Does masturbation change the shape of the vagina?
Q. 2 virgins, one masturbates and other doesnt is there any difference in their pussy shape?...
A. 25 February 2008: At your age you should know the answer to this. In case you've been kept in a closet all your live the answer is no.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he will dump me if I ever cut myself. Now I don't know if I want to be with him anymore. Help.
Q. My bf was recently telling me how a friend of his broke up with his gf because she was cutting herself. I was shocked that someone could break up with someone they are supposed to love when they need them so much. I was even more shock to hear my bf ...
A. 25 February 2008: Why are you worrying about something that hasn't happened and may never happen. Actions speak louder than words. If you hare happy in your relationship right now you shouldn't go borrowing trouble. If there is a crisis later on see how he reacts, ... (read in full...)
Midlife crisis---What are the differences for men...and women?
Q. What happens to guys vs. women when they go through the so called midlife crisis and at what age is it?...
A. 22 February 2008: Not everyone gets one and not everyone who does gets it at the same age. Some times I think it's just an excuse to do something really really stupid anyway. Like guys who dump the wife who has started to show her age around the corners for a newer ... (read in full...)
Old bf wants me back--what do I do?
Q. what should you do if an old boyfriend wants to get back with you ...
A. 22 February 2008: You think long and hard about why he is your EX boyfriend. Has anything changed?... (read in full...)
I'm secretly dating him, should I continue?
Q. I'm a 13yrd old girl who needs some peoples opinions. So I'm in grade 8 and a boy in my class likes me. He's 13 as well. I think he is very nice and all but I never realized he liked me until he asked me to the movies and he told me. He started ...
A. 22 February 2008: Hiding this from your Mom could come back and bite you in the butt. She trusts you at this point, do you want to lose that trust? Salad's group idea is an excellent one. Or you could have him come over to your house and meet your Mom. Maybe she ... (read in full...)
I have really bad flatulence. Does anybody know any cures? What should I do?
Q. Hi. Well I have a problem and this is not a joke even though it sounds funny. But for the past...I guess year, but especially for the past few months for sure, I always get gas everytime I eat. I have never had this before. I am trying to figure out ...
A. 22 February 2008: You need to discuss this with your doctor, it could be a food allergy or it could be a problem in your digestive tract. You need to get to bottom of this problem (no pun intended).... (read in full...)
This relationship puts a great financial strain on me. Should I continue being with her?
Q. My girl friend does not make her exhusband pay child support for his 2 kids (because he is a whiny baby) he does nothing for his kids only on christmas. When they come to his house for the weekend, he does not have food for them most of the time. ...
A. 22 February 2008: Your wife is way out of line by not demanding child support, especially when money is tight. Discuss the finances together and emphasize how easier it would be on the budget if you two were to get what is rightfully hers and the kids. What's a ... (read in full...)
Is this an okay gift for my sick grandma?
Q. Not really a love question I'm afraid but wanted advice anyways and thought this would be the best place. Mothers day is coming up and I'm planning to get my mum this book which is full of questions and thne it has space for her to answer them. ...
A. 22 February 2008: That is a lovely wonderful idea for gifts for both mom and grandma. What a treasured keepsake for you and your future kids! Brilliant!... (read in full...)
I tell my fiancee I love her but she does not say the same. How can I know if she loves me back?
Q. Two years ago i had a girl friend whom she really loved me Daily she could write "I Love You" but to me on knowing her background i decidded to break with her but she insisted that no matter what i do she will continue loving me, After that i switch...
A. 22 February 2008: Ask her.... (read in full...)
Should I tell him what she said or not??
Q. I was on myspace and one of my friends sent me a message that my boy friends ex had written saying that Corey (my bf) was telling her how he loved me but loved her more than me. But when I confronted him about it he just said his cousin was the one ...
A. 21 February 2008: ummm you are 26-29 years old? How come you are living your life like it is still high school?... (read in full...)
I have never been able to open up to anyone like I can my friend but don't think I am gay. What can I do??
Q. I am 24 and mormon.......I never have been attracted to women in any way. Over the past couple months I have begun hanging out with this girl who is also mormon. We had been casual friends for about a year but then found out we had tons in commo...
