I fancy my sister...
Q. Iam 15 and but I fancy my 22 year old sister. I find her so sexy and want to have sex with her. What is wrong with me?...
A. 22 October 2007: Pleeeaaaasssseee quit digging up this old chesnut.... (read in full...)
I'm going to list a dozen reasons I believe my partner is cheating... But is he?
Q. He says he loves me and never cheated on me. He gets upset when I ask, says I'm accusing. Yet we haven't made love for over a month. Has women friend and text messages them 15 and over times a day. Leaves late and says he has alot of work to do ...
A. 7 January 2006: You shouldn't waste any more time worrying about whether or not he is cheating...he sounds like a jerk anyway. Dump his sorry ass and start looking for a decent guy you can actually enjoy being around. Life is to short to waste on losers.... (read in full...)
Could I bring back a lost love with a love spell... or is that just a scam?
Q. I have a question about somehting a Lil bit different. I was doing a search for love advice and came across this one and another one that I have a question about. It was bring back a lost love by ordering a spell .Do you think these really work or ...
A. 5 January 2006: Scam. Don't part with your dough.... (read in full...)
How do I approach this girl I like? Should I do it now or wait until my acne and greasy hair and eye infections have gone? Please..advice needed.
Q. Hi, I'm 14 years old and I really have a crush on this girl at school, I can't stop thinking about her, she's really cute and pretty, and she has a great personality, she's kind, sweet, funny and intelligent. I try to be kind, friendly and funny to...
A. 5 January 2006: "Should I do it now or wait until my acne and greasy hair and eye infections have gone?" In a nutshell...YES ... (read in full...)
I think my 12 year old was masturbating. I feel I should be aware of this..so how do I ask her?
Q. I have a daughter who is over 12 yrs now and knows most everything about the human body, its functions, about sexual intercourse and has also started her periods. A few times, on my way to bed, when I go in to straighten her blanket (she rolls ...
A. 5 January 2006: Mind your own beeswax on this one Mom. It's not a problem so don't turn it into one.... (read in full...)
He touched me inappropriately, while I slept.I've told friends but they don't seem to care. Am I over-reacting?
Q. no one seems to of taken what happened to me seriously, i was touched up while i was asleep , i woke up to find him looking and touching, he didnt know id woken up, thought i was just stirring so he covered me back up but carried on stroking my ...
A. 5 January 2006: You've got lots more disturbing problems than just this midnight maurauder, my dear. Sounds like your entire life is totally out of control. Where are you sleeping, on the streets? What kind of jerk for a husband do you have anyways? Your best ... (read in full...)
Why do I hang onto so much bitterness in my heart for my husband's infidelity?. Help me understand
Q. I am a 42 years old and have been married 26 years. I got married at 16 and have only been with my husband. My husband was 20 when we got married and had been with other women. Back then, (hispanic culture) is what we did, get married and have ...
A. 5 January 2006: Well, well, well, you say you are 42 years old? You are acting more like a 14 year old. Stop all contact with your little MARRIED friend and focus on your own marriage. If you cannot see any possibility for happiness in your marriage then get a ... (read in full...)
I've just found out that my husband is seeing male prostitutes
Q. I am 24 and my husband is 27. I found out recently that my husband has been seeing male prostitutes. I feel so disgusted, I could vomit at the thought that he chose to break our marriage vows of 3 years in this way. We have a young son (wh...
A. 5 January 2006: Grab the kid and run, do not look back. Get a lwayer and soak him for all you can and get on with your life. Good luck to you, I'm sure you will find happiness.... (read in full...)
Is my married friend playing games with me?
Q. hope someone can answer this.for along time now i have been attracted to a married man and he told me that he felt the same for years as well.i know this is bad but last summer we went out for a drink,nothing happened as we both agreed it was stupid ...
A. 5 January 2006: Stop messing around with this guy immediately. There is nothing but hurt in store for you if you don't, not to mention for his wife and kids if he has them. You don't want to be any part of that! His behavior indicates his true character anyway and ... (read in full...)
After she told me she loves me, I found out my girl kissed two of my best friends...
Q. I tried to get over my girlfriend's past. I thought I did. I'm with her now, and I cry every night. She kissed 2 of my best friends on the lips in her past when she said she likes me. I feel sick and weak, I can't be with her. I love her and don't ...
A. 4 January 2006: You cry every night? What's up with that? You sound more miserable than anything else. You said you can't be with her so don't be. Go find someone that makes you feel good not bad.... (read in full...)
My husband cheated twice this last summer, but thinks I should be over it by now!
