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writes: me and my botfriend were together for over 2 yrs and recently there was a roumour that he cheated with my friend at my sisters house. they both denied it but straight away he said he think it might be best if we split. i was devestated but could do nothing but accept it. now my friends sister has told me that they are together. i am so hurt that they would both do this to me and at the minute its not really sunk in. i dont know what to do should i confront them because they obviosly cheated while he was with me and in my sisters house. i always hoped that he would change his mind about splitting up and want to get back with me because we were really happy until the weekend he cheated and im gutted that he would get with someone so soon after splitting up especially with my friend.help! Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (26 April 2006):
 Well I think it's water over the dam at this point. Of course you feel hurt and betrayed but you must force yourself to move on and put this behind you. They have live with the fact that their relationship started with cheating, which most likely spells doom. You have the advantage of knowing you behaved honorably so don't do anything crass like confronting them. Be cool and walk away with your head held high. Good luck!
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