A. 21 February 2008: So you have a best friend you are very close to, I repeat Serinity, what's the problem? ... (read in full...)
Advice on meeting boyfriend's parents for the first time.
Q. I'm meeting my boyfriend's parents tonight, going over to their house for dinner...any advice? He is 33 and I am 41, so we're not kids, and I understand that his father can be somewhat of a bear, his mother as sweet as pie, very well off. ...
A. 21 February 2008: Just try to relax and be yourself, very nerve racking isn't no matter how old you are?!... (read in full...)
How to get birth controls?
Q. So, Sex? Its soo confusing, right? Well, sometimes I think Im ready but Im soo scared of the risks that come with it, especially pregnency, how would i get B-control? Any one have good suggestions...
A. 21 February 2008: Planned Parenthood will give you free birth control pills. Otherwise consult your doctor, they really aren't that expensive and boy howdy are they worth every penny!... (read in full...)
What is spooning and why do men and women enjoy it so much??
Q. I have a question about what the term spooning refirs to. How is spooning done? What information do you have about it? What is it about it that women tend to enjoy? What do men like about it? What aspects of spooning are equally enjoyable for men ...
A. 21 February 2008: But Spooning originally meant kissing, in my grandmother's day anyway.... (read in full...)
What are these spots on my nipples? Is this normal?
Q. Hi. My nipples are really pale and look almost as if there are small white spots under the skin which makes the nipples look almost white. Is this natrual? I've never noticed them before. Should I go see a doctor?...
A. 21 February 2008: Whenever someone asks whether they should see a doctor on this site, I always say yes. It will be the only way you will be able to stop worrying and relax. Make an appointment and get that relief, honey.... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my teacher has a crush on me?
Q. I won't go into details...but I think my teacher, who has a boyfriend (according to her), has a slight crush on me. Could anyone please list out tell tale signs of a teacher liking a pupil. I'm not trying to take this anywhere...I just wanna sl...
A. 21 February 2008: My guess is that you are misinterpreting things, most likely from wishful thinking. Perhaps you are the one with the crush?... (read in full...)
I'm 54 and need to know...how do women really feel about a guy with a beer belly?
Q. How do women feel about men with a medium size so called beer belly? Hard to get rid of and be a stud at 54? Does it really matter that much?...
A. 21 February 2008: My husband of 30+ years has acquired a round jolly belly. Just perfect for serberts (not sure how to spell this but I hope you know what I mean).... (read in full...)
I have invested so much emotionally and financially to this guy... turns out he is happily married with no plans of divorcing! What now?
Q. I had an affair with a married man for 1.5 years when his wife discovered the affair. She made him leave and because I knew how much his son meant to him, I helped him get set up in an apartment near his home and have paid for his rent for the last ...
A. 21 February 2008: The word "sucker" springs to my mind.... (read in full...)
I've been sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend, thing is... he doesn't know I'm her mother!
Q. I'm having a morale dilemma. I'm single mum of one (38) with a 20 year old daughter. I work with a really cute guy whose 25 and made a pass at me on a works night out. I felt flattered but turned him down as I am his boss. A few weeks on,...
A. 20 February 2008: "What should I do?" "Help!" Not on your tin-type Babycakes. ... (read in full...)
I am inviting even the persons I dislike as I wouldn't like to exclude them, but I fear they will ruin my party!
Q. It's my birthday next week! I'm excited, but i'm worried these girls are gonna ruin my party - I don't want to hurt my mum but the film we're gonno watch at the cinema looks crap (Underdog) has anyone heard of it, is it OK? This is my first party a...
A. 20 February 2008: Happy Birthday and you did the right thing by inviting everyone. Who knows you may end up having great fun with the girls you have disliked! Enjoy your party, the movie is pretty good too.... (read in full...)
Is it safe to take antibiotics when your on your period?
Q. I recently went to the doctor becasue I may have a bladder infection and I was told to take a urine sample about half and hour later. I came on my period and I have to take antibiotics. Is it safe to take antibiotics when your on your period?...
A. 20 February 2008: Absolutely.... (read in full...)
Trapped in a loveless marruage and I want to end it...but I can't leave my kids.
