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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   27 March 2009: I love happy endings! Best wishes on your new relationship, Lord knows you deserve it after all you've been through! You are going to stay with us too I hope.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   12 August 2008: Congrats on finally getting the divorce from that louse. And you are exactly right, payback is going to be a bitch for him. Karma hates assholes like him. Your trust will return and happiness is right around the corner for you. You are a lovely ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 July 2008: Well I certainly liked the last part of your update! Enjoy the positive attention, you definitely are deserving after the dickhead.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   2 June 2008: Sarcy, be very careful if you decide to check out his involvement with his lawyer. You don't want to be charged with stalking. However the aunts are right IF he is involved with her, and you can prove it, you'll be sitting in the catbird seat. As ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   17 April 2008: If you haven't turned your son against his father (and by your posts,you haven't)then I don't see why you would be terrified. The judge has dealt with young children before so he/she knows how to talk to them in order to understand how they really ... (read in full...)

Site News: We hit another milestone :-)

Q.   For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...

A.   15 February 2008: I know someone who should visit this site, the clerk at my drug store. Asked where the BPs were so I could put one on my mantle and he gave me a bag of cotton balls and some vaseline. See before last week I would have figured he knew what he was ... (read in full...)

Site News: We hit another milestone :-)

Q.   For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...

A.   14 February 2008: All I know is I'm sticking around on this great site just to get more edjamacation! We give as well as receive.... (read in full...)

My BF wakes up with an erection. What's up with that?

Q.   My b/f sometimes wakes up with a huge erection but insists that he's "not in the mood" for sex and though it puts me in the mood, I really can't get him interested so we just end up cuddling and talking and eventually his erection goes away. But I ...

A.   13 February 2008: It's what my husband so delicately refers to as a "piss hard-on". I remember how shock I was to see one on my son once he was out of diapers. ... (read in full...)

Site News: We hit another milestone :-)

Q.   For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...

A.   13 February 2008: Yep this a great site! I'm been here for ages and I'm always learning new things...like the other day I learned about butt plugs! Not sure if I NEEDED to know about butt plugs but I'll be ready next time they come up in conversation.... (read in full...)

Why does he hide things from me?

Q.   Hi my problem is my husband. He views porn sometimes (behind my back) i find out, usually by hotel receipts etc. I have said to him that i'm not bothered about him viewing porn (i would rather he was in a hotel room doing that, than out doing ...

A.   13 February 2008: My guess is guilt or maybe the thrill of thinking he's getting away with something. Just a guess.... (read in full...)

My feelings died for him, will they come back?

Q.   Hi all, Please, I need some advice. I have been in a relationship for 12 years, and am now 28. It has been a mistake from the start, but I did love him. He has spent alot of time critisizing me, bad mouthing my family friends, my ways, and tryi...

A.   13 February 2008: No I don't think the feelings will come back. He is still trying to manipulate and control you through guilt. Get rid, you'll be far happier. Don't waste anymore time on him.... (read in full...)

My ex doesn't want to be friends, but I do.

Q.   Well, me and my ex split about 3 months ago now and he in another relationship(with a girl who lives half way around the world.) I've just started seeing someone also. Though we are taking it very slow, I can't help but compare it to my previous ...

A.   13 February 2008: You can't be friends with someone who is not interested. Focus on yourself and your new boyfriend. Of course you compare them to each other, that's how you find all the traits in a guy that are important to you and all the ones that aren't. Helps to ... (read in full...)

He was flirty... I got flirty.. Then his wife found out and got mad!

Q.   Well here goes: This guy at work flirted with me touching and making comments. examples asked if I was wearing a thong or a bra and touched my ankle and even bumped into me with his front on my butt. He is very mean to me in front of others and ...

A.   13 February 2008: If you can't control yourself maybe you should look for another job. Love your family.... (read in full...)

What did this guy I like mean, saying if he was drunk, he wouldn't be able to help himself?

Q.   Last nite went to my local pub with a friend and her bf and his m8 who ive only met twice, anyway cut a long story short i really like this guy although his just split with his long term gf,ive been told by my mates bf that im his type of girl and ...

A.   13 February 2008: I don't know about you but if a guy has to be drunk to get interested in me then he can shove off.... (read in full...)

Work mate said he wanted me, but he is married! HELP!

Q.   Dear Aunts... Well i have a little problem.. I have been seeing some one from work! We havent actually done anything and i dont know what he wants.. It started like this.. A couple of weeks ago i was out in town with a friend and we seen some people ...

