i didnt think i did, but after thinking about it all night i realised i do fancy atleast 10 people, i ...
A. 2 June 2006: Man, you sure don't know anything about women do you!? First off, the correct answer to her question was "NO, I don't fancy anybody but you, sweetheart." Doesn't matter if it's not entirely true,that's the only answer to that particular question. ... (read in full...)
I sent a lad an email telling him I like him, what next?
Q. right i have liked this lad for a while now and last night my mate help me write an email telling him my true feelings, now at this time we thought he was going out with another girl, so i sent it but then i made a plan up incase it backfired so i ...
A. 1 June 2006: Go for it, chickie! What have you got to lose? Good luck!... (read in full...)
What shall I do about my relationship? (long post)
Q. Hello! I have been lurking around reading questions and answers for some time now, looking for an answer to my problem. I do realize, however, that every situation is different and should be treated as such. Having said that, I have a question,...
A. 1 June 2006: Sorry Buddy, I'm afraid this relationship is a goner. You will never be able to relax and trust her let alone truly love her. It wouldn't be fair to you or her to keep this thin soup on the stove. You don't really need to worry about the VD, talk to ... (read in full...)
I found pictures of ladies on my husbands phone!
Q. What should i do? I found pictures of other women on my husbands phone, when i confronted him he said that his work mates had sent them to him. He promised not to receive any more of them.I now know that he has a seperate phone that he hides aw...
A. 1 June 2006: Well you certainly deserve to have an explanation. He knows what he's doing is wrong or he wouldn't hide the other phone from you. Try to stay calm while you are discussing the situation. If you don't get the results you need then maybe your ... (read in full...)
I moved in with My partner and his teenage son, I feel like im a housemaid that gets critiscised all the time and its getting me down!
Q. I am a 28 year old woman I have recently moved in with my older partner and his teenage son. Although I love my partner dearly and I am a very strong and out spoken person I cant help but feel I am being taken for granted. I dont just mean in the ...
A. 1 June 2006: Nobody can take advantage of a person unless that person allows it, so stop letting those two get you down. If they don't like the way you do something then tell them to do it themselves. Make sure you are only doing your fair share of the ... (read in full...)
We've been married for 3 years, living together for 13, hes cheated since we got married, and is still in contact, how can I make him give her up ?
Q. my husband of 3 years, living together for 13 years has had an affair since we got married. Now he says that he wants me and loves me but can't get his lover out of his head and don't know what to do. he promises me every week that he won't text her ...
A. 1 June 2006: 90 days? What a jerk! Dump his sorry ass.... (read in full...)
I gave him an ultimatum: The dogs, or me. He chose the dogs...
Q. my husband has chose to keep his two dogs over our relationship did i do the right thing in making him choose as the dogs ruined my home and took over our bed or do you think i am unreasonable...
A. 31 May 2006: You have to ask yourself if you are better off WITHOUT your husband and the dogs, or better off WITH your husband and the dogs. You apparently have no middle ground here as far as he's concerned. Good luck with whatever you decide. P.S. Dogs are... (read in full...)
Fallen in love with someone online, but he won't come and meet me! It's been a year already...
Q. Hi, I'm 26 female, and I really need help... I met someone online, and I know online chat is only for entertainment and not for a serious one, but this one I am serious. I met someone for the past 1 year and 7 months and I'm sure I love this guy, ...
A. 20 May 2006: Definitely married...just playing you, forget about him...nothing there for you.... (read in full...)
Getting out of a bad marriage and having an affair with married man
Q. I have just come through a dreadful breakdown in my marriage, he has left and I am battling with divorce. The thing is, I have met someone who has given me a shoulder and we have begun an affair. I know it won't help in the long run but for now he h...
A. 20 May 2006: Dependence is not love. You will never get more than sloppy seconds here. If you can live with that then fine but if you want more you are going to have to change this relationship to just friendship and go find a single guy to call your own.... (read in full...)
Partner addicted to porn
Q. Hi. My man looks at porn all the time, I wouldnt mind this but hes got a perfectly good girlfriend who will have sex with him anyway he chooses at the drop of a hat! except he never wants sex anymore. just the porn! We used to look at porn all the ...
