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writes: i'm stuck between picking three girls. two are in a relation ship. one i've known for seven years. the others i've known for a few weeks. the one i've known for seven years is in a relationship. one of the two i've known for a few weeks i comunicate with a lot. and the third is sweet, gorgious, and in a relationship. help! Reply to this Question
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reader, LovelessAct1  +, writes (20 November 2010):
Whoa whoa whoa whoa...whoa. Hold on there pal, if you have to sit and choose between women, you aren't ready to be in a relationship. You need to pursue someone that you truly like and really want to be with; and that includes choosing to be with them over everyone else. If you can't make that decision, do these girls a favor and don't date any of them.
Relationships are supposed to special on every level. Take some time and think about what you're saying. If just one of these girls isn't special enough to capture your heart by herself, then you need to wait until you find someone that does. Don't feel you need to rush to be in a relationship. You'll have TONS of opportunities and one special one will come along. Good luck.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (20 November 2010):
 Do not enter a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship. Enter a relationship with your heart and soul. Choose none.
Even if you COULD choose any, why would you ever consider pursuing someone who is in a relationship? Why would you seek a relationship with someone who you have only known for a few weeks? This is why people in their early teens are often met with ridicule when it comes to romance. You do not know, you CANNOT know what you want until much later. Your body is fluctuating and will keep on fluctuating for years and that is why you cannot maintain a stable relationship. At this point, I assume you think that what I say is pointless, you are probably looking for other advice because you do not agree with me.
So be it. You already know which one is available, so see for yourself how it will end with the immaturity you still have. I am not blaming you or trying to offend you, but your body has not even developed yet, you cannot know what maturity truly is.
I hope that helps.
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