A.   13 February 2008: You should walk away and you know it.... (read in full...)

My relationship, its end, and the 7 months of confusion and hurt... that made me stronger.

Q.   Hello everybody, this is Andy00. And to all fans who like long articles, this one is a treat for you... Unfortunately, it's a true story. I have been on this site for about 7 months now. I have posted many, many questions over time, but...

A.   12 February 2008: I can see a huge improvement since last summer. You DO sound stronger to me but she was your first real love so I guess 7-8 months is definitely reasonable recovery time. I remember my first love very clearly and with great fondness, you don't ever ... (read in full...)

Could I go to prison for having sex with my girlfriend? She's 15.

Q.   I have got a 15 year old girlfriend and I'm 16. I love her to bits and me and her both want to take our relationship to sexual intercourse but I have heard about being put in prison? Is this true? If so how likely is it? I have neices, will I be ...

A.   12 February 2008: Wait it's not worth the risk.... (read in full...)

My daughter is getting married and moving far away-how do I let go?

Q.   My daughter is 24 yrs old and has lived at home all her life. I'm her dad btw. We live in Austin and after she gets married she's moving to London because her fiancee got a job there. I keep on hearing and reading things like I'm going to be ...

A.   12 February 2008: "A son a son till he takes a wife, a daughter's a daughter all her life." You'll be just fine, Dad. We all go through it and trust me, she'll stay in constant contact, especially once she starts her family. Then a mircle happens, your IQ shoots w... (read in full...)

Do I give up my dream degree to be there with him?

Q.   hi guys, I have a huge problem and I need some help!! I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for over a year and it's been absolutely amazing. In 2007, I studied at boarding school in Melbourne and my boyfriend went to an ...

A.   12 February 2008: I think you should go with your dreams. If you give them up for your boyfriend you might eventually begin to resent him for it. If your love is strong enough you guys will be able to keep the relationship going and then meet up at the end of your ... (read in full...)

Is my partner getting bored of sex with just one woman?

Q.   Sometimes my b/f just can't get an erection and I worry that over time, this problem will become much worse. He is on high b/p pills but in the 3 yrs. we've been together it's never caused a problem for him sexually. But we've been together now ...

A.   12 February 2008: High blood pressure medications can cause ED so I'd say he needs to talk to his doctor there are medications that correct this problem. Then you go buy some sexy lingerie. ... (read in full...)

My relationship, its end, and the 7 months of confusion and hurt... that made me stronger.

Q.   Hello everybody, this is Andy00. And to all fans who like long articles, this one is a treat for you... Unfortunately, it's a true story. I have been on this site for about 7 months now. I have posted many, many questions over time, but...

A.   12 February 2008: Aww Andy, as I've told you before a sweetheart such as you will not be alone for very long. There's a girl out there who will grab you up and become the love of your life. You'll find each other, I'm positive.... (read in full...)

My teacher tried to kiss me and I walked away....what should I do??

Q.   Omg! What do i do?? Im really worried. I really like this teacher at my school and he shouted at me for no reason then told me just to wait behind after the bell, which i did. So i waited and waited around after the bell then he came out and sho...

A.   12 February 2008: If all this is true AND you are so terribly upset...how come you didn't file a complaint against this teacher like you stated you were going to do in your previous response?... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a co-worker. How to go about it?

Q.   i m in love with my co-worker,the problem is i m married and he got kids,,please help!!!!...

A.   12 February 2008: Please help with what? You are married and he's got kids...end of story.... (read in full...)

He seems to hate my daughter. What do I do?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years. I have two daughters. One is ours and the other is mine from a previous boyfriend. I am starting to sense that he does not like her very much. We are always fighting about it. He calls ...

A.   11 February 2008: Make him leave and make him pay you child support for his daughter.... (read in full...)

I can't let this man go now he has awoken so much in me...what can we do??

Q.   I have been married 9 years and have 2 children. I fell out of love with my husband long ago. I met someone else 6 months ago and he awoke something in me i didnt know i had anymore. I haven't slept with my husband in 3 years. I have kissed a...

A.   11 February 2008: If this is true love then it can sit on the back burner until you have your life straighten out, you've got kids to think about here. If he truly loves you and you truly love him then what difference does a few months make? There are priorities ... (read in full...)

I touch myself alot...would a guy be able to tell??