A. 20 May 2006: Well I'm sorry to say that it looks like you may be in a no win situation. Your man is a goner, if you are willing and he'd rather play with his pud then it looks pretty much hopeless. Porn is an addiction and if he is in denial about this then he ... (read in full...)
I feel sorry for him if i finish it!!
Q. hi i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now we live togther but the thing is i don`t know if i still love him i feel sorry for him if i finish it i am 27 he is 47. and fancy someone else now what should i do ???...
A. 18 May 2006: Quick and fast like removing a bandaid. His pain might be intense at first but everyone eventually gets on top of it and can go on to lead happy lives. You both owe it to yourselves.... (read in full...)
I'm in a love triangle!
Q. I am in a love triangle! I have been married for just over a year to a wondeful guy who worships me, however I have been seeing a married man for 6 years who I just can't let go! he is older than me, married with children and we speak daily and see ...
A. 7 May 2006: This person is constantly writing in with this, she is just playing the aunts.... (read in full...)
I feel like sex but he says he feels "tired"... Any ideas?
Q. Anyone who reads this, I would love some feedback. My fiance and I have been togeather four years,and he is always turning me down for sex when I ask for it; saying he's tired. It's not just some of the time, it's all the time. This makes me feel so ...
A. 5 May 2006: Well for starters I certainly wouldn't marry the guy until this gets straightened out. You have major problems here. Of course you feel rejected, anyone would. He needs to be checked out by a doctor to make sure his low sex drive isn't due to any ... (read in full...)
My daughter is dating a much older man. What should I do?
Q. Recently I found out that my 15-year-old daughter is is dating a 46-year-old man. She's not planning to marry him or anything; just dating him. However, the 31-year age gap makes me shiver; I fear that this guy is up to no good. How do I bro...
A. 27 April 2006: Call the olcal lwa enforcement and have the guy thrown in the slammer. He's a pedophile.... (read in full...)
How do I ask this (married) guy for his number?
Q. i work at a place that has a truck come deliever stuff to us once a week. im very attracted to this guy. but i found out that he won't be delivering anymore after next week. i want to ask him for his number but im way to shy and scared of what he ...
A. 27 April 2006: "YIKES" is right...leave him alone and find a nice single guy to call.... (read in full...)
His friend is taking all his time, how do I get rid of him?
Q. Help, a friend of my boyfriend just moved here. They work together all day and then the friend keeps on taking over things i used to do with my boyfriend at night. My boyfriend knows what i feel and spends time alone with me but doesn't understand ...
A. 27 April 2006: Have another long talk with your boyfriend, let him know the things that you still want to do with him that he is currently doing with his friend. Ultimately it is up to your boyfriend to decide how much time he wants to spend with either one of ... (read in full...)
My first love is back in the picture and the flame is still there, what do I do?
Q. Hi I am a woman who is happily married to a wonderful man. we have two great daughters. The problem is that some time ago before i met my husband (17 yrs)i was travelling and lived on a kibbutz in Israel. Whilst there i met a truly fantasti...
A. 27 April 2006: If you decide to dissolve your marriage to be with this guy would you be willing to move to Turkey? You might lose custody of your daughters as well, could you handle that? Is he willing to divorce his wife? All of this sounds way to risky, I'd just ... (read in full...)
Shall I help him again??
Q. Shall I help him? I know he need my help now, but I really got hurt from him and he did not apologize until now, but my heart still help him since he emailed me saying he need my help but he also knew maybe I do not want to help him any more. ...
A. 26 April 2006: What kind of "help" are we talking about here? What kind of "hurt" are we talking about? We need more information in order to try to address your problem, dear.... (read in full...)
Feel uncoomfortable around my friend, What can I do to change it?
Q. heya i had a well embarressin moment last sunday wen i went 2 my church and my mate made me laugh so much tht i wet myself. she was laughing and ppl saw! i cant get it out of my head and i am embarressed about it around my m8 now, i just dont fee...
