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writes:Hello all,I have a huge problem that has really started to get to me and has taken over my life for a couple of years. I am overly obsessed with a guy!I am in a perfectly happy relationship but cannot get a man I once had in my life out of my mind. I check his facebook every single day, have dreams about him and talk about him whenever I get the chance. Just to prove how crazy I am, I have not seen him for over a year now but I am still this obsessed. My friends say my eyes even light up and sparkle when I talk about him.When we met, we spent some wonderful days together and established that we both liked each other but then one day he promised he would call and never did. I never heard anything again. I do not understand what went wrong and it kills me inside that I may never know why he suddenly did not want me. (everyone was saying how he liked me a lot)I wanted to tell him how I felt before the relationship I have now by making a fake facebook page and writing my feelings down in a message to him and see if he answers/discovers who I am and feels the same but it never happened and I never wanted to ask our mutual acquaintances why he cut off our relationship because I am scared they would tell him/laugh at me for being the "crazy obsessed girl!!!" Please help me somebody! I love my boyfriend and he loves me dearly and is the sweetest guy on earth and I am obsessed over someone who I do not know even remembers me. How do I get over it? What action shall I take? This is ruining my current relationship and my life because I can sometimes not concentrate on anything but my feelings. Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2010): ~LIVE, LAUGH & LOVE~
I bet you have a pretty smile. Even you miss it.
Delete that fake account. You're real and invaluable.
Free your boyfriend. He is deservant of love not rebound.
Get counseling.
~YOUR SPECIAL SOMEONE WILL ARRIVE BEFORE YOU KNOW IT SO GET ON THE BALL WITH REGAINING YOUR PRETTY SMILE~
La la la...*sigh*
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reader, hiro06  +, writes (20 November 2010):
Ok, I read a very interesting post on my friends fb status that said " A heart break is a blessing from God, its just his way of making you realize that he saved you from the wrong one" As kids/children we always want what we cant have and we often spend days wondering how life would be if we had that same new shiny toy. The same thing applies here. I get what you are saying, but be honest with yourself do you truly have feelings for him? Write him on facebook and request to have lunch with him see if you still are attracted to him. Its not cheating just let your current bf know that you are having lunch with an old friend. And if the feelings are still there see where it can go. If feelings between you two do develop just be honest with your current bf and end things with him. No offense, yes its not healthy to obsessed over someone like that and is basically warnings sign for him just make sure to keep your creepiness under control lol. A man always has a reason he doesnt call a women find out why he didnt call you before you actually pursue something with him just to avoid heart break again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): I think you should send him in an email. Explain to him everything and maybe you'll get the answers you want. If he doesn't reply then i really think it's time to start moving on. Delete him from facebook. Enjoy your life with your boyfriend.
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