Q.   Um, I'm just worried, I touch myself quite a lot and I know that's not really a bad thing, is it? But I just wondered, I'm a virgin but when I have sex for the first time will the guy be able to tell that I touched myself?...

A.   11 February 2008: I don't think you have a firm enough grasp of human reproduction to be considering having sex just yet. You need to read up on the matter. Once informed you will know that there is no way a man could ever tell if a woman has ever masturbated or ... (read in full...)

He seems to hate my daughter. What do I do?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years. I have two daughters. One is ours and the other is mine from a previous boyfriend. I am starting to sense that he does not like her very much. We are always fighting about it. He calls ...

A.   11 February 2008: He will always feel the way he does towards your daughter. He will always cause her hurt. He's an asshole today and he'll be one tommorow. Of course you should show him the door, immediately if not sooner.... (read in full...)

I care too much for him but at the same time I want my family's approval, only that my parents disapprove of my bf! Please advise.

Q.   Please, I really need some advice on this topic I am 21 years old and come from a pretty traditional Italian family. I live at home since I am finishing up my degree. Recently I started dating this guy from work and am crazy about him! He ma...

A.   11 February 2008: As soon as you possibly can arrange it, get your own place. Once you no longer live under your parent's roof, you can do whatever you want. As long as you live with them and they provide for you, they can set the rules. Sometimes the child has to ... (read in full...)

Caught my son masturbating, should I buy him some condoms, sextoys and an informative book?

Q.   just rececetly i caught my 13 year old son masturbating naked on top of his bed i saw his penis and pubes, this hasnt effected our relationship but i was wondering if i should buy him some condoms and other stuff like a masturbation and sex book or ...

A.   11 February 2008: This is the young man who wants his mother to buy him a butt plug, he posted a couple of days ago.... (read in full...)

He says I'm forcing him to marry me

Q.   He says that i am forcing him to marry me. These are the words of a very strong man....

A.   11 February 2008: Strong man indeed. How on earth in this day and age can you FORCE someone to marry? You live in good ole USA, for crying out loud and why would you even want to marry this guy anyway?... (read in full...)

I can't let this man go now he has awoken so much in me...what can we do??

Q.   I have been married 9 years and have 2 children. I fell out of love with my husband long ago. I met someone else 6 months ago and he awoke something in me i didnt know i had anymore. I haven't slept with my husband in 3 years. I have kissed a...

A.   11 February 2008: Sounds like both of you need to back off, at least until you get your lives sorted out. There will be plenty of time after the dust settles from your divorce as well as his to get a proper relationship going. Once you and your children have settled ... (read in full...)

How faithful are men really?

Q.   this is 1 for the guys can a lepord really change its spots ? my bf has cheated and sent flirty messages to toher girls and met up with girls behind my back will he change like he says he will do or will this carrie on ? from a mans point of view i ...

A.   11 February 2008: I think at your age asking for a full on commitment is pretty unrealistic. I think it's very important to date around, that is really the only way you can find the traits you like or dislike in a future partner, one that WILL be committed to you and ... (read in full...)

I feel like a "Homewrecker" should I tell his wife?

Q.   Firstly I want everyone to know that this wasn't planned it just happened. I'm a uni student and to make some extra cash I began babysitting for a local couple. They're a great family but the father, who is 28, I was told was a bit of a player. ...

A.   11 February 2008: I agree with Midge, tell them you have to quit sitting for them but do not tell the wife about your slip up. She probably already knows what a cad her husband is and will deal with it in her own fashion and in her own time. Good luck and be very ... (read in full...)

Is there any way to get pregant without having sex??

Q.   Is there anyway that you can get pregnant without having sex? I've heard you can get pregnant if you were suppose to be a twin cause there egg some how got inside of you is this true please help i really want to know........

A.   11 February 2008: I think you need to go to the library and study up on the entire reproductive system, female and male. Pay attention in your biology class as well, in the US you usually have biology in your sophomore year. MY question is whether this question comes ... (read in full...)

She's really upset, what do I do?

Q.   alright i have a big problem i am moving away from my school to a whole other town separating me and my girlfrend and shes really upset what do i do help...

A.   8 February 2008: You can stay in touch by calling and emailing, and maybe your folks will take you for an occasional visit. Otherwise there isn't much you can do, she'll be sad for awhile but you'll be surprised how fast both of you adjust to this move.... (read in full...)

Is marrying my bf the right thing to do??

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years... he's Turkish... I'm going to his country to marry him in March... am i doing the right thing?...

