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writes:Hey.I'm just wondering if any of these signs lead to one of the teachers in my school fancying me...? He's about 8/9 years older than I am. It's just confusing me a little.Like everytime hes talking to another teacher and I'm walking down the corridor, he darts quick glances at me every two seconds. I don't have him as a teacher, so it's not something to do with my homework or anything. Everywhere he goes and I'm there at the same time, he's always staring at me. Even if we're standing in a room apart, he'll always keep looking at me, and when he covers our class, he'll pay more attention to me than anybody in the entire class, and when he's not doing that, he's sitting on his desk looking and making little smiles at me. Even if he's driving he'll look away and look at me instead. When I walk behind him he'll take numerous nervous glances over his shoulder. Amongst other things, but I don't want to make this question too long.I want to make it clear that I'm usually a logical person, and I reasoned every theory over in my head as to his behaviour, but I always get stuck on this one. I don't think he's nervous around all teenage girls, because I've looked at how he acts around them to how he acts around me, and it's very different. I'm not in his class, so it's nothing work-related, and I haven't given him any reason to think I like him, so it's not that either.Do you have any ideas? Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): He might have a little things for you but if he does its against the law and you should stay clear as he could loose his job but then again he might just think your a good student or hes getting worried your getting to attracted to him, my advice would be to advoid him and put some space between you. good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007): I have the exact same problem yet since all this stuff been happenin i fell in love with the teacher and I cant even talk to her anymore.
If you really like him pursue it if nt dont it may wreck your life. I tried to pursue it found out she did fancy me but couldnt do anything about it, now im in love with her n she doesnt even like me anymore=[.
dont mean to take over the question but do you think i should talk to her n try n make her remember the little things i loved about our relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007): well he does like you, this is not an unusal thing. if you like him pursue it. and if you don't tell him up front that you do not like his behavior around you. or if that dosen't work tell you school supervisor that always works. any thing that i can do to help, contact me [email address blocked] think about it, it is not an unusal thing in this word or socity for that matter.
later,
catie
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): Ok First of all a student and a teacher cant go out with eachother he will get fired from the school your in and I dont Know what would happen next maby You should flirt with him as in smile but make sure that other pupils and teachers dont see it Ok so the next time he stares at you what you do is stare back at him and Smile as in a flirty way Look Listen I hope I helped
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reader, unknown x +, writes (19 October 2007):
 To the anonymous female who left an answer calling this person a "silly little school girl", i suggest you learn how to spell correctly before you go accusing anybody else of being silly. I assume you meant to say 'infatuation', when actually you said "infactuation". Your grammar could do with some work too. If you have nothing helpful to say, i suggest you don't say anything. This girl's a similar age to me and is doing the sensible thing by asking. Before telling anybody else to get a life, ask yourself why you have nothing better to do but bring down the confidence of 13 - 15 year old girls on the internet.
As to the question, i've been in a similar situation and was told the same thing: take your mind off it with school work etc.
x mail me privately if you want to chat :).
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): Lets just face it he doesn't fancy you give up. you are a student and he is the teacher he would lose his jobs firstly and lose and respect that the community has for him. Dont ruin his life as well as yours obsessing about it. Just get on with your school work and try to pass. Hope this wasn't to harsh but its true. Its only an infactuation dont read into it. If people are saying your logical they need their heads examining you sound like the most unlogical, silly little school girl ever. Get a life!!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 October 2007):
 If you see him looking at you then he sees you looking at him. He's probably way nervous around you, young girls with crushes can spell trouble for teachers. I'm sure he isn't romantically interested.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): i think it he may fancy you but girl he's to old for you. You dont say on your comment if you have feelings for him. he also may just be looking out for you like a favorite pupil if you know what i mean.
and honey when he looks at you smie back.
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reader, ohwoesme +, writes (19 October 2007):
I agree with peoriaman, Your a young girl and it probably concern's him that maybe you fancy him. Get your mind off it..
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