Is alot of Body hair normal ? And does it stop growing ?
Q. i am a 15 yr old boy and i would like to know is it normal to have a lot of body hair, meaning chest, stomach, back legs and bottacks, and i would also like to know when does the body hair stop growing????? plzz help me as im worried...
A. 27 July 2006: Because I have been involved with this site for a year now and I recognize him. But go ahead and give him advice and comfort he'll just ignore you and come back again in a few weeks.... (read in full...)
How could I go about rebuilding trust, I really didnt do anything intentionally wrong!
Q. Dear Cupid I finished up a practicum at the Ministry if Child and Family Development some months ago in a counselling role. Since the ending of my practicum I have sporadically kept in touch with a 15 yr old girl via email who was having a p...
A. 27 July 2006: Well it does sound like your girlfriend's reaction was a tad extreme. But since it's all water under the bridge I guess your best bet is to be supportive and to show your love for her frequently. Time is the restorer of trust so just stay the ... (read in full...)
At what age can my older daughter refuse to go on visits with her dad?
Q. I am divorced and have remarried. I have 2 kids from previous marriage who are aged 12 and 10. They are picked up by their father once a month and taken to his home. My eldest who is female is becoming increasing hostile to going with him. She ...
A. 27 July 2006: If she doesn't want to visit then I certainly would not make her. It would be nice if she gave you a reason but she is old enough to make this decision. Just let her be the one to tell her father rather than have it come from you. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I met a nice guy a month ago, he now tells me he cant father children, I want children so should I end it ?
Q. Met a nice guy but a month into the relationship he tells me he can't father children due to medical reasons. I'm not sure whether to continue the relationship, am i being selfish? I would love my own children....
A. 27 July 2006: Well if you really desire to have your own children then you will end up feeling unhappy and maybe even resentful of your partner if he can't provide you with them. If adoption just won't cut it for you I guess you better walk before you spent ... (read in full...)
Is alot of Body hair normal ? And does it stop growing ?
Q. i am a 15 yr old boy and i would like to know is it normal to have a lot of body hair, meaning chest, stomach, back legs and bottacks, and i would also like to know when does the body hair stop growing????? plzz help me as im worried...
A. 27 July 2006: This has got to be the forth time at least he has posted this, check it out. He has gotten all kinds of wonderful advice and reassurances but just keeps coming back. What more can be done for him?... (read in full...)
Advice from those people having affairs please.
Q. hello..a question to those of you having affairs(come on you know you're out there)i have begun an affair but have no intention of leaving my husband for my lover and neither does my lover want or expect me to. we are both happy about this decision ...
A. 27 July 2006: To the responder below:If someone is doing something that is perfectly all right then they don't need to worry about "being caught". So obviously you do think that cheating on your husband is wrong. To the Poster: Wild Thaing is correct, you are ... (read in full...)
Is alot of Body hair normal ? And does it stop growing ?
Q. i am a 15 yr old boy and i would like to know is it normal to have a lot of body hair, meaning chest, stomach, back legs and bottacks, and i would also like to know when does the body hair stop growing????? plzz help me as im worried...
A. 27 July 2006: Good lord, you have posted this hair question over and over and get the same responses each time. Sheesh!... (read in full...)
So hurt by my husband's philandering, that I can't show my love for him... so he cheated again!
Q. I'm married. My husband cheated three times that I know of. The first time left me with so much of wounds. Because of this I am not doing what I should like making love and showing love. That's why he cheated again. Now we are at a point that we ...
A. 26 July 2006: If it were me I'd give him a PERMANENT time out. He has cheated on you three times? Well in baseball you know what that means. Of course you know best if this relationship has any chance of providing you any happiness but from my view point it ... (read in full...)
My husband didn't defend me or my daughter, when his parents made her cry. What should I do because he and I haven't spoked in 4 days over this.
Q. My husband (of 2 months) and I went to his parents anniversary party. I took my 13 year old daughter and her b/f along. His parents waited until I had left the room and then decided that they didn't like the way the kids were sitting on the couch, ...
A. 26 July 2006: You won't be able to change the mother-in-law but you certainly can refuse to visit her. Let your husband visit on his own. Cut her out of your life. Maybe that will get the point across. Get back to your normal routine and move on with your ... (read in full...)
