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writes: Help, a friend of my boyfriend just moved here. They work together all day and then the friend keeps on taking over things i used to do with my boyfriend at night. My boyfriend knows what i feel and spends time alone with me but doesn't understand that stuff we used to do together has been taken. This friend is a bad infleunce and was supposed to move somewheres else. Now all he is causing is trouble. I want him out. Help Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 April 2006):
Have another long talk with your boyfriend, let him know the things that you still want to do with him that he is currently doing with his friend. Ultimately it is up to your boyfriend to decide how much time he wants to spend with either one of you. You can't force the issue and it wouldn't do any good to try. He needs to find the right balance. Good luck.
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