Q. Dear Readers, I have been in a loveless marriage with my wife for the past 11 years. Please don’t judge me, but there has never been any sort of love between us and therefore I have always cheated on her which she is fully aware of but doesn’t ...
A. 20 February 2008: I think that children pick up on the unhappiness of their parents and that can cause them to suffer. You and your wife don't appear to have a marriage at all and your children probably know it. They see their friend's parents kiss and hug and know ... (read in full...)
Has anybody else's children heard them during intercourse??
Q. During intercourse the other night our son (6) heard me having an orgasm because he asked me next day what the noise was. I said it was a dream. Anybody else had a similar experience?...
A. 20 February 2008: Once at age 5 my eldest child said to my husband, "I know what you and Mommy are doing in the bedroom at night." My husband dreading the worse (explaining sex to a 5 year old daughter) held his breath. Then she said, "Playing tag 'cause I can hear ... (read in full...)
Three times my age. Taboo or Not?
Q. I currently live with an woman who is three times my age, I am 19, she is 58. I rent a room from her while I go to a university nearby. I have lived there for a year and a half and we have been lovers since the summer of 2007. It's just too amazing. ...
A. 20 February 2008: "Ah Maggie I wish I'd never seen your face." I just love Rod Stewart. Also go rent the movie "Harold and Maude".... (read in full...)
Can you help me please?
Q. My boyfriend and I got into a fight a long time ago and I want to get back together with him but every time he looks at me he shakes his head from side to side. What do I do?...
A. 19 February 2008: If this fight was "a long time ago" it must have been when you guys were playing in the sandbox. Also I don't think his message could be any clearer forget about him and go play.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my bf I want a baby at 13?
Q. Ohkay.I am 13 years old.I have done everything with a guy.The first time though I didn't use protection hoping I would get pregnant.But I am dating this guy right and I really love him.I want to have a baby with him but how do I tell him?I am young ...
A. 18 February 2008: I hope you don't live in my state, we have enough women and children on welfare.... (read in full...)
Would it hurt if I told him he has a small one?
Q. would it hurt a mans pride to tell them they have a small penis? especially if they are already an insecure person....
A. 18 February 2008: The only REASON to say something like this to a guy would be to hurt and humiliate him. At your age you should know this already.... (read in full...)
I used to love clubs , now I'm dating a muslim and have changed, but will I regret this?
Q. i think i have a problem but i dont really no. me and my boyfreind have been together for almost a year and a half, i want to be with him for the rest of my life, he has changed my life so much for the better. heres the problem, before i met him...
A. 18 February 2008: I personally would suffocate in a muslim marriage. But if you truly have studied it and know how they view women and can accept it then fine for you. However it sounds from your post that you have some doubts. There should be no doubts whatsoever ... (read in full...)
I have 32 DD boobs and all the boys are turned on by them and i really like that, but i want them to touch them?
Q. I have 32 DD boobs and all the boys are turned on by them and i really like that, but i want them to touch them? what should i say?...
A. 15 February 2008: Ummm you are 22-25 years of age? And you want BOYS to touch your boobs? What's wrong with this picture? Sheesh.... (read in full...)
I slept with my boyfriend's best mate!
Q. Please help me, I slept with my boyfriend's best mate at a party at his house, I love my boyfriend very much but I think I'm in love with his best mate and I think about him a lot but I love my boyfriend to bits as well. My friends have told me I ...
A. 15 February 2008: This is exactly why I always recommend that people in your age group spend time dating around and not commit themselves to a relationship. It helps you identify the personality traits etc. that attract you. See if your boyfriend will allow you guys ... (read in full...)
Help from the Ladies - Why can't I get cleavage with a B-cup?
Q. I can't get cleavage even though I'm a B-cup! Okay, my left breast is full B and my right breast is about an inch smaller, a small B. Is this why I can't wear a bra or low cut blouse and get cleavage? I also have a fairly wide shoulder span...
A. 15 February 2008: Go to Walmart they have all kinds of bras and pads that will help you out.... (read in full...)
My husband loves his job more than his family and it's making me depressed. What are my options?
Q. I feel really depressed in my marriage. I think my husband likes his job more than anything. He does not care about me ,or his children. He is a robot. How can I convince him,or stay with him like that? He is getting totally burned out, I don't ...
