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*NCAPABLE ME
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months but we've known each other since we were 15. we were talkin about our sexual experiences and he brought up squirtin, something I have never done but hes made females do. so one night we decided to have sex and try it NOTHING. so we waited a while and tried it again NOTHING. I thought about givin up on acheiving this but me being the woman that I am I can't. He's doin everthing right im startin to think its something wrong with me what am I doin wrong or what can I do it fix this???
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reader, Hanox  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 I have only ever squirted once, i think he licked me out for like half an hour and then he had to finger me and lick me for another half an hour! Oh yeah, it hurts after abit but ask him to keep you wet and excited thats the key!
You will feel like you are about to have a wee sensation, it won't be wee! But when you feel that sensation, relax and it will be the best orgsim of your life! It does ma ke a mess but aye! The whole part of sex.
If you want it done quickly-- Ride him, and lean back and get him to tickle your clit. when you squirt, make sure he is gental with you afterwoods as it could be quite sore!
Good luck!
Sorry if this was abit to detailed!.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): "It is a unique and wonderful gift..."??? I strongly disagree with that. I hate the fact that I sometimes squirt. Anyway, if you really want to do it, try stimulating your clit very hard in an upright (sitting position). That does it for me, but I'm doing my best to keep it in. It only makes a mess I have to clean up afterwords and usually it makes my orgasm shorter.
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reader, ivanichiaynus +, writes (21 November 2010):
 The classic way of leading to a good squirt is to have him stimulate your g-spot, but it could take up to 30 minutes of attention.
Therefore, use plenty of lube so you don't get sore - and pee first!
It won't be pee, I promise, but a build-up of fluid (cum) in your urethral sponge. That's the bit behind your g-spot, which fills upon arousal.
Not sure how to find that elusive spot? It's on the front wall of your pussy about an inch or two in - feel for an area of rough skin and that's it!
He will need to get you fully aroused by rubbing, gently at first, then more firmly with a mixture of circular and receprocating movements over quite a long period of time, maybe sucking things as well to increase stimulation/arousal.
Do not be afraid to relax and let yourself go; you won't pee. Also, don't try too hard but enjoy the journey and forget the destination.
Ivan.
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reader, UNCAPABLE ME +, writes (21 November 2010):
UNCAPABLE ME is verified as being by the original poster of the question I haven't done it at all not even a little bit.I always get tha feeling that im about to but it never comes out.
I don't hink he's tryin compare me to his ex's jus stating that he's done it before. foreplay is nice ill try and do a little of that that's one thing we haven't tried.
thanks for the advice updates later
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): It is a unique and wonderful gift, treasured by those who appreciate what it is.
But it's not the end of the world if you can't
some women can never do it.
Some women eventually create the right conditions but can then only dribble.
Some woman do it on rare occasions and don't always realise why it happens occasionally, not always.
Some women do it every time without even trying.
Some women are even upset it happens or have their partners complain about it.
It does take a huge amount of foreplay by the partner to even set up the right conditions, in most cases. Certainly for most women, for the first time.
You could try some extended masterbation, alone, to work out what and how most sends you over the edge.
However your partner should NOT be comparing you with his previous partners. He should appreciate who you are and what is special about you. I do think your partner is putting too much pressure on you over this. Perhaps also you could seriously develop your fellatio skills so he can find that you have other gifts that his ex did not have. Read up the articles on this site - there are some great tips there.
If he still persists and still says squirting is very important to him perhaps he should go back to his ex?
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