Why do relationships never last for me ??
Q. Why do relationships fail? I just got out of my third relationship... I never had flings or affairs and I have been totally committed to the men I've been with... but, invariably, all my relationships seem to come to an end... this is devastat...
A. 26 July 2006: Maybe you should sit down and think about what went wrong in each of these relationships. Was there a common thread? If you can isolate the problem(s) then you know what you need to work on or look for in your future partners. You do know that you ... (read in full...)
I would like to get a prenup drawn up to protect the family business, he says he wont marry me if I do this, am I in the wrong ?
Q. Hi, I am planning to get married in April 2008, my Mum and dad have a really good family run business which I have worked really hard at for the past 6 years. I have mentioned a prenuptual agreement as I would hate it to be distroyed in the...
A. 26 July 2006: This document will protect your parent's as well so they have right to ask for this. I think your partner is out of line, he should have no problem signing this if he truly loves you. Good luck.... (read in full...)
My partner refuses to discipline his son!
Q. My partner is obsessed with his son he loves him to distraction, nothing wrong with that but his behaviour is so bad eg swearing name calling hitting me and his father. He will not tell him off or show him boundries neither will his mother. He wants ...
A. 22 July 2006: This whole situation stinks to high heaven. There is no way that you should be excluded and the EX be included. Obviously you are second fiddle to your partner and he will cave to the son in all respects. Children need to know that they are loved ... (read in full...)
Its hard to leave my 19 year old lover behind
Q. I am in love with a 19 yr old girl and she is in love with me (42). We both know that nothing can come from this relationship as she wants children, I cant have any (vasectomy), I am also married. We tried separating but were both unhappy and soon ...
A. 22 July 2006: If you posted here looking for approval for your actions, you won't find it. Since you aren't going to give the poor thing a chance at a decent life then go about your business. I pity all the women in your life.... (read in full...)
His parents go out of their way to make me feel uncomfortable, what should I do ?
Q. I've been married for 5monthss now and my husbands parents dont respect me or my feelings. or my children. they keep photos of my husband and his x gf from over 5 years ago around there house, they show my children who are very young pictures of ...
A. 22 July 2006: They are YOUR children, do not let them be exposed to the in-law's gross behavior. "Unless this nonsense stops you will not see the grandkids", put that in their pipes and let them smoke it! Be firm for you children's sake. Good luck!... (read in full...)
We stopped having sex, then I found him with another woman, I dont care he cheated just want to feel wanted!
Q. Dear Cupid I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years. He is 30 and I am 27. In the beginning our relationship was great but then we hit a couple of ruff pathes financially and it took a lot out of us. He stopped having sex with me but I though...
A. 22 July 2006: Wow! I can't believe you have wasted so much time on this loser. Life is way too short for you to stay in a relationship that just makes you miserable. Take a deep breath, summon your inner strength, and start packing your bags! Good luck, I'm sure ... (read in full...)
Any advice on my little girl's reaction to getting sick?
Q. Hi all, I have a little girl aged 3 and 1/2 and whenever she is ill, she starts with the usual high temparature , then runny nose etc what i am more worried about is that her ears run with wax and she loses a yellow/green discharge from her winkle ...
A. 20 July 2006: I definitely would consult with a pediatrician on this one. My three kids would run fevers and get nasal discharges but never an ear or urinary discharge. The doctor will be able to determine whether this is something to be concerned about. I would ... (read in full...)
He finds the woman body beautiful, but I don't like feeling that I'm just another one....I want to be special!
Q. Hi. What do people think of this? My guy says that he thinks all women are beautiful - fat or thin. He says the womanly shape is beautiful, and he has paintings and statuettes of female nudes dotted around his apartment. He also says he thinks ...
A. 17 July 2006: Just don't buy the "it's a guy thing" that is just a poor excuse for even poorer behavior. Tell him exactly what you told us don't make an ultimatum but if he doesn't shape up then you have at least given the relationship your best shot and you can ... (read in full...)
Love bites! Are they dirty?
Q. Are love bites dirty and just for tarts? ...
A. 15 July 2006: Word of warning...the redness comes from broken capillaries. I have a friend who reveive a hicky and the damage was permanent.... (read in full...)
He finds the woman body beautiful, but I don't like feeling that I'm just another one....I want to be special!