A. 15 February 2008: Sounds like you two need to sit down and have nice long productive talk, to see where both of you are coming from and let each other know what you would like in the future. This would be a discussion not an argument, stay calm and don't be ... (read in full...)
Site News: We hit another milestone :-)
Q. For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...
A. 15 February 2008: I know someone who should visit this site, the clerk at my drug store. Asked where the BPs were so I could put one on my mantle and he gave me a bag of cotton balls and some vaseline. See before last week I would have figured he knew what he was ... (read in full...)
My girl slept with someone else while we were on a 'break' and I cant get over it
Q. Heres the deal, my girlfriend of 4yrs and I had a break that lasted a month during the summer, during which we saw other people. When we got back together, I asked her if she had slept with anyone, to which she replied no.Recently she told me that ...
A. 14 February 2008: There is nothing you do about this. You have three choices as I see it: 1. You can leave it in the past where it belongs because she didn't cheat on you, you mutually agreed to see other people. OR 2. You can break up with her because you can't do ... (read in full...)
Has anyone else ever experienced losing consciousness after orgasms?
Q. When I have an orgasm and predominantly when it is via masturbation, my experience may sound somewhat bizarre...but it gets really euphoric. When I climax I experience an almost dream-like state and I feel semi-conscious, I am not sure if I pass out ...
A. 14 February 2008: Happened to me once but that was because I rolled and knocked myself silly on the nightstand.... (read in full...)
Should I go out with my ugly friend or hold out for someone better looking?
Q. my good friend bought me a valentines card and asked me out. i think hes ugly and am a bit embarresed by him but hes also sweet, funny and likes me for who i am on the inside. should i go out with him or wait for my ideal boy who would have my level ...
A. 14 February 2008: I think you should wait for your ideal guy, and wait....and wait...and wait...... (read in full...)
My husbands best friend is also my best friend. There is no romance involved, but people are starting to talk and my husband is upset. What should I do?
Q. Ok, this is a strange situation so bear with me. My husband is currently deployed in Iraq. His best friend was deployed with him too, until the guy had a seizure and the doctors decided that he wasn't fit to be overseas. They flew him out rapidly so ...
A. 14 February 2008: I'd just tel him that you've found out that people are talking and you would feel awful it it got back to your husband in a distorted way so maybe he shouldn't come over as much. That way the onus is on the gossipy people and not on you. If he ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my wife but have homosexual tendencies and sometimes go to encounters of this type, it is destroying my life! Please help!
Q. I need big help...I'm in a wonderful married relationship with my wife of almost 2 years. I have always thought i was completely gay, but on at least 3 times in the past (the last time being my wife) i have fallen head over heels in love with women. ...
A. 14 February 2008: There is no difference between cheating on your wife with a woman or cheating on your wife with a man. The vow simply says forsaking All others. What if a straight guy who is married to a blonde decides he has "brunette tendencies" and needs to ... (read in full...)
I am in a lesbian love affair with my teacher, with complications. What can I do?
Q. I'm currently in a lesbian relationship with my teacher for 8 months (she's 29 and i'm 18) and im madly in love with her..... I know she's serious about me because she broke up with her bf of 2 years just to be with me. I love her deeply cos she's...
A. 14 February 2008: Surely you two can control yourselves for a few measly months? Look at what's at stake here, sheesh!... (read in full...)
Site News: We hit another milestone :-)
Q. For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...
A. 14 February 2008: All I know is I'm sticking around on this great site just to get more edjamacation! We give as well as receive.... (read in full...)
My BF wakes up with an erection. What's up with that?
Q. My b/f sometimes wakes up with a huge erection but insists that he's "not in the mood" for sex and though it puts me in the mood, I really can't get him interested so we just end up cuddling and talking and eventually his erection goes away. But I ...
A. 13 February 2008: It's what my husband so delicately refers to as a "piss hard-on". I remember how shock I was to see one on my son once he was out of diapers. ... (read in full...)
Site News: We hit another milestone :-)
Q. For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...
A. 13 February 2008: Yep this a great site! I'm been here for ages and I'm always learning new things...like the other day I learned about butt plugs! Not sure if I NEEDED to know about butt plugs but I'll be ready next time they come up in conversation.... (read in full...)
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