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writes: My girlfriend was telling me yesterday that when she stays in hotels she has always been somewhat of a casual exhibitionist. She says she walks around naked in front of the windows and has even masterbated in front of it before. When we were talking about it she was actually instant messaging me on AOL and took a 10 minute break to masterbate. When she came back I asked her about it and where she did it but she said masterbation is her private world. So I guess I'm dealing with two things: one is this exhibitionist thing something to worry about or a red flag? Also is it weird i want to know more about where and what she thinks about now while masterbating because she is so secretive about it? Do women often times think of other guys while masterbating when they're in a relationship?
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reader, shania  +, writes (9 April 2006):
 Women can fantasize about other men through masturbation while still being happy with their boyfriend,it doesn't mean that they think less of you but what worries me is she likes doing it in front of windows in hotel rooms.That would be my main concern.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (9 April 2006):
 She ie a pycho no normal woman wants to broadcast when she she decides to entertain herself. Distance yourself.
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reader, riverrunsthrough +, writes (8 April 2006):
riverrunsthrough is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know it's normal for girls to masterbate but i guess how secretive she was sort of being made me wonder what goes on in her mind and whether she thinks about other guys a lot. She said she has masterbated in front of the window before but i really think it's probaby something she has done once or twice.
I guess I'm wondering if there are women out there completely happy with their man and also do this sort of stuff while at hotels and what not.
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reader, shania +, writes (8 April 2006):
Its normal for women to masturbate,just as it is for a man to do it,i guess she gets very turned on when she starts talking to you but most of it is to turn you on...thats why she tells you.I wouldn't recommend her doing this kind of thing in front of windows because she could get complaints as well as potential perverts.She is an exhibitionist and while it might turn on some blokes it probably doesn't suit you,you have got to weigh up whether you can deal with a girl like that or not.
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