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26-29,
anonymous
writes:ok,I'm 14 years old and I've never had a boyfriend so I dont know how those things work.We move a lot so I go to this new school now and there is a new guy in our grade hes from Russia(his name is Armen he came one day before i did)and I really like him,he is just like me only in pants(we listen to the same music,we're both talented artists,we even dress alike),so we have been flirting since the first day, and I thought he likes me too,so one day he asked me to sit next to him and he showed me all the stuff he did in Russia with his friends on his phone ,then he asked me if i like any of guys in school..then i asked him why he's asking he said just for personal information,i answered that i do like someone he wanted to know the name -i didnt tell him.the next day he was very cold he barely said hello.The day after that i had a migrene and he got drunk with some of the guys from our grade,and later ha asked me to sit next to him ,i was making fun of him being drunk,later he said that he finds me beautiful and asked me on a date,I said that he should ask me when sober,but he assured me that he was sober and started to hold my hand,and we were laughting it was great!!! the next day i was eager to see him ,at first we were flirting again but then he suddenly changed and he was very cold again, later on i found out from a friend that some guy from the 10th grade likes me and he said to Armen that he likes me too and that if theres nothing goin on with me and Armen,he should stay away from me for awhile,and Armen said to him that theres nothin going on between us,and that im free.Why he gave up when clearly we liked each other,im crying all day long and i dont know how to act around him when i see him again,should i say something or to play dum....please help me!!!(sorry if i made some mistakes Im Serbian)
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (20 November 2010):
 Tell Armen how you feel and maybe he will put up more of a fight if that other boy should ever threaten him again. He said that you are free and you ARE free, it is YOUR choice to make so do not let that 10th grade boy choose for you. He is threatening Armen so he will not talk to you or try to get close to you, if you tell Armen how you feel, the 10th Grade boy will have nothing.
I hope that helps.
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