A.   8 February 2008: If you have to ask then the answer is no.... (read in full...)

13 and in want of sexual toys - how to buy one/ask my parents?

Q.   im 13 and i want some condoms and sexual stuff like that how should i ask my mum to get me some orhow do i get some??? [Added] im 13 and want to get a butt plug becasue im sexually active i dont no how to ask my parents im to embarassed i rea...

A.   8 February 2008: Eat lots and lots of cheese and you can make your very own butt plug.... (read in full...)

How do I walk away from someone I love so much?

Q.   hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. the thing is i no he's not happy where he is. i no he's not. if you read my f...

A.   8 February 2008: I think you should love YOURSELF more and take your life to a higher ground. You will always be sloopy seconds, I'd find a better love who will put me first if I were in your shoes.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   8 February 2008: Sarcy,I think you need to get some counseling, I don't feel you will be able to pull out of this spiral by yourself. Do it for your son's sake.... (read in full...)

Trying to conceive, how can I have triplets?

Q.   Hey guys, Im 26 years old and trying to conceive. my absolute dream would be to have triplets. Im just wondering whether any has any advice or tips on how to conceive triplets? Thanks you all so much...

A.   8 February 2008: You will need to consult with a fertility specialist, and bring the checkbook. ... (read in full...)

How do I confront him? He's looking for other girls on net!

Q.   Hi there, I am 23 years old and in a loving relationship...or so i thought. I have just come back from a week away at work and logged onto my computer at home to check my emails. I have found out that my boyfriend has been looking at escorts on the ...

A.   8 February 2008: I agree with the other aunts who said you need to ask him why he googled your friend. There could be a very logical reason (Is your birthday coming up?) or he's going to turn red in the face. Either way I think you need to know what's going on.... (read in full...)

I fantisize about other women and cant seem to have sex with my wife. How can I change this?

Q.   I'm married, happily, and love my wife, but our sex life has fallen off, and I find that when I fantasize about sex it's not with her, and then when we get a chance to make love, I get ED troubles. How can I bring my fantasy sex life more to do ...

A.   7 February 2008: Is your "fantasy sex" due to watching alot of porn? If so, stop looking at it, completely stop. Then practice concentrating on your lovely wife. You also might want to speak to your doctor and see if your ED troubles might be addressed through ... (read in full...)

My mother-in-law hinted she wanted to sleep with me, I always had this phantasy so what should I do?

Q.   Me and my wife have been married for two months. Well her mom and dad just got a divorce. My wife has always told her mom her sex stories. I brought my baby over to her moms house and she was hinting around that she wanted to sleep with me. She said ...

A.   7 February 2008: Jeeze louise man, I certainly hope you really already know the answer to this question.... (read in full...)

How do I stop his porn addiction?

Q.   My boyfriend is still watching porn daily, and I can't stand this horrible feeling that I have. I've asked this before, but I'm not satisfied with any answers or results. How should I get him to stop watching porn? He wants to marry me and i want to ...

A.   6 February 2008: YOU can't stop his addition. You have two choices, either you accept it or you move on.... (read in full...)

If I'm not bulimica then what I'm I?

Q.   So for the past 2 years or so I have noticed that my ways of eating have changed. Everytime I eat about 5 mins. later i throw it up. I dont make myself do it or anything, it just happens. Ive told my mom about this before, but she says im fine, and ...

A.   6 February 2008: If your mom won't take you to the doctor go to your school nurse and talk to her about this. It is definitely not something you should put on the back burner. You need to have medical attention.... (read in full...)

I have fallen for my form tutor

Q.   I am in a horrible mess. iv already fallen for one teacher and now im falling for my form tutor. hes like 41 ands im 15. BIG diffrence. he is married with 3 kids. The thing i dont get thou is, he flirts with me and like always seems to touch me...

A.   5 February 2008: We get a gazillion postings from teens who have crushes on their teachers. What do you do? Not a blamed thing my dear. Just ride it it out, it will pass. Trust me, he is not interested in you THAT way.... (read in full...)

I'm 17 & he's 43, is that legal?

Q.   im nearly 17 and he is 43 weve been together nearly a year at first i lied about my age but now he knows the truth he still loves me , but is what were doing legal?...

A.   5 February 2008: Just what kind of a relationship do you have with this guy? Is it mostly sexual? Please give us more information. There are red flags flying all over the place on this one.... (read in full...)

