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writes:I am just in a new relationship with a great guy , who is taking me to Paris next month which i am both excited and nervous about , you see i have come out of a bad relationship that lasted 6 years recently.i have a child with my ex and he keeps on insisting to see his child at my place which i have refused , after another late night phone call from my ex he came round to my house and i don't know why it happend but we ended up having sex. Now my question is it cheating if you're in a new relationship and that person or you havn't said that you love each other yet ?i have only been seeing my new boyfriend for about a month, and i know i do want to see where the relationship will go , but now ive made a mistake i don't think i will get that chance .
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 I think you already know the answer to your question , you are just guilty about it.
The last thing you do is tell your new bf you slept with your ex ( if that's what you are thinking might help alleviate the guilt ). If you do this you wont see him for dust.
You are just going to have to live with yourself cheating on your new bf and build from there. Promise yourself that you wont get into a situation where you have sex with your ex again. By the way, are you that weak that you couldnt say no to him? I only ask this as it could happen again and you will then have a much bigger problem on your hands.
Be strong, and good luck!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (23 October 2007):
 I would put the incident behind me and vow never to let it happen again. Enjoy Paris.
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