Q. I found out a few months ago that my husband of over a year cheated on me at least twice over the summer. I had moved out of our apartment but we sort of reconciled and he acted and talked as if we were back together. He went away on a trip and...
A. 4 January 2006: Dump the lying, cheating son of a bitch. You've wasted a year but don't waste anymore time on this marriage. He ill never change and you deserve better. Go find it!... (read in full...)
I have a baby face and look younger than I really am..I need tips on how to look older.
Q. This may seem like a odd question so don't take it too seriously. I am almost 19 years old and I look as though I am 16. I have a "baby face", and it sucks. Of course, this attracts the wrong type of guy, sorry but 15 year olds aren't my type. ...
A. 4 January 2006: Enjoy it dearie, this is a non-problem.... (read in full...)
My husband asked me if he can sleep with other people..I am horrified! But I'm wondering am I being a prude?
Q. my husband asked me this week if he can sleep with other people and would i mind as our sex life has gone flat. we have been married for six years and together for eight. i was horrified now i wonder if im just being a prude? am i?...
A. 4 January 2006: Of course you are not being a prude. Ask your husband if he remembers the "forsaking all others" part in his wedding vows. Sheesh! He may not really want to sleep around but wanted to give you a serious heads up to the situation (no pun intended). ... (read in full...)
My husband seems to think I should just "get over" his infidelity because he said Sorry!
Q. I discovered my husband had an affair one year ago. We are still together but he treats me so badly. He is constantly nasty- and emotionally abusive. Everything is my fault and I am rubbish. Everything I read says how "sorry men are and how they beg...
A. 4 January 2006: Why is he behaving like this? I'll tell you why...because he's a first-class asshole and he knows you'll put up with this behavior. Kick the jerk out and start the divorce proceedings. You'll be much happier in the long run. This leopard isn't going ... (read in full...)
I want to trust her with her internet friend but I'm not sure I can...help!
Q. My wife has met a male friend on the internet. She says it is all very inoccent and they are just friends. In Jun05 when I found out she told me she had been chatting with him for 6 months. I asked her to stop all contact with him and she said she ...
A. 3 January 2006: You should start preparing yourself for the worst I'm afraid. She is not respecting your wishes that you have made abundantly clear. Tell her "It's this way or the highway" and if she doesn't stop this nonsense then give her the boot and move on. ... (read in full...)
He's not a man of his word but I love him and we are to be married! Help
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I have a fiance that simply doesn't do what he says he will do. Everything from huge issues like getting a job to small things like coming in for supper. We are supposed to be getting married this year, and I'm scared. He ...
A. 3 January 2006: You do not want to marry this guy until you get all this sorted out. It will not sort itself and quite honestly the guy sounds like a jerk. You need to have a clear path when you start a marriage.... (read in full...)
For our 16th anniversary, he took me to Home Depot! How do I get this man to romance me more?
Q. I am 39 yrs old married for 16 yrs with three children. I am tired of being married and taken for granted. For our 10 yr anniversary I said how I would like to renew our vows in a church since we didn't get married in a church. Hubby states, he ...
A. 3 January 2006: You didn't say wheter he EVER was romantic. If he never was to begin with, then he simply may not know how to be. You may have to encourage him starting with small things. Give him a radient smile or hug whenever he does or says anything REMOTELY ... (read in full...)
I pay his cell phone bill and he uses it to phone other women!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 yrs. Really started off strange but we're still together or should I say I am still together. Newest problem comes in, I pay his cell phone bill because one, it's in my name. But I recently found ...
A. 1 January 2006: Yep he's Freddie the Freeloader all right. Drop him like a hot potato chickie. You've wasted too much time on the creap already. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I've never really had a boyfriend, and I don't understand it... I think I'm friendly and have a lot to offer!
Q. I am a 23 year old female who hasn't had a proper boyfriend. I hear things like 'people can't love you until you learn to love yourself' and similar things, but I do love myself and feel I have a lot to offer and a lot of love to give. I go to cl...
A. 28 December 2005: Sounds like you are doing everything right to me. It's just a matter of time, you know...right place right time. It'll happen for you.... (read in full...)
I don't love my wife any more and now I'm interested in someone else...
Q. I am a married man of the age of 21, been married for about 2 years and have never cheated on my wife, or done anything ridculous. I haven't loved my wife for so long and just am fed up with her but I feel like I'm falling for someone else I have ...
A. 25 December 2005: What does "My marriage was kinda arranged" mean? If you didn't want to marry this woman, then you shouldn't have. I don't care what culture you come from, marriage should be between two people that love only each other and want to spend the rest of ... (read in full...)
