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writes: My gay boyfriend and me had a slight misunderstanding where we were both missunderstood, and wrong impressions were given and we both got hurt. We planned to get together but family issues arose i didn't know what was happening at all as we were supposed to meet i was stood up and i got angry and he got angry at me cause i didn't understand, "because i wasn't told" now he threatens me with saying that this isn't going to work out and we move our separate ways. Whenever something happens like this he always throws this in my face that we'll break up and we love each other very much but i end up begging an saying sorry when i didn't do anything wrong and begging.what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (26 April 2006):
 You should stop apologising for stuff you didn't do. Also quit the begging. If this relationship is going to work you'll both need to see that there is equal give and take. Good luck.
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reader, prttymtlkitty +, writes (26 April 2006):
 Sounds like he wants to do what he wants on his terms and gets annoyed when given the 3rd degree. So, to make you think more about loosing him, then for him to have to come up with an excuse for his behavior, he plays the drama card and sounds like you fall for it everytime. Don't be afraid to call his bluff, fight fire w. fire and see a new person in him emerge, lol. He thinks he's got you where he wants you. Time to open up a can of whoop a**!! Good luck buddy!
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