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writes:Well what do you think when your friend takes the girl your in love with even if you weren't dating this girl. I have been interested in this girl for longer than most people would have interest for. I have liked her for about 6 months and haven't really flirted to much with her but she does know that I like her. My friends tell me its a hopeless cause but F**k them haha, they all know i like her but about a month ago one of my friends hooked up with her and I sorta don't know what to think. Is it cool to hook up with one of your friends dream girls. I care about her a lot but I don't love her I just don't want to see her get hurt so I like her basically. My friend doesn't know that I know about them and there not dating but just some random hook ups. Personally the only thing I don't like is that he doesn't seem like he has any interest at all in her like she is just any other pretty face, but I find her really special and she makes me feel good. Im not hear to ask how I can get her to date me thats up to her, but what are some things I can do to get her to talk to me. Im not desperate she can like whoever she wants but I would like it a little more if I had some good things to talk about. I am just asking for fun/firty ways to talk to her get her interest and make her laugh. She is out of town so I probably won't see her to talk to for another week or so, Any ideas for like a Facebook message that would spark some interest or a text or something. idk if she would pick up if I call.Im not trying to get her to date me and honestly im not sure if I would date her, I just want to get a better friendship.thanks everyone
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (21 November 2010):
 Your friend hooked up with her because he asked her out while you're doing the equivalent of slipping her notes. If you stand by and settle for trying to make her laugh you will be passed by a lot of guys.
Just be honest that you want to date her and ask her out to a movie. You'll never get her by not trying and the world will not end if she says no. Besides, she just might say yes!
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 You could send an email to he Facebook (more personal and no one else sees it) and ask her if she had a good time when she was out of town. Tell her you've been meaning to send her an email and ask her if she fancies hanging out one day/night. If you don't want to be so bold as to ask her to hang out right away then ask her what she did when she was away and if she'd recommend the place. Once she responds then you respond back.
~Eve~
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): Write a wallpost, trying to remind her of a moment u both shared, like I saw that movie u said was shite the other day... U were rite lol, how's where u are? Xxx
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