Q. Hi. What do people think of this? My guy says that he thinks all women are beautiful - fat or thin. He says the womanly shape is beautiful, and he has paintings and statuettes of female nudes dotted around his apartment. He also says he thinks ...
A. 15 July 2006: He is simply showing poor manners in his behavior. Good manners dictate concern for another's feelings which he isn't doing. Learning polite behavior is possible at any age. If you want to stay with him, sit him down and let him know how this is ... (read in full...)
Any tips to help stop my daughter twiddling with her hair?
Q. my daughter constantly twiddles her hair and it gets so knotty as her hair is natually curly you can omagine the difficulty in brushing any tips on getting her to stopthis habit...
A. 13 July 2006: You don't mention how old she is but once she starts school I think the peer pressure will help her during the day. If she has long hair maybe a cute shorter bob would help. ... (read in full...)
My 4 year old has a hyperactivity disorder and it's exhausting me? Any advice
Q. hi, my nearly four year old daughter who I think may have some sort of hyperactivity disorder, is driving me to distraction. she has recently started to have violent tantrums and has hurt my son who is 7, and myself in the process. i can't think of ...
A. 13 July 2006: Definitely get her to the doctor to rule out any physical causes and he/she may suggest having her evaluated for any behavior disorders. With children it's very important to get them checked out for physical problems first because sometimes the ... (read in full...)
My 5 yera old doesn't listen to me and is having social problems with his little friends.Is this normal?
Q. my 5 year od son is answering back all the time, doesn;t listen to a word i say and is constantly falling out with his freinds when they come to play. Is this normal for the age?...
A. 13 July 2006: Very normal for 5. However you must not let him get away with not listening to you. I would send him to his room immediately when he doesn't do what you say. Tell him he has to stay there until he does.... (read in full...)
14 with period problems...
Q. I'm having female troubles. Hi. I'm 14 and I just got my first period. I tried using a tampon but I have trouble inserting it. The muscles tighten up no matter what I do to relax. I'm worries that even if I manage to insert it I won't be able to...
A. 13 July 2006: You will be able to remove it.... (read in full...)
I'm a reformed drug addict who has fallen in love with a woman online... But she's a muslim and her family would disown her! (ps. sorry for shouting)
Q. FOR THE LAST 8-10 YEARS I HAVE MOVED FROM ONE SUBSTANCE ABUSE TO ANOTHER. THAT ENDED 6 MONTHS AGO WHEN OVER THE INTERNET I MET A WOMEN, WHO IS NOW VERY DEAR TO ME. IT WAS A BIG WAKE UP CALL AND I HONESTLY BELIEVED SHE SAVED MY LIFE. WE HAVE MET, HAD ...
A. 11 July 2006: Sounds like it is ultimately up to her to decide between you and her family. Be supportive and assure her of your love but don't pressure her. If you do get the short end of the stick please don't use it as an excuse to undo all your hard work ... (read in full...)
She lied and said she was older, but now I'm a married man in love with a 14-year-old!
Q. What action should I take? I am a married man in my late twenties, who has fallen for someone much younger. We met in a chatroom last year, when her profile stated she was older. After a while, we spoke on MSN when I noticed that she was actu...
A. 10 July 2006: Well Vlad I agree...you should stay in the hospital for a while. And please stop pestering the kid.... (read in full...)
My husband seems to care more for my sister than for me, and we've been rowing over it!
Q. Hey guys, Listen, I have a problem. My husband and I had a terrible row, based on what he said to me has since being very overfriendly with my sister. He says that he finds her soothing, loving and comforting. Once at a party, one of my friends said ...
A. 8 July 2006: If you are unhappy in your marriage and want to get out then you should. Your child would be better off especially if you and your husband are having frequent fights. I don't know why people think it's better for children to stay in an unpleasant in ... (read in full...)
Oh no! I forgot to tell him I have herpes and when I did, he stopped contacting me
Q. After dating a guy for a few weeks and having him spend the night, I realized I forgot to tell him I had herpes. I have had it for 25 years and take regular medication to keep from having outbreaks.. so I know it seems impossible, but I actually ...