A. 26 April 2006: People will forget about it if they haven't already and so should you. If you are uncomfortable around her then don't hang out with her anymore but I'll bet she doesn't give a rats ass about what happened. If this is the worst thing that has ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left me for my sister, how do I deal with this?
Q. me and my botfriend were together for over 2 yrs and recently there was a roumour that he cheated with my friend at my sisters house. they both denied it but straight away he said he think it might be best if we split. i was devestated but could do ...
A. 26 April 2006: Well I think it's water over the dam at this point. Of course you feel hurt and betrayed but you must force yourself to move on and put this behind you. They have live with the fact that their relationship started with cheating, which most likely ... (read in full...)
How do I stop my bf's friend taking up all his time??
Q. What do you do when your boyfriend's friend you don't like much is moving to the town you and your boyfriend live in? What do you do to not allow him to take over all your boyfriends time as your boyfriend is going to be the only person he knows in ...
A. 26 April 2006: Not much YOU can do about it, it up to your boyfriend as far as how much time he spends with his friend. You should make your needs known to your boyfriend and hope that he will make all the time adjustments necessary for a good balance. When he ... (read in full...)
My bf is convinced he doesn't satisfy me..how do I tell him that he really does!
Q. My boyfriend feels that he does not satisfy me. How do I let him know that he does?...
A. 26 April 2006: Tell him, reassure him the next time he indicates that he has doubts. You'll be able to convince him with a little time. He sounds like he just has low self-esteem which can be raised slowly over time. Be patient. Good luck.... (read in full...)
He always throws our misunderstanding in my face!!
Q. My gay boyfriend and me had a slight misunderstanding where we were both missunderstood, and wrong impressions were given and we both got hurt. We planned to get together but family issues arose i didn't know what was happening at all as we were ...
A. 26 April 2006: You should stop apologising for stuff you didn't do. Also quit the begging. If this relationship is going to work you'll both need to see that there is equal give and take. Good luck.... (read in full...)
My lover wants more from me, but I'm scared to loose my other half, What should I do??
Q. I have been married for a year but been having affair with married man for 4 years, the married man now wants more and I don't no what to do as I have feelings for him and don't feel I can live without him, but I love my husband and have so much to ...
A. 26 April 2006: You say to love your husband I say you don't and never did if you married him while you were "doing" this other married guy. I think maybe you should look the the word MARRIAGE up in a dictionary, you'll be totally shocked to learn what the word ... (read in full...)
She is on the verge of wrecking my marriage because of her internet guy, What should I do??
Q. my sister in law is having an affair with ssomebody she met of the internet she has since told several people and to protect my relationship i have told my partner whose brother she is married to he is now threatening to leave me and tell his ...
A. 26 April 2006: Huh? Leave you because his sister-in-law is cheating?... (read in full...)
Am I too adventurous? I ask this, because my bf dumped me after making me feel like a used rag.
Q. I was seeing this guy over Xmas and we stopped it because I was going through a messy marriage break up at the time. Recently he got in touch again and we started seeing each other which involved lots of good sex. Now he tells me he doesnt want to ...
A. 26 April 2006: Aw he's just another creep. Don't let the likes of him get to you. You go girl! You'll be jsut fine, I'm sure.... (read in full...)
Don't want to be a homewrecker, but I think I love my workmate..
Q. I am considering trying to start a relationship with someone I work with. We are both public officials in a small community who work together - but not in the same office. The only problem is that she is married with three kids and I'm not anxious ...
A. 26 April 2006: My suggestions are: don't be a homewrecker and take cold showers.... (read in full...)
Should I have an affair??
Q. I met a man at work when he came from an agency to cover shifts, we went for a drink after work and had a kiss in his car the only thing is he's married and wants us to have an affair. Should i because i don't want anyone full time and it would su...
A. 26 April 2006: Next time you are visiting a prison look around and see all the murderers, I guess that makes killing okay then, following you logic that is.... (read in full...)
My sister in law is obbsessed with my husband and now im attraced to her husband. What should I do??
