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writes: Right, im 13 and have a very serious with a boy of the same age. We have been going out for nearly a year and have become practically inseperable. But, im curious, we have never had proper sexual intercourse as we know the risks and that the age of consent is 16, but we have however done other things..e.g oral, fingering, touching e.c.t. but anyway, im curious, is it possible to get pregnant without having sex? What i mean is...he ejaculated and he wiped it off his thighs and stomach with his hand, then he fingered me straight after. Is there a chance that some sperm was still on his hands and was transferred into me? Im really worried. Also, when he fingered me I had unusual bleeding with i thought must be my period so i asked him to stop (i know it wasnt my hymen breaking because i have had things done to me many times before) and it didnt hurt at all. But since then i havent had an ounce of blood from my vagina. Could I have become pregnant right at the start of my period and it therefore stopped?? Im confused. Am i pregnant? I darent tell anybody or ask anybody in case they think im stupid. Please help. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): yes you can get pregant if some of his sperm got in your vigina because sperm swims in liquid and it can swim into your vingina and fertilize one of your eggs and you may become pregant
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (13 April 2006):
Hi
the only thing I can say is the same as all of the others take a pregnacy test! Good Luck babe! And if you are pregnant, I'll have you know the youngest Mum in the world was eight so you wont be entered into the record books! And of course you're not stupid. You're mature for thinking about the consequences!
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reader, ..x..Lauren..x.. +, writes (13 April 2006):
aww babe bless you.. i know how you feel coz this happened to me.. luckily i wasnt preggers but if you ever wanna chat to someone the same age (me :P) done the same stuff (me :P) then im here for you. chat soon hun, ..x..Lauren..x..
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (11 April 2006):
You should get tested just incase you are pregnant.
But you can't break you hymens by being fingered, so you shouldn't worry about that. most likely you just began your first period it's gonna be odd the first three years but then you get into a rythem. the fact you only bleed a little isn't anything to worry about just be prepared for the for the full flow. go to shop and purchese a pack of always pads
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reader, eï? Sophie eï? +, writes (11 April 2006):
Hi
You will need to get checked out and down to the doctors, it would be ideal to tell someone, as you may be pregnant because small amounts of sperm may have got into your vagina during oral sex. If you cant tell your mum, maybe tell a teacher or a close friend they may be able to help, but you are still young to be doing things like this; all sexual acts e.g full sex and oral the age consent is 16 so your under age.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 April 2006):
Get yourself to a doctor ASAP, Then be resonsible for your own body. IT REALLY TICKS ME OFF ABOUY UNPROTECTIVE SEX.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2006): If he had just wiped his hands in semen and then fingered you, there is a chance that you are pregnant. Sperm can be surprisingly resilient. You'd better get tested to be sure, as in RIGHT NOW.
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