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writes: hi is it ok that a married female writes my hubby that he needs to drive tonight and that she misses him ? they not friends but she heard that me an my hubby have some issues so what should i think? I do trust my hubby but asking me what was she thinking to do that? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007): I think she has homed in on the fact that you have issues within your marriage and is hoping to et her claws in.
Whether it is ok would really depend on how you feel about it....by posting here I'm guessing you are not that chuft. It would be unacceptable within my relationship and my partner knows and understands that. I think you need to make your words heard. x
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reader, stina  +, writes (22 October 2007):
 Hi Anonymous,
She said she misses him and you go on to say that they're not friends. That's weird.
Since you say that you trust your husband, I'm just going to assume things are being worked out between you two and this woman is just very pushy and ill-mannered.
I think that two things could happen here:
1. He tells her to stop with the texts because it's totally out of line and disrespectful.
2. He needs to tell her that he'll come to visit her... and then bring you along, too. There should be no problem if her feelings are strictly platonic - and it will send the message across that your husband doesn't plan on being a cheater loud and clear.
Take care.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 October 2007):
 Of course it's not okay for a woman, married makes it worse, to be sending your husband this type of message. Time to sit hubby down for a very long chat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007): She misses him, sounds to me like she is inlove with him. Where is he driving tonight ?? I did not understand that part. Somebody is inlove with him, and you have to find out whether he is inlove with her too. something is fisy here, do some investigating and find out what's going on.Answer to your quesstion, No a woman should not be sending him messages like she is missing him. Why is she missing him ? she is inlove with your husband.
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