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writes:For the boys, would you not wana date a girl who says the following: 'if u want, u can call me,' and 'i'd like to come see u orrr like in a flirty way ask 'y did u add me on fb' (hint hint) I was just tryna flirt but maybe it backfired? i suck at this! im no mystery! boys, how do u feel? im really not a 'rules' girl no matter how much i try :(
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 November 2010):
 I like a direct girl. I hate guessing games. I think it depends on the Guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso if he likes me, then none of this matters? i didnt exactly offer to come over, all i said was i really like where hes from and maybe some day ill teach there. but that might have made him think, oh shes so easy to get here....he liked when i was saying things like 'maybe' or 'i dont know' i think those are the only things a woman should say! damn this is hard! do u think its wrong to say, u can call me if u want? does that sound needy? i mean i am not calling him nor am i making ANY first moves from now on.....and if he does call, im gona sound like im really busy.....will that make him curious?
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (20 November 2010):
 hmmm thats tricky... the problem i find when women are agressive is the guy starts to ask himself whats the catch why is this hot chick talking to me this never happens.so alot of times that can turn the guy off hell he might assume your a dude. guys generally have to work at getting a number and work even harder at getting the girl to come over to his place.
knowing what you want and going for it is great and personally i like an aggressive female.. but if i got a msg like that on FB i would be cautious.
He added you so he must have liked you but i think you moved a little to fast men like to chase a bit. and offering to come over to his place.. you dont know him that well.. you should spend time getting to know and let him invite you over..
in my opinion you should let the guy do the talking men let a woman know if there interested... the only thing a female should do is maybe initiate things let the guy know shes available and if she likes him work with him.. for exp if a guy you like ask you for your number before you give it to him ask him if he is going to call.
you can help the guy out but play a little hard to get..
you cant really blow it with men in my opinion if they like you you cant screw up they will excuse it... if they dont like you you didnt screw up either because it doesnt matter they didnt like you an you cant change that. if a guy is attracted to you your pretty much good to go let him do the rest.
so my advice dont say anything else to this guy he added you let him finish what he started. you seem like a nice girl if he doesnt take you up on your offers im sure it will be his loss.
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