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*ommy2k7
writes:My last girlfriend said I was 'boring'. How can I make myself more attractive to women or I am I taking things to heart too much? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Only boring people get bored, Tommy.
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reader, stina +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Hello Tommy,
It may not necessarily mean that you are "boring," perhaps you were both interested in different things. To me, it just sounds like you may need to find someone who shares the same interests as you.
Don't worry - I think the majority of people have been in relationships that don't necessarily work out. That's the point of dating - to find someone who is a good match for you.
Let me ask you - if she thought you were boring, did you ever feel like you didn't care what she was talking about or were you ever just plain bored when she'd talk about things? It's just something I thought you should think about, you don't necessarily have to answer in an update or anything.
Anyway, I'm sure you'll find someone who is into the same things as you and doesn't think you're boring. That's what dating is all about, right?
Take care.
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (18 October 2007):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I suppose I don't know how to react properly around girls, probably cos I've only had one gf before this, and that didnt last long! I need some tips on how to keep a girl interested!
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reader, kenny +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Don't listen to what she said, she was trying to put you down, when in actual fact she was probably the boring one. Don't let it affect your next relationship, or go into the next one trying to be something your not. THe most important thing when entering a new relationship is that you stay who you are, and don't let negative comments from the past affect your future happiness.
All the best x
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reader, lisa21 +, writes (18 October 2007):
erm, this is a hard one as i have stopped being with someone because i thought they were boring, but looking back... i don't think it was the lad who bored me, i just don't think he was my type, now he has a girlfriend who he has been with for 9 months,
what i'm trying to say is maybe she just didn't have feelings for you anymore {sorry if it sounds harsh, nothing meant}and couldn't think of a decent reason to call it off.
do you think you are boring? if not don't worry. if yes when you meet someone, just do things out the blue, don't plan too much and hrow a few suprises in now and again, good luck x x x
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