I know he still loves me, so what are my chances?

Q.   My man broke up with me three weeks ago after dating for a year and a half. A month ago we were talking about getting married. Then it seemed like we started fighting over stupid things a lot. A lot!!!! So he is dating this other girl, who is ...

A.   5 February 2008: Are you positive you really want him back? Why were you afraid of commitment? I mean if you truly loved him you wouldn't have feared the commitment and pushed him away. I think maybe I would think long and hard about my reasons for wanting him back ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   28 January 2008: Sarcy I know you don't want to hear this but I think the total lack of communication is the best thing right now. Your last few conversations were all ending bad and accomplishing nothing. Relax and let things cool down for awhile. He's not really ... (read in full...)

My teacher tried to kiss me and I walked away....what should I do??

Q.   Omg! What do i do?? Im really worried. I really like this teacher at my school and he shouted at me for no reason then told me just to wait behind after the bell, which i did. So i waited and waited around after the bell then he came out and sho...

A.   24 January 2008: Humm, I think someone is just playing out a schoolgirl's fantasy here, the story sounds vaguely familiar. If this really did happen you won't have to deal him much longer because he's doing his best to sabotage a teaching career.... (read in full...)

How do I walk away from someone I love so much?

Q.   hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run. the thing is i no he's not happy where he is. i no he's not. if you read my f...

A.   15 January 2008: You know exactly where to go with this and what your future will be with this loser, you've been living it. You say you love him but it's all one sided, your side. If he truly loved you he would leave his wife for you, pure and simple. Dump the ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   13 November 2007: Yeaaaa Sarcy! You go girl! You've made it pass the really rough stuff now you are on the downside of the hill! I know you are off men at the moment but don't rule out the entire sex just because of one bad apple. There is a guy out there that will ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   9 August 2007: Why on earth you want to live this way is beyond me. I'd kick him out and move on I really don't understand how this could possibly be better. Your sone must feel the tension as well. Are you sure about this?... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   30 May 2007: Why are you not giving him a divorce? You should. You will get full custody if you can prove his excessive drinking. But he definitely should be able to see his son and so should the grandmother. You have to force yourself not to be vindictive and ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   26 April 2007: Well Babe you gave it your best shot, but it's beating a dead horse now. It's over.You already know that ime is your friend and each day will be a bit easier. Stay busy.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   9 March 2007: I think you are starting to think very clearly. And I couldn't agree more about his being a loser who will ultimately regret his decisions but be that as it may, YOU need to get on with your life. You are behaving admirably. Distance yourself as ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   6 March 2007: I'm going to have to really think on this for a bit. I'll get back to you.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   28 February 2007: It's so great to hear that he's feeling somewhat excluded from your life, you must be doing something right! Also I'm glad to hear that you can see humor in some of his shenanigans, he certainly is a piece of work. Hang in there babe, I think you ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   22 February 2007: I don't think he seems very happy and I don't mean just when he's around you I mean he seems rather depressed period. You'd think he'd be acting pretty perky if he was madly in love. Maybe he and the tramp don't have the greatest relationship after ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   22 February 2007: I glanced over this entire thread and I can tell you are on the mend. You've come a long way. You might have some bad days occassionally but I think you are doing better and better. Hugs.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   9 February 2007: I think you are getting better and better at handling this difficult situation. Practice makes perfect. Stay cool tomorrow and good luck, let us know how things turn out.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   2 February 2007: Well when you are face to face and he tells you something and you KNOW he's not telling you the truth, maybe you could say "really?" in a questioning sort of way so he has to repeat his lie (which will make him very uncomfortable). After he says it ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   1 February 2007: If it's any consolation to you, that woman will eventually bring him misery and vast unhappiness. She is without any morals or class and her true colors will sooner or later surface and he will most likely feel great regret. By that time you will ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   31 January 2007: You are doing a great job of working through this. I know how difficult it is but I think you are slowly making progress. Time is your best friend. Hang in there, Babe. Keep us posted.... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   4 January 2007: When he calls, be business like, cool, not overly friendly. Maybe you could say that you are expecting an important call any minute so the phone conversation shouldn't be too long. Or that you were just heading out to meet up with some friends...you ... (read in full...)

My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!

Q.   Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...

A.   3 January 2007: I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Your husband should of separated BEFORE he started seeing this homewrecker, what a cad. What you need now is a good therapist (make the husband fork over for it)and get rid of some of the bad feelings. He/she ... (read in full...)

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