Q. Hi: I am a married woman wih an 18 month old daughter. I am pretty unhappy in my marriage in large part due to my overbearing know-no-boundaries inlaws, especially my sister in law. She is obsessed with her brother, my husband. As a conseque...
A. 26 April 2006: You need to get a divorce. If you don't give a rip about your husband then do the decent thing and divorce him. You owe it to your daughter to be a class act. Ignore your infatuation with your brother-in-law, he's off limits. Get yourself free and ... (read in full...)
I have copper hair-my hairdresser wants to add blonde hilites. What do you think?
Q. hi i have copper hair and have had it like this for three years im happy with it as it fades nicely and its nice and straight .my hairdreeser wants to put in blonde highlights do u think i should? ...
A. 12 April 2006: what a dumb question... (read in full...)
Did a computer virus infect his browsing history when I was away?
Q. Hey guys, I'll make this quick: my boyf has been off any kind of physical stuff for a while now. A few weeks ago I was away for the night and when I got back I found porn sites on his computer history. He said he didn't look at anything, and that ...
A. 12 April 2006: Your boyfriend has told you a fib. I'm not sure why he felt he had to lie about the porn but it's best you guys talk about it and set up the boundaries that you both feel comfortable about.... (read in full...)
How old should you be to have sex?
Q. i am looking for a boyfriend how can i find one and how old should a girl have to be before she have sex...
A. 11 April 2006: You should be old enough and mature enough to know not to ask a question that doesn't really have an answer.... (read in full...)
Help needed on "ladies" timings
Q. hi, this is a bit of a random question, and i'm 17 so i really should know this as i've had a good few years of experience. Does your period start a month after the END of your last period, or a month after the START of your last period?! so say t...
A. 9 April 2006: All depends on your age and past history. Some women never have a reuglar period...ever. Just make sure you practice safe birth control!... (read in full...)
Could you get pregnant without sex? And am I?
Q. Right, im 13 and have a very serious with a boy of the same age. We have been going out for nearly a year and have become practically inseperable. But, im curious, we have never had proper sexual intercourse as we know the risks and that the age of ...
A. 9 April 2006: Get yourself to a doctor ASAP, Then be resonsible for your own body. IT REALLY TICKS ME OFF ABOUY UNPROTECTIVE SEX. ... (read in full...)
Is her exhibitionist tendencies a red flag? Should I be worried?
Q. My girlfriend was telling me yesterday that when she stays in hotels she has always been somewhat of a casual exhibitionist. She says she walks around naked in front of the windows and has even masterbated in front of it before. When we were t...
A. 9 April 2006: She ie a pycho no normal woman wants to broadcast when she she decides to entertain herself. Distance yourself.... (read in full...)
We're suposed to me tomorrow, but he hasn't even called yet!
Q. I just met someone and have been out with him twice. I'm supposed to meet him again tomorrow. We arranged it 2 weeks ago. He hasn't called yet to confirm our meeting, nor to arrange where we're going. Is that ok behaviour? i'd to make the ...
A. 7 April 2006: He probably just doesn't know any better. Tell him you need him call you and confirm the date a couple of days before because you don't want to wait until the last minute to plan your outfit. Or if you want to really teach him a lesson, when he ... (read in full...)
I can't have intercourse with my new wife, it won't go in!
Q. i am newly married just week before. and my partner have a problem regarding intercourse. as if she got her vaginal way smaller, so that i cant get in. and she is complaining pain when i try. kindly advise me. thanks victor...
A. 7 April 2006: Assuming that your wife is a virgin, it could be the hymen in the vaginal canal is too tough to break with normal intercourse. Sometimes a doctor has to intervene. Ask her to make an appointment with her doctor. This is a common phenomenon and can ... (read in full...)
Am I a 'zoophile'? I saw two dogs mating and it gave me a thrill! Help
Q. I think i might be a zoophile... Yesterday I was in the park watching 2 dogs mating and I got this rush, like when I kiss my boyfriend. Now I'm terrified that I'll start getting feelings for the animals themselves. What should i do?...
A. 7 April 2006: I don't know if you should be worried or not but just to be on the safe side...don't get a pet. ... (read in full...)
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