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41-50,
anonymous
writes:How come I can't meet a man of my age with the same level of "inexperience"? I wouldn't mind if he is younger than me as long he is over 21. But I was raised not to take sex sightly and do it with people you are in love with. that doesn't seem the norm as all the men i have meet had one or more one night stands. i can't be with someone who doesn't think like me on this are the same values I would like to teach any future child I could have. Meaningless sex is self destruction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): Men like that do exist. The average number of partners for an American person is somewhere around half a dozen. That's for the lifetime, the numbers for people in the younger decades should be lower. The promiscuous people make the headlines but there are lots of other people who aren't like that.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (20 November 2010):
Hi there. Just go out with men, let them treat you with respect and treat you well.
Many young men and women try having sex, almost as soon as they can - out of curiosity. This is quite normal.
When you meet nice young men, say no to having sex until you can see that they are treating you properly and that you feel deeply towards each other.
There is no rush towards having sex straight away. Relationships can be much stronger if you build a good rapport between you first.
When the subject comes up (and it probably will before too long), then you will just have to say how you feel about it and be completely honest when you do.
Some men might not want to wait forever, but instinctively you will sort the good ones out from the not so good ones. You will know which ones you want to get to know more.
Only time will tell how you want it to go. Your heart will tell you when the time is right to go further with any relationship. It can't be rushed though.
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