Guys: is it better for a woman to look like a porn star?
Q. Question for guys Do men find the bodies of women in porn superior to those of their girlfriend/wife? I'm not talking about the feelings or warmth etc, just the way we look. Honest answers please...
A. 25 December 2005: MY MY much ado about one of the stupidest questions ever to appear in this column! ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that my boyfriend would go out with someone else for a week, with a plan to drop her after that week?
Q. I have this boyfriend and he loves me so much and I love him also. One day he called me up and told me that this other girl was after him and he said that he would go out with her for a week then dump her. I asked him if he still likes her and he ...
A. 25 December 2005: I've got some swamp land to sell. Or maybe you'd like to the the Brooklyn Bridge instead? You shouldn't be worried about him, no indeedy do, YOU SHOULD DUMP HIM and walk away. Look for a guy who respects you, this guy is a CAD.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's been acting weird and abusive, then announced she's pregnant... but it's not mine!
Q. Hi all, I am a guy who is experiencing a terrible time in my life right now. My 'girlfriend' and I have been having problems as of late. Basically here is what is going on. The girlfriend and I fell into bliss love and sex and have been...
A. 25 December 2005: Not knowing your location...I can only suggest Bellview.... (read in full...)
Am I asking too much of my partner to give me more compliments... Is it right to ask him to change?
Q. Hi everyone, I have an otherwise good relationship with my partner. We have been together for two years and living together for 18 months of that. He says he loves me and I believe that he does, but he is not very good at articulating his...
A. 21 December 2005: Some really good ideas here from the Aunts. Just keep reminding yourself that ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. Good luck!... (read in full...)
No sex with my husband and now I've met another guy who has a girlfriend!
Q. Married 27 years separate bedrooms sexless for 12 years - husband never gave me a reason why. Stayed because of son. Recently met another guy who has fallen for me and I'm falling for him. He's got a gf but some problems there. He gave me a hug and ...
A. 21 December 2005: No bitterness here just no respect for whiners who cheat on their spouses.... (read in full...)
How do I find out for certain that he likes me?
Q. Hello, its me again, thank you all for your time in answering my questions by the way, it means alot. I know that i keep on about this but its really bugging me. I love flirting with him and when he looks at me i get butterflies in my stomach an...
A. 21 December 2005: You are boring the hell out of me. You've gotten a tons of answers and suggestions. Why don't you starting writing in a journal or something.... (read in full...)
He loves me and his ex gf.. but now he's confused and he's not sure what he wants.
Q. I'm in love with a man that's in love with me and another woman from his past. He says that he's confused and he's not sure what he wants. He loves me but he loves her to. This has been going on for about 2 months. About 2wks ago he told me that he ...
A. 19 December 2005: Tell Mr. Confusion to let you know when he's made his decision but get on with your life. I'm not real optimistic about the future with this guy anyway. Start meeting people and staying busy to help keep your mind off him. If he decides in your ... (read in full...)
No sex with my husband and now I've met another guy who has a girlfriend!
Q. Married 27 years separate bedrooms sexless for 12 years - husband never gave me a reason why. Stayed because of son. Recently met another guy who has fallen for me and I'm falling for him. He's got a gf but some problems there. He gave me a hug and ...
A. 19 December 2005: You know why I'm not in a situation like yours? Because I love and respect my husband, I meant MY wedding vows.... (read in full...)
Is there really such a thing as "Love At First Sight"?
Q. I'm 32 and divorced and in a relationship but.....a guy I met a few weeks into my new relationship keeps popping up in my life. I'm sad to say that I have cheated with this guy twice in the last few months and then we called it off. However in the ...
A. 19 December 2005: Good God Woman take a breath. Sheesh... slow down and think. You really just need time to think things out..what's the rush?... (read in full...)
No sex with my husband and now I've met another guy who has a girlfriend!
Q. Married 27 years separate bedrooms sexless for 12 years - husband never gave me a reason why. Stayed because of son. Recently met another guy who has fallen for me and I'm falling for him. He's got a gf but some problems there. He gave me a hug and ...
A. 19 December 2005: you are so full of shit. 27 years?!!! whoa you must think we were born yesterday. LOSER... (read in full...)
I fancy my sister...
Q. Iam 15 and but I fancy my 22 year old sister. I find her so sexy and want to have sex with her. What is wrong with me?...
A. 19 December 2005: you aunts are suckering for this...he plays this column all the time. IGNORE... (read in full...)
I fancy my sister...