A. 8 July 2006: Stop trying to contact him. He'll be back if he can deal with your herpes. If he can't then there you are. It's your duty to remember to be upfront with it next time. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Need to stop flirting with my workmate before it gets out of hand...
Q. I'm married; he's married. Too much flirting. Now I have attraction for him! How do I stop when we work together?...
A. 8 July 2006: I agree with Jadzia, it's just a matter of self-control. Keep your husband in the back of your mind at all times. If you do that it won't be so difficult to just stay focused on your job. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I am 11 years old and internet dating!
Q. well i am 11 and i talk to this guy on msn, i have never felt the same way about any one ever before, we went out a couple times. And now we arent going out, i want him more than anything else in the world. And trust me, i want alot of things! See ...
A. 8 July 2006: Anyone who would give an eleven year old tips on dating on the internet or anywhere for that matter is way out of line. You are far too young to be even thinking about this stuff. You have your whole adult future for all of this and only a few years ... (read in full...)
Even after 10 years, he wouldn't leave his wife, so I finished it...
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been seeing John for ten years. It's a love affair. He's married; has been for forty years. They have problems, been married when they were 16 years old. I have always been there for him. I love him. It's wrong, I know. He is repon...
A. 6 July 2006: Good lord lady! You've wasted 10 years of your life already! Show him the door and get on with the rest of your life. Make the vow to never be second best again and keep it. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I adore someone who is not my wife
Q. I have been married for over ten years. I have a loving relationship with my wife, but I know something is missing on my part. I have never adored my wife and don't know how or if I ever can feel this way towards her. We both brought pretty heavy ...
A. 6 July 2006: You ARE obsessing and not rationally thinking. Adoration? Nuts! You have what appears to be a very strong marriage, enjoy it. As a "perfectionist" you must have realized by now that nothing is perfect. Snap out of it and go give that wife a big kiss ... (read in full...)
I'm going to miss the place I used to have in my daughter's heart when she gets married...
Q. How do I get over the fact that I wont be #1 in my daughter's life after she gets married? My 30 yr old daughter is getting married, and well, it's making me nervous. I'm her dad and she's my "little girl" and I feel like I'm losing her. She ...
A. 6 July 2006: A son's a son until he takes a wife, a daughter's a daughter ALL her life. I actually talk more to my kids since they flew the nest than I did when they lived with me! Trust me, your daughter will be in constant contact with you. Grandkids are ... (read in full...)
How do you deal with one-way-love?
Q. I am in love with a married man but he has no feelings for me. it is a one way thing.please give me some advice how to get out of this sitution and move on...
A. 5 July 2006: Okay here's what you should do: go out with friends, do volunteer work, join a club, just stay busy but mostly just stay away from married men. Start your new life today. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I broke the inherent trust of the group by asking one of its female members out!
Q. I’ve made a huge mistake. I’m an alcoholic undergoing treatment and am in recovery. I’m attending a 3 month (I attend 3 times per week) program and have made good friends with some of the others also attending. Before I started the program,...
A. 4 July 2006: Well actions speak louder...just act like a gentleman and be polite and friendly. That should assuage her doubts and concerns.... (read in full...)
We're getting married... I snooped a look at her phone and found she's been texting a man! Now I'm in a pickle..
Q. i secretly looked at my girlfriends phone , and saw that she was texting and calling another man . i cant confront her because she ll know i looked on her phone , its cutting me up as we are planning on getting married ...
A. 4 July 2006: Do you know who this other guy is? Maybe he's just a friend and nothing more. Do you know who her friends are? Maybe it's a co-worker. No need to confront her but maybe just get to know her a tad better. Have a long talk about your friendships and ... (read in full...)
Having children and getting married is high on her list... But low on mine. Anyone like to share some wisdom?
Q. Hi, I (I'm 43) have met this women that I am very taken with, however I don't want children. We have not been going out long, but in talking have found out that getting married and having children is high on her list. If a women (age 31) has alw...
A. 4 July 2006: Well Brian I think you had better not count on long term here. To have or not have children has to be settled up front or there will be major problems down the line. Some women are truly not fulfilled without becoming a mother. I guess you need to ... (read in full...)
Fallen in love with a boy who has a girlfriend (who is my enemy)!
Q. hey,I am 16 years old and i have fallen in love with this boy in my class who has a girlfriend who give sme dirty looks and is pratically my enemy now, everyone hates her, she is so insercure wen he is around me. the thing is he keeps on talking to ...
