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writes:Having just had a fabulous holiday in a smashing Hotel owned by a chain in the UK-I found myself very attracted to a younger man-much younger. He seemed interested although it was apparant he was going out with one of his work colleagues. He was always eyeing me up and didnt take his eyes off me-perhaps jsut a flirt but I never noticed him doing it to anyone else.The manager of the Hotel was quite strict with his staff and maybe he wasnt allowed to fraternise with the guests-thats how it appeared because everytime he saw the manager coming he would look a bit scared and not look at me.I have tracked this guy down via the Internet and he has a web page-my friend said e mail him which I have done notbing too strong but friendly and nice-hoepfully e mails do get to people via web pages??? I know he is going back to work in another Hotel with the same chain as the staff often get moved around -however I am reluctant to book another holiday with the same group (they have 4 hotels) in case he is there and much as Id love to I dont actually want to follow him around. I think they all finish their contracts this week and have a few weeks off-so if he is interested do you think he might e mail me or at least if he wanted to see me in the Hotel just as a friend wehere he will be working next in which case if the "offer" came from him it would be ok to go there even if nothing happened and we remained just friends.Could he be sscared of peer pressure from his younger friends but when he is out of their clutches could take an interest-I know he was seeing someone but that didnt stop him eyeing me up all the time and watching every move I made!!!!My friend says why dont I just e mail him tell him straight how I feel and if he doesnt reply its his loss-she syasy take the bull by the horns???? Anything else I can do???? Will he be cross or just flattered even if I am older (but quite glamerous!!!!)ps -dont forgethere is a large age difference am not expecting him to marry me!!!!!Thanks
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reader, BigSambo  +, writes (29 November 2010):
You said he was seeing someone he works with, so that might be one of the reasons he can't email you or contact you through your friend. I think he must have like you, otherwise why was he eyeing you alot. It does not make sense. I am sure there are other ways that you can email him or get in touch with him without his boss or possibly a girlfriend finding out. I have done that for a bank employee and managed to find her personal email, and it worked.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 Hi there, well if he was in a relationship then i think for most men it is ok to look but not to touch, you say you are quite glam so he may have been eying you up for this reason, dont go out there and declare your feelings for him as it might just backfire on you. I think you should leave it as it is now, you said you emailed him and yes it will get to him via his webpage, if he doesnt reply to that email then i think you should just accept that he doesnt want to reply and move on.
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