Q. Iam 15 and but I fancy my 22 year old sister. I find her so sexy and want to have sex with her. What is wrong with me?...
A. 19 December 2005: you aunts are suckering for this...he plays this column all the time. IGNORE... (read in full...)
I fancy my sister...
Q. Iam 15 and but I fancy my 22 year old sister. I find her so sexy and want to have sex with her. What is wrong with me?...
A. 19 December 2005: you aunts are suckering for this...he plays this column all the time. IGNORE... (read in full...)
Paranoid that my Internet lover will turn up and reveal all to my husband
Q. this is a really odd question but its really starting to worry me. i have been married for 4 years now and its been up and down most of the time. during one of these down times i met somebody over the internet. we have only ever met twice and chat ...
A. 18 December 2005: You deserve your paranoia. Stay a away from the internet until you can act like an adult.... (read in full...)
My husband tells me he loves me and doesn't want a divorce... but he won't leave his girlfriend!
Q. My husband and I have been separated for nearly 3 months now and despite all that has happened (he cheated and became very nasty) I am still in love with him, miss him and care very much for him. Over the time we have been getting closer again, b...
A. 18 December 2005: I'm afraid you are wasting you time on this marriage. The real tragedy here is that you still care for this scumbag. Proceed with the divorce knowing that you have honor and can hold your head up whereas he looks like the fool that he is. You should ... (read in full...)
I don't see my girlfriend apart from at work!
Q. Ok, here goes... my girlfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months. I hardly see her out side work because she has fibromyagia and this time of year isn't nice to her. Still she doesn't call, visit or write. The only time I see or here from ...
A. 18 December 2005: Buddy that's a friend not a girlfriend girlfriend. Obviously you want and need more. I suggest you have a talk with her and find out if she is interested in taking the realtionship a step farther. If not, you still have a friend and should start ... (read in full...)
I'm 37 years old and worried I will never meet the right person. Any good advice?
Q. I split up with my boyfriend of 9 years about 6 months ago. Since then I got involved with someone I have known for over 7 years, but ended up getting hurt badly after 4 months. I am 37 years old and worried that I am never going to meet the righ...
A. 17 December 2005: You can't find Mr. Right if you don't get out there and start looking. Clubs, parties, classes, any thing to get high visability. Quit whining and get moving! You'll find him.... (read in full...)
I just want a quiet drink at the pub, but my fella wants to talk off the ear of the barmaid!
Q. Hi there, Can anyone help me with this problem? I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. The trouble is that whenever we go out for a drink he always strikes up a long conversation with the barmaid and it could be in any pub. Now don’t...
A. 17 December 2005: I'd get involved in those conversations from now on, actively participate. If he's doing this to embarass you by leaving you left out then that will solve it. Also simply may the resolve NOT to let yourself be jealous and show him. If he's playing a ... (read in full...)
She's just too tight and it's a strain on my penis!
Q. My girlfriend's vagina is really tight. I have an uncircumsized penis and every time we have sex, it kills me because my skin gets pulled back and actually stays like that. I have to pull out and fix it, it gets annoying. We don't want to use a co...
A. 17 December 2005: Yes, use a condom and a lubricant. I recommend 10 W 30.... (read in full...)
Our breakup lasted just long enough for him to be turned down by someone else! Do I give him another chance?
Q. My boyfriend just broke up with me and asked someone else out, then dumped her within a day and asked me back out by note. Should I say 'yes' and go back out with him or should I say 'no' and not go back out with him?...
A. 17 December 2005: Go out with him if you want to, sheesh what's the problem?... (read in full...)
Is it just my boyfriend's stepmom who's getting in the way of our living together?
Q. My boyfriend and I are supposed to move in together, but I haven't heard from him in 10 days. Then I heard that he was leaving the house, he was living in with his stepmom. They keep telling me he doesn't love me, but when I talk to him he tells me...
A. 17 December 2005: I wouldn't be in such a hurry to move in together. 10 days is a long time to not hear from a boyfriend especially since you have no explanation for it. I'd have a heart to heart with the guy, it sounds like you have a lot of ground to cover with ... (read in full...)
It looks like we like each other, but how do we make that next step?
Q. Dear Cupid, I need some advice. I think this happens to everyone but I'm not sure how others go about it. There is a beautiful lady that I see almost every day at a local coffee shop. I've gotten to where we say hi and wave. She smiles when she ...
A. 17 December 2005: Yep, you need to get her talking. First you have to find out if she is available. Then ask her to join you for coffee somewhere and talk some more. You may be on the verge of finding the love of your life or maybe just a new friend but either way ... (read in full...)
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