A. 4 July 2006: I'd play the field here, you can go out with either one of them whenever one of them asks you. Have some fun, why do you have to limit yourself to just one guy? Don't prove that youth is wasted on the wrong people...this is your time to kick up your ... (read in full...)
My married guy has made me wait 5 months, and he promised to leave his wife in 3!
Q. Will he leave her for me? For the first time in seven years I have met someone I really love. Only thing is he is married. The woman he is married to is 10 years older than him She is 51 and he is 41 and I am 29 years old. I have only been da...
A. 3 July 2006: You are just another sucker, there's one born every minute so you don't need to keep that population growing by reproducing. Show some class, grow up, keep a nickel between your knees, and get a real life. That's my advice take or leave it.... (read in full...)
What is a posh wank?
Q. I've heard my mates talk about it but I'm too embarrased to ask what they're on about.......... What is a "posh wank"?...
A. 3 July 2006: Damn and I was thinking it had something to do with the Spice Girls........ (read in full...)
I have his baby and he won't leave his wife for us. What should I do?
Q. hi everybody im so glad i found this website cause i need advice really bad ok it started in nov of 2004 i started seeing this married man see he told me from the beginning that they were planning on getting divorced so we started seeing each other ...
A. 3 July 2006: Well from your follow up I can only say not only is this guy a cheater he's also stupid. Get rid of him and take care of your son. Get going.... (read in full...)
I broke off my engagement because of a row with my boyfriend's Muslim father about religion!
Q. dear cupid, i am 34 yrs old and was engaged back in 2003 to the man of my dreams-we were together for almost 4 years. Unfortunatley i ended the engagment because his father (which i might add is Muslim)decided to TELL me that if I were to have ...
A. 2 July 2006: 3 years? This happened 3 years ago? Whew that's a long time to be dwelling on this. I guess since he's just seeing another woman you could contact him and see if he's still carrying the torch for you. That is if he's not truly involved with her. It ... (read in full...)
I have his baby and he won't leave his wife for us. What should I do?
Q. hi everybody im so glad i found this website cause i need advice really bad ok it started in nov of 2004 i started seeing this married man see he told me from the beginning that they were planning on getting divorced so we started seeing each other ...
A. 2 July 2006: I always have zero sympathy for women or men that get involved with a married person. Their excuses and reasons are always very stupid and pathetic. Your case however is different because a child is involved. You have no rights coming to you but the ... (read in full...)
I broke the inherent trust of the group by asking one of its female members out!
Q. I’ve made a huge mistake. I’m an alcoholic undergoing treatment and am in recovery. I’m attending a 3 month (I attend 3 times per week) program and have made good friends with some of the others also attending. Before I started the program,...
A. 1 July 2006: I don't see that you did anything wrong. Why can't you ask someone from your group out? How is that a violation of trust? Don't apologise any further. Just be yourself, it really sounds like she's the one with some unresolved issues. Good luck to ... (read in full...)
She lied and said she was older, but now I'm a married man in love with a 14-year-old!
Q. What action should I take? I am a married man in my late twenties, who has fallen for someone much younger. We met in a chatroom last year, when her profile stated she was older. After a while, we spoke on MSN when I noticed that she was actu...
A. 22 June 2006: Vladimer Nabokov...is that you?... (read in full...)
She lied and said she was older, but now I'm a married man in love with a 14-year-old!
Q. What action should I take? I am a married man in my late twenties, who has fallen for someone much younger. We met in a chatroom last year, when her profile stated she was older. After a while, we spoke on MSN when I noticed that she was actu...
A. 7 June 2006: What a good Daddy you are!... (read in full...)
She lied and said she was older, but now I'm a married man in love with a 14-year-old!
Q. What action should I take? I am a married man in my late twenties, who has fallen for someone much younger. We met in a chatroom last year, when her profile stated she was older. After a while, we spoke on MSN when I noticed that she was actu...
A. 6 June 2006: You should leave the kid alone for 4 more years. In the mean time, divorce your wife so she doesn't waste any more time on you and can get on with her life. Then take up a hobby to keep yourself busy for the next 4 years. If it is the true love that ... (read in full...)
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