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writes: my question is confusing, but its important to me to know so any advice i get i appreciate. i dont understand why some guys call girls who do crazy things like; "trains" or sleep with whoever wants some; they call them foul names and make fun of them, but for some reason im convinced some guys actually like those kind of girls. im not that ind of girl, im wondering because close to every time ive been cheated on, its been with some girl who is really "friendly" with guys, which when im with a guy, he says that those type of girls are degrading and they would never sleep with a girl like that. i know i shouldnt be with a player, i do leave when im cheated on, but im wondering if even the guys who "look and dont touch" find these girls appealing. i know it sounds confusing, im just wondering if guys are lying when they say "that girl looks trashy" and why is it that those are the girls who end up sleeping with him. if its because she was available and they wanted some, or is it because they like the freakyness of her? i know the guys who cheated on me, wanted me to be faithful and not like that, but then they still wanted that on the side. im desperet for honest answers so thanks to all repliers
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): Both sexes show this phenomenon. They want a steady reliable person for a real relationship but they still want a trashy party animal when it's a quick fling without attachment.
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reader, WHISPERSOFMYSTERY  +, writes (20 November 2010):
 Girl let me tell you, guys in my neighbourhood like trashy so called girls, that's why I choose to be single in this neighbourhood, it's not like playerville, a lot of what the guys say about trashy girls is true and they like them only cuz they're easy, nothing more. Some girls would even force themselves on a guy and lets fact it, a lot of guys want sex and the trashy girls are there for that. I don't think its you at all, its the guys, if they can get more sex they'll take it. When I hear guys talk like that I try to scare them saying better watch out they might have a disease!!! but guys who cheat put girls in categories. 1 = Wife 2 = The trashy girl 3 = The one that buys him stuff, suga mama and some guys are used to having sex with trashy girls, that its an addiction. Anyways that's the way I see it and believe these reasons.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (20 November 2010):
 To put it in the simplest way guys may think those girls look trashy and they wouldnt want to take them home to mee there mams, but that is not going to stop them sleeping with them. men see these girls as easy and a quick lay so of course they are going to do it